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VanityVogue wrote:
There's nothing I hate more than seeing people get offended when it has nothing to do with them. For example I'm white, but I'm not racist, so when someone says something racist about poc for example, I get upset. But if someone who is actually a poc says that it wasn't racist and offensive, I'm not gonna get offended by it. If an actual poc isn't offended, me getting offended just makes me look like a narcissistic idiot!! I only get offended by things that have to do with me and my community, otherwise it's not my place to get involved lol!! But if someone says something racist that's clearly offensive, I'm definitely gonna say something, even though I'm not a poc!! There are lots of things we need to take into consideration before we talk or act!!
Bless ur heart! here we won't only question the intention of the "offender" but the "offended" too ... there are some... i wud say most, who once they get offended by smth they start attacking the other party "offender" without even knowing whether or not that party is addressing that certain topic out of goodwill or not.
There's nothing I hate more than seeing people get offended when it has nothing to do with them. For example I'm white, but I'm not racist, so when someone says something racist about poc for example, I get upset. But if someone who is actually a poc says that it wasn't racist and offensive, I'm not gonna get offended by it. If an actual poc isn't offended, me getting offended just makes me look like a narcissistic idiot!! I only get offended by things that have to do with me and my community, otherwise it's not my place to get involved lol!! But if someone says something racist that's clearly offensive, I'm definitely gonna say something, even though I'm not a poc!! There are lots of things we need to take into consideration before we talk or act!!