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Solar wrote:
how tf do i deal with wanting to be both genders i cant do it i cant gaaahhhh bites my pillow and shakes head ferociously 
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Date: 21-09-2026 19:36
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Solar wrote:
i need them to figure out irl vr already let me FULLY customise my avatar PLEASE PLEASE!!!! PLEEEEAASEE
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Date: 21-09-2026 19:37
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bones wrote:
i just dissociate from my body and accept other people will never see me as i truly feel
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Date: 21-09-2026 20:08
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Solar wrote:
bones wrote:
i just dissociate from my body and accept other people will never see me as i truly feel
guess i'll have to continue living thru other ppl .... : ( 
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Date: 21-09-2026 20:37
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Sylvan wrote:
idk working out made it a bit better for me but I don't wanna be both genders I'm just uncomfortable with some features and how I'm perceived but honestly I respect most people so little that idc that much anymore. 

so I don't have any real advice sorry.
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Date: 21-09-2026 20:53
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Miguel wrote:
i guess it depends on the person mmmmmm 
im not necessarily inclined to say i identify as both binary genders but i do like traits from each and im kinda trying to work on getting them. this is easier if you feel totally convinced on having a specific trait ??? like lets say a flat chest always but bigger hips, or breasts but a non curvy body type.... but yea
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:09
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Solar wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
idk working out made it a bit better for me but I don't wanna be both genders I'm just uncomfortable with some features and how I'm perceived but honestly I respect most people so little that idc that much anymore. 

so I don't have any real advice sorry.
you know what i think being a little buff would actually help me ! and health wise it would also be good for me. however, i hate hate hate hate hate the gym so gaahh... actually just cancelled my subscription two months ago or so ... ;w; 
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:40
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Solar wrote:
Miguel wrote:
i guess it depends on the person mmmmmm 
im not necessarily inclined to say i identify as both binary genders but i do like traits from each and im kinda trying to work on getting them. this is easier if you feel totally convinced on having a specific trait ??? like lets say a flat chest always but bigger hips, or breasts but a non curvy body type.... but yea
mmm i think i get what ur saying yes... thikning more in terms of specific attainable traits nd not a complete female or male body? 
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:41
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Miguel wrote:
Solar wrote:
Miguel wrote:
i guess it depends on the person mmmmmm 
im not necessarily inclined to say i identify as both binary genders but i do like traits from each and im kinda trying to work on getting them. this is easier if you feel totally convinced on having a specific trait ??? like lets say a flat chest always but bigger hips, or breasts but a non curvy body type.... but yea
mmm i think i get what ur saying yes... thikning more in terms of specific attainable traits nd not a complete female or male body? 
yes, but it also still depends on your preferences ofc :3. maybe u identify as both but still want all traits from one of them, or want a special third option/some middle ground? if that makes sense?
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:43
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Miguel wrote:
just keep in mind that almost everything if not everything can be changed one way or another, although some traits may be harder to change than others . visualize a lot but dont get too obsessed 
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:44
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Solar wrote:
Miguel wrote:
Solar wrote:
Miguel wrote:
i guess it depends on the person mmmmmm 
im not necessarily inclined to say i identify as both binary genders but i do like traits from each and im kinda trying to work on getting them. this is easier if you feel totally convinced on having a specific trait ??? like lets say a flat chest always but bigger hips, or breasts but a non curvy body type.... but yea
mmm i think i get what ur saying yes... thikning more in terms of specific attainable traits nd not a complete female or male body? 
yes, but it also still depends on your preferences ofc :3. maybe u identify as both but still want all traits from one of them, or want a special third option/some middle ground? if that makes sense?
my real true absolute wish would be to be able to switch each day depending on how i feel : ( which is tough!! bc if i'd just want to be one gender i could just be that gender but iknow transitioning to male wouldn't work bc i'd miss being a girl too gahh 

i did get a breast reduction so thats amazing already!!! (lowk wanted them a bit smaller but wasnt doable) so now i dont have the biggest milkers out there anymore which really helped w my body image
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Date: 21-09-2026 22:45
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elisia wrote:
Wear a binder and a skirt 7/10
Add boxers 8/10
Add heavy shoes (I wear men's work shoes) 9/10

And I have perfume and cologne if I want to lean one way or the other
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Date: 22-09-2026 03:30
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elisia wrote:
I also made a lot of pic crew's of myself. Like one a week, alternating bases (male and female) and made them look exactly like me that week, then had my bf rate their accuracy. That helped me a lot with loving my self image and representation
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Date: 22-09-2026 03:32
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Solar wrote:
elisia wrote:
I also made a lot of pic crew's of myself. Like one a week, alternating bases (male and female) and made them look exactly like me that week, then had my bf rate their accuracy. That helped me a lot with loving my self image and representation
wow that's really cool!!! i love that 
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Date: 22-09-2026 09:42
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devilcake wrote:
I let trans health care brainwash me into being just one 😔
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Date: 22-09-2026 10:45
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Solar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I let trans health care brainwash me into being just one 😔
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Date: 22-09-2026 12:05
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