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creepinstall wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:

creepinstall wrote:
matt is the lead singer
yeah she made a daddy kink vid - really gross.

it confused me at first too, but then i read a lot abt on sites for trans people and further more from the mouths of someone who was actually nb, and it helped me a lot.

Glad I don't like The 1975 then xD
a wa wa? That exists >.< - that's like when Donald Trump talked about his own daughter.

I'm glad. I'm trying to understand & I talk openly with others that I don't always understand it so hopefully soon it can start making more sense :3 It's nice to have heard another description/definition

I can link you some articles that could help your understanding?

Sure, I'm open :3

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DadooDattoo wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:

DadooDattoo wrote:
By doing various google searches about privileges. Feel free to send me a fancy list of all possible privileges so that I can cross over the ones I don't have tho.

Omg, same! My mum also has that, so I guess it runs in our family or something? Good common ground -- bad joints xd

Hmm I may need to look through some soon (maybe not tonight as I am not in my best head xD It would probably wash over me as I'm so tired). Hmm the main ones I can think of are; Age, Gender, Sexuality, Race, Ability/Disability, Class.

Really? I wasn't expecting that xD Yeah we believe my grandma had it & then it may run in other parts of her side of the family. Yeah my joints are because of my DNA. I'm the only one in my household with it but my mum & dad have characteristics of it (my mum has flat feet but my dad has flexible joints and gets bad back & neck pain).
Ikr not the best thing to have in common. However I'm actually really happy to find out I'm not the only one with it. People either think I'm sort of making it up (as it doesn't leave me bed ridden) or try and tell me they think they have it (which at times, can be - but I think others tell it me as it strangely happens when I tell them about my joints because they ask why I can freeze my exam time & etc.)

Wait, how is age a privilege? :0 Are younger more privileged since they get off easier or?

I don't know anyone else in my family to have it besides my mom and me. The worst part is that to my friends it sounds fun since I can easily sit in some weird positions -- or at least I could when I was younger -- to me it sucks due to all the pain it causes. Like right now I have to wear a support thingy on my knee. Idek how it does it, but it keeps the pain at minimum as well as helps me walk without a bad limp.

it's called ageism

Gothgirl
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gothgirl wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:

creepinstall wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:
Glad I don't like The 1975 then xD
a wa wa? That exists >.< - that's like when Donald Trump talked about his own daughter.

I'm glad. I'm trying to understand & I talk openly with others that I don't always understand it so hopefully soon it can start making more sense :3 It's nice to have heard another description/definition

I can link you some articles that could help your understanding?

Sure, I'm open :3

http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Non-binary

there's more at the end of the page that links to more information

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shoot wrote:
my fandoms are all gay so

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DadooDattoo wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:

DadooDattoo wrote:
By doing various google searches about privileges. Feel free to send me a fancy list of all possible privileges so that I can cross over the ones I don't have tho.

Omg, same! My mum also has that, so I guess it runs in our family or something? Good common ground -- bad joints xd

Hmm I may need to look through some soon (maybe not tonight as I am not in my best head xD It would probably wash over me as I'm so tired). Hmm the main ones I can think of are; Age, Gender, Sexuality, Race, Ability/Disability, Class.

Really? I wasn't expecting that xD Yeah we believe my grandma had it & then it may run in other parts of her side of the family. Yeah my joints are because of my DNA. I'm the only one in my household with it but my mum & dad have characteristics of it (my mum has flat feet but my dad has flexible joints and gets bad back & neck pain).
Ikr not the best thing to have in common. However I'm actually really happy to find out I'm not the only one with it. People either think I'm sort of making it up (as it doesn't leave me bed ridden) or try and tell me they think they have it (which at times, can be - but I think others tell it me as it strangely happens when I tell them about my joints because they ask why I can freeze my exam time & etc.)

Wait, how is age a privilege? :0 Are younger more privileged since they get off easier or?

I don't know anyone else in my family to have it besides my mom and me. The worst part is that to my friends it sounds fun since I can easily sit in some weird positions -- or at least I could when I was younger -- to me it sucks due to all the pain it causes. Like right now I have to wear a support thingy on my knee. Idek how it does it, but it keeps the pain at minimum as well as helps me walk without a bad limp.

It can be. You, my friend, have never been on public transport. I've never been scrutinised myself but I've had friends who have. It can be taken from both ends - older generations have been oppressed in a sense that "they don't understand anything" or etc. Younger generations have been in a sense that "they are all just menaces". Admittedly, it's one I don't know a heck of a lot about but it is apparent. I don't know it completely due to the fact that I've heard it from two different point of views - Young & Old.

I don't for definite, it's more what me and my mum speculate

. Omg yes! At times it has been funny, it was funny watching the doctors play with my limbs - but mine was because they say I have the hypermobility in different ways than usual (such as my thumbs aren't affected but the rest of my fingers are). Aw sad

my wrists can be the worst at times and I have to wrap them in bandages and put on a support thing too & take Joint Anadin.
Ikr! I find the support just keeps the joint in place & stops it moving. The worst can be when I feel my jaw/hips (threaten) to move out of place. My joints don't dislocate but it's just as painful when they threaten to instead as sometimes they just stick inbetween >.<

I'm supposed to do pilates to help it but since I stopped going the class due to my exams, I've lost the motivation to push myself to do it at home :/

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creepinstall wrote:

DadooDattoo wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:
Hmm I may need to look through some soon (maybe not tonight as I am not in my best head xD It would probably wash over me as I'm so tired). Hmm the main ones I can think of are; Age, Gender, Sexuality, Race, Ability/Disability, Class.

Really? I wasn't expecting that xD Yeah we believe my grandma had it & then it may run in other parts of her side of the family. Yeah my joints are because of my DNA. I'm the only one in my household with it but my mum & dad have characteristics of it (my mum has flat feet but my dad has flexible joints and gets bad back & neck pain).
Ikr not the best thing to have in common. However I'm actually really happy to find out I'm not the only one with it. People either think I'm sort of making it up (as it doesn't leave me bed ridden) or try and tell me they think they have it (which at times, can be - but I think others tell it me as it strangely happens when I tell them about my joints because they ask why I can freeze my exam time & etc.)

Wait, how is age a privilege? :0 Are younger more privileged since they get off easier or?

I don't know anyone else in my family to have it besides my mom and me. The worst part is that to my friends it sounds fun since I can easily sit in some weird positions -- or at least I could when I was younger -- to me it sucks due to all the pain it causes. Like right now I have to wear a support thingy on my knee. Idek how it does it, but it keeps the pain at minimum as well as helps me walk without a bad limp.

it's called ageism

Ah yeah, I went through and explained it but didn't mention the name xD

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creepinstall wrote:

Quinzelle wrote:

creepinstall wrote:
I can link you some articles that could help your understanding?

Sure, I'm open :3

http://gender.wikia.com/wiki/Non-binary

there's more at the end of the page that links to more information

wow that was a lot to take in. I may need to go through that again sometime (as mentioned before, I am tired as heck). It's kinda opened up a bit more, as I see it's not simply no gender, but it's also created a lot more questions.
Is it just me who feels a few overlap each other?

Thank you for the link - definitely need to remember to have another look, though.