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Allie
Queen of Pop

Allie wrote:

Donkeyboy wrote:
Lmao, it remind me of when 2 of my "friends" talked shit about me + were so pissed of just because I was going to write a poem about autumn. We were like 16 at the time. It's fucking hilarious tbh.

aww

Brynhild
World famous

Brynhild wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

Brynhild wrote:
I think that the most hurtful thing which was said behind my back (and of which I have knowledge) was people who said that I looked mean and that I judged absolutely everyone, so people must have to avoid me. Which is entirely false (well, I don't think I'm mean xD). And one of the people who said that explained to me that she thought that partly because of my appearance (??).

I do social anxiety and do not talk to many people, but I watch what happens arround me ... and I don't care about who does what and who says what. Things were even more difficult after that.

I find it weird to judge people by their looks

O.o its sth else if someone keeps looking at with a hoeface

But like.. u r just existing.. and

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I dress mostly in black, I have some piercings, a metal / goth look but sober. And even though ??
The worst part was that it was not being very young. It was my last year of school, people were between 20 and 30 years old

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September wrote:

Donkeyboy wrote:
Lmao, it remind me of when 2 of my "friends" talked shit about me + were so pissed of just because I was going to write a poem about autumn. We were like 16 at the time. It's fucking hilarious tbh.

aww

They were so mad that we had to have a meeting with the school counselor

Brynhild
World famous

Brynhild wrote:

September wrote:
I lost my old job after i questioned my boss' attitude to the hr. He swore in the phone and refused to believe i got 23 hours less then i should in my paycheck.
However one of the bosses told her son, which is/was my bf's and my friend. That i got fired because i hid stuff and dirt under trashcans and shit like that. Her son is an ass and always spread shit aswell so my friends spread it too behind my back and used it against me. WHY IN HELL WOULD I PUT DIRT BEHIND A TRASHCAN. I worked as a cleaner. Maybe i missed one time, lmao. assholes.

Wow, that's so rude and dumb.

Allie
Queen of Pop

Allie wrote:

Donkeyboy wrote:

September wrote:

Donkeyboy wrote:
Lmao, it remind me of when 2 of my "friends" talked shit about me + were so pissed of just because I was going to write a poem about autumn. We were like 16 at the time. It's fucking hilarious tbh.

aww

They were so mad that we had to have a meeting with the school counselor

oh damn.
ah well.. my bf and his friend got called to the principals office once too because they always dissed eachother. but it was jokes only but they thought they were fighting for real when they screamed "faaaaaaaaaaaat asss" to eachother in the corridor

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:
Guess I'm not interesting enough

But people like to annoy me straigth face to face and i try to act like nothing happend lmao

Hard mask

honestly, I prefer that treatment over rumours
sure, it's hard because you get all the shit straight to your face and have to cope with it in the moment as well
but at least you know where you're standing with the person in question and don't start doubting if they really are nice to you or if it's just a farce so they can talk more behind your back

I agree of course i prefer this but people forget that there is a 3rd option
Its C) leave me alone bitch

I'm really just talking abt people i have nothing to do with. A fight and sharing ur opinion is ok but people often think I am a good target, so they annoy me for no reason. Thats SOOO annoying. Someone in my class complained abt how I was very hardworking and interested in listening and she said I'm fake??

U know that I do that for my grades right?? Omggg
I hate high school lmao

yeah, true, the leave people the f* alobe really should be made more popular

like ... do these guys have like no problem whatsoever that they have to create shit like this or is this their way of coping with not being able to get on with their life? I don't get it...

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Brynhild wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

Brynhild wrote:
I think that the most hurtful thing which was said behind my back (and of which I have knowledge) was people who said that I looked mean and that I judged absolutely everyone, so people must have to avoid me. Which is entirely false (well, I don't think I'm mean xD). And one of the people who said that explained to me that she thought that partly because of my appearance (??).

I do social anxiety and do not talk to many people, but I watch what happens arround me ... and I don't care about who does what and who says what. Things were even more difficult after that.

I find it weird to judge people by their looks

O.o its sth else if someone keeps looking at with a hoeface

But like.. u r just existing.. and

Off

I dress mostly in black, I have some piercings, a metal / goth look but sober. And even though ??
The worst part was that it was not being very young. It was my last year of school, people were between 20 and 30 years old

This is no excuse for me at all this just proves how weird people are to me
But hey, I'm sorry!! I dress in black too, so i look less fat xD I always hear I am a negative person and depressed but somehow i laugh more than them? It just doesn't make sense.

Same to people eho look at girls with a lot of make up and describing them as dolls.

It makes me so mad...

