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is it ok to forgive yourself
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
if the other person has not forgiven you?
what do you guys think
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Date: 19-04-2026 16:44
Olympus
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Olympus wrote:
Well yes, at some point!...you have to regardless bc you'll just beat yourself up if you don't and that doesn't serve you or them in the long run, but yk

like not forgiving yourself doesn't get you closer to the goal of receiving their forgiveness or making any meaningful change, or what may have you so 
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Date: 19-04-2026 16:51
Olympus
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Olympus wrote:
but also just because we forgive ourselves, doesn't mean they will, so we should still move with that awareness and not pretend like nothing happened
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Date: 19-04-2026 16:52
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Olympus wrote:
Well yes, at some point!...you have to regardless bc you'll just beat yourself up if you don't and that doesn't serve you or them in the long run, but yk

like not forgiving yourself doesn't get you closer to the goal of receiving their forgiveness or making any meaningful change, or what may have you so 
i guess i look at it from a different angle
if you dont feel guilt there is nothing to forgive, because youre not sorry
i personally dont want someones apology if its clear they dont feel bad about what was done
(in my opinion)
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Date: 19-04-2026 16:54
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i dont even understand the self forgiveness thing at all i guess
because why would it matter if i forgive myself? who tf cares you know, if i wasnt the one hurt then forgiving myself means nothing
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Date: 19-04-2026 16:56
Tri
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Tri wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i dont even understand the self forgiveness thing at all i guess
because why would it matter if i forgive myself? who tf cares you know, if i wasnt the one hurt then forgiving myself means nothing
What do you consider self-forgiveness to be? What do you think it looks like in practice?

If the person you've wronged doesn't want to forgive you, or is completely unable to, what would you do?
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Date: 19-04-2026 20:31
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Tri wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i dont even understand the self forgiveness thing at all i guess
because why would it matter if i forgive myself? who tf cares you know, if i wasnt the one hurt then forgiving myself means nothing
What do you consider self-forgiveness to be? What do you think it looks like in practice?

If the person you've wronged doesn't want to forgive you, or is completely unable to, what would you do?
moving on from it i guess
acting like its over and done with
if they arent able to or dont want to, i just stop talking to that person until they are able to see a change in me so that maybe they can forgive me
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Date: 19-04-2026 21:29
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