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can you be in love
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bee wrote:
and not be serious 

is that thing 
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Date: 17-02-2026 07:11 | Times changed: 1
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Olympus wrote:
being in love implies a level of seriousness 
I think you can be infatuated/adore/like someone and not be serious 
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bee wrote:
Olympus wrote:
being in love implies a level of seriousness 
I think you can be infatuated/adore/like someone and not be serious 
yea youre probably right sorry im just in a moment right now 
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Date: 17-02-2026 07:42
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Olympus wrote:
bee wrote:
Olympus wrote:
being in love implies a level of seriousness 
I think you can be infatuated/adore/like someone and not be serious 
yea youre probably right sorry im just in a moment right now 
don't be sorry!
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bee wrote:
i need to write in my diary 
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Date: 17-02-2026 08:15
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Hauru wrote:
depends on what you define as love? People can love someone and not want to be in a relationship or do not want to pursue it because they rather want the attention than anything else. Not being serious can mean a lot of different things doesnt mean its bad just that it means something different for everyone
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meilin wrote:
is this about the italian guy? i feel sus when men say they're in love but don't want to commit
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Date: 17-02-2026 12:10
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bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
is this about the italian guy? i feel sus when men say they're in love but don't want to commit
uuuuhh yes it is :/ 
he didnt say that he was in love, only that he didnt wanna commit. and like thats fair but im infuriated bc i dont want commitment either but i just cant help falling in love and i just want to allow myself to fall in love for once like does it really have to be so serious !!! sad 
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:25
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bee wrote:
Hauru wrote:
depends on what you define as love? People can love someone and not want to be in a relationship or do not want to pursue it because they rather want the attention than anything else. Not being serious can mean a lot of different things doesnt mean its bad just that it means something different for everyone
idek im just tired of holding back my feelings because all guys are emotionally unavailable and scared of anything serious and apparently having a feeling is too serious 
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:29
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bee wrote:
im struggling so much mentally and physically and just in life generally i dont want no relationship cant a girl just fall in love and be happy
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:31
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meilin wrote:
bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
is this about the italian guy? i feel sus when men say they're in love but don't want to commit
uuuuhh yes it is :/ 
he didnt say that he was in love, only that he didnt wanna commit. and like thats fair but im infuriated bc i dont want commitment either but i just cant help falling in love and i just want to allow myself to fall in love for once like does it really have to be so serious !!!  
awssh :c i can't remember everything you shared about him but it seems like he's giving some mixed signals? one moment he wants to cook with/for you and the next he's kind of pulling back? like idk him and even i'm confused what he's trying to do  is he aware that you don't want commitment either? what would this non-committed love look like, just chilling together but you can still both see other people?
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bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
is this about the italian guy? i feel sus when men say they're in love but don't want to commit
uuuuhh yes it is :/ 
he didnt say that he was in love, only that he didnt wanna commit. and like thats fair but im infuriated bc i dont want commitment either but i just cant help falling in love and i just want to allow myself to fall in love for once like does it really have to be so serious !!!  
awssh :c i can't remember everything you shared about him but it seems like he's giving some mixed signals? one moment he wants to cook with/for you and the next he's kind of pulling back? like idk him and even i'm confused what he's trying to do  is he aware that you don't want commitment either? what would this non-committed love look like, just chilling together but you can still both see other people?
actually im really sick rn and im realizing i cant reply to all this currently (sorry) tbh i really dont know i just want to be with him, near him, and its a horrible feeling 
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:35
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meilin wrote:
bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
bee wrote:
uuuuhh yes it is :/ 
he didnt say that he was in love, only that he didnt wanna commit. and like thats fair but im infuriated bc i dont want commitment either but i just cant help falling in love and i just want to allow myself to fall in love for once like does it really have to be so serious !!!  
awssh :c i can't remember everything you shared about him but it seems like he's giving some mixed signals? one moment he wants to cook with/for you and the next he's kind of pulling back? like idk him and even i'm confused what he's trying to do  is he aware that you don't want commitment either? what would this non-committed love look like, just chilling together but you can still both see other people?
actually im really sick rn and im realizing i cant reply to all this currently (sorry) tbh i really dont know i just want to be with him, near him, and its a horrible feeling 
no worries!! <33 ugh i really hope this all works out in your favor and you can do all the lovey dovey things in your terms
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:37
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fujiwara wrote:
me and my partner are silly and goofy constantly. so in that sense we r not serious.
but we are committed to each other now, if thats the type of serious u are talking about. and that is because i do believe we can be in love (2 early 2 tell for me, i think...). 
i think if ur actually in love there has to be an established relationship between u both, or then ur just falling in love for the sake of it and might not actually love THAT person... so a bit serious... yes?
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bee wrote:
fujiwara wrote:
me and my partner are silly and goofy constantly. so in that sense we r not serious.
but we are committed to each other now, if thats the type of serious u are talking about. and that is because i do believe we can be in love (2 early 2 tell for me, i think...). 
i think if ur actually in love there has to be an established relationship between u both, or then ur just falling in love for the sake of it and might not actually love THAT person... so a bit serious... yes?
ok yes you are right im more in love with the idea of him than the actually person he is. but it just makes me want to know him more and see where it all goes if we know each other more intimately and then perhaps for real in love. idk maybe its all just bc im lonely and he is so pretty 
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:44
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bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
bee wrote:
meilin wrote:
awssh :c i can't remember everything you shared about him but it seems like he's giving some mixed signals? one moment he wants to cook with/for you and the next he's kind of pulling back? like idk him and even i'm confused what he's trying to do  is he aware that you don't want commitment either? what would this non-committed love look like, just chilling together but you can still both see other people?
actually im really sick rn and im realizing i cant reply to all this currently (sorry) tbh i really dont know i just want to be with him, near him, and its a horrible feeling 
no worries!! <33 ugh i really hope this all works out in your favor and you can do all the lovey dovey things in your terms
thank you <3 but tbh im pretty sure its not gonna go anywhere, i should just let it go
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Date: 18-02-2026 14:47
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