Gosh we r humans stop acting this way are u 7

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

September wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

September wrote:
I lost my old job after i questioned my boss' attitude to the hr. He swore in the phone and refused to believe i got 23 hours less then i should in my paycheck.
However one of the bosses told her son, which is/was my bf's and my friend. That i got fired because i hid stuff and dirt under trashcans and shit like that. Her son is an ass and always spread shit aswell so my friends spread it too behind my back and used it against me. WHY IN HELL WOULD I PUT DIRT BEHIND A TRASHCAN. I worked as a cleaner. Maybe i missed one time, lmao. assholes.

dafuq
these accusations are even so dumb, like ... who would even believe that???
plus, sure, everyone makes a mistake once or twice, but that's like low-key idiotic to claim - like who even thinks such shit would be valid to talk about someone?

so when i was really sad and down over this.. loosing a job as i thought only dumbasses loses their job.. they didn't have my back. my so called "friends". they argumented against me. Sure there's always 2+ sides of a story. But i can atleast prove mine through messages, my collegue and my paycheck and my schedule so like. fu

ut rest assured, not only dumbasses lose their job, this is a valid case on how everybody can lose their job
well, tbh, I doubt they even cared if what you were saying was true or not

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September wrote:

Donkeyboy wrote:

September wrote:
aww

They were so mad that we had to have a meeting with the school counselor

oh damn.
ah well.. my bf and his friend got called to the principals office once too because they always dissed eachother. but it was jokes only but they thought they were fighting for real when they screamed "faaaaaaaaaaaat asss" to eachother in the corridor

Hahaha omg.

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MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

honestly, I prefer that treatment over rumours
sure, it's hard because you get all the shit straight to your face and have to cope with it in the moment as well
but at least you know where you're standing with the person in question and don't start doubting if they really are nice to you or if it's just a farce so they can talk more behind your back

I agree of course i prefer this but people forget that there is a 3rd option
Its C) leave me alone bitch

I'm really just talking abt people i have nothing to do with. A fight and sharing ur opinion is ok but people often think I am a good target, so they annoy me for no reason. Thats SOOO annoying. Someone in my class complained abt how I was very hardworking and interested in listening and she said I'm fake??

U know that I do that for my grades right?? Omggg
I hate high school lmao

yeah, true, the leave people the f* alobe really should be made more popular

like ... do these guys have like no problem whatsoever that they have to create shit like this or is this their way of coping with not being able to get on with their life? I don't get it...

Thisssssss

Allie
Queen of Pop

Allie wrote:
I have so many tho!!

- One about that I was lesbian.
- Another one that i had to be virgin. one even said "yeah but even tho she has a boyfriend, she could be virgin" as if it was a bad thing. Sidenote: i wasn't virgin.
- one guy went around saying i had a little ass and that i should do squats more

uh..
so much sexual bullshit

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September wrote:
I have so many tho!!

- One about that I was lesbian.
- Another one that i had to be virgin. one even said "yeah but even tho she has a boyfriend, she could be virgin" as if it was a bad thing. Sidenote: i wasn't virgin.
- one guy went around saying i had a little ass and that i should do squats more

uh..
so much sexual bullshit

Lmaoooooooo

MasileinDE
International star

MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:
Hhhhhhhh u know
I really have a crush on u

I do have that impact on some people
the others usually can't work with me at all and dislike me as a person (they're the bigger part)
but I like you too, so it's all right

Thats so kind of u but srsly i never saw u being annoying or rude at all. I really want to understand how someone could have a problem with u? For me u r like 100% mature and lovely and I am not lying by saying i wish i had half of the self estem, strength and intelligence.

I rarely look at people and wish i could get a slice of their personality but damn u r just sooo fine!!

oh gosh, dear, you want screenshots?
I can make you some, because believe me, if you annoy me hard enough, I will be your nightmare!
actually, as a little life advice from my part: it all starts going upwards when you start to think "screw you all, I'm worth my time and my happiness and I worked for it and though you may ruin my day, you won't be able to ruin my life because I rock at being me!"

Nateai
Streetmusician

Nateai wrote:
My friend told me(a year later) that the rest of the people in our group talked about me behind my back. Stuff like I lied to them and lied to get away from them and that I lied about family problems and my brothers having autism.

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MasileinDE wrote:

Jahnam wrote:

MasileinDE wrote:

I do have that impact on some people
the others usually can't work with me at all and dislike me as a person (they're the bigger part)
but I like you too, so it's all right

Thats so kind of u but srsly i never saw u being annoying or rude at all. I really want to understand how someone could have a problem with u? For me u r like 100% mature and lovely and I am not lying by saying i wish i had half of the self estem, strength and intelligence.

I rarely look at people and wish i could get a slice of their personality but damn u r just sooo fine!!

oh gosh, dear, you want screenshots?
I can make you some, because believe me, if you annoy me hard enough, I will be your nightmare!
actually, as a little life advice from my part: it all starts going upwards when you start to think "screw you all, I'm worth my time and my happiness and I worked for it and though you may ruin my day, you won't be able to ruin my life because I rock at being me!"

Shiiiiitttt this energyy makes me sooo no-hetero hahahahaha
I want a boyfriend like u
Or a girlfriend
Or a child like u
Give me some education tipps when i get pregnant, thank u