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liv wrote:
so i’ve been talking to this guy for months and it’s nothing serious like we literally never talked about anything we just kept replying to each other for some reason but anyway he had been saying he was coming somewhere near me and told me he would like to meet up but i never gave him a YES answer i just asked him about it. i think i said maybe ONCE. anyway today he hit me up and said he was gonna be around soon and he wanted to meet up and i straight up told him i’m sorry i can’t i have work im busy like i genuinely cant also because he’s gonna be like a few hours away from me i physically can’t and i upset him and he told me he wasn’t talking to me anymore like ok i said ok i’ll miss u and in my head i was like whatever but now i feel bad and i feel like i misled him and he was excited to meet me for some reason (i think we all know why lol) like dude we don’t even have interesting conversations why do u want to meet me. that’s besides the point i started to feel bad and i even thought of reaching out and apologizing if he thought i led him on ughhHhh whatever just needed to rant 
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liv wrote:
i think i led him on a little bit and i feel terrible about it 
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:18
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MasileinDE wrote:
idk, usually if you're so adamant about meeting someone, you check with them when they are available (like explicitly when they have time and what other engagements they have)
if you don't do that, you can't bitch about other people having lives on their own that don't make it possible for them to drop everything just to see you

like I get you feeling bad for not being available and such, but it's also a bit on him to not inquire about it in detail if it really was this important to him
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:20
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liv wrote:
MasileinDE wrote:
idk, usually if you're so adamant about meeting someone, you check with them when they are available (like explicitly when they have time and what other engagements they have)
if you don't do that, you can't bitch about other people having lives on their own that don't make it possible for them to drop everything just to see you

like I get you feeling bad for not being available and such, but it's also a bit on him to not inquire about it in detail if it really was this important to him
exactly we never planned anything or really talked about it. he just brought it up a few times but there was no actual planning involved or we didn’t explicitly say we would. it’s not like i said no the last minute when we had plans, we didn’t. but i still feel bad 🙃
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:22
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MasileinDE wrote:
liv wrote:
MasileinDE wrote:
idk, usually if you're so adamant about meeting someone, you check with them when they are available (like explicitly when they have time and what other engagements they have)
if you don't do that, you can't bitch about other people having lives on their own that don't make it possible for them to drop everything just to see you

like I get you feeling bad for not being available and such, but it's also a bit on him to not inquire about it in detail if it really was this important to him
exactly we never planned anything or really talked about it. he just brought it up a few times but there was no actual planning involved or we didn’t explicitly say we would. it’s not like i said no the last minute when we had plans, we didn’t. but i still feel bad 🙃
that's valid and actually means you're a caring human being
but also, him throwing a tantrum won't really change much about this just being poorly planned
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:23
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liv wrote:
i’m so scared he’s gonna message me again to yell at me 😭😭😭
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:26
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liv wrote:
OH MY GOD HE JUST DID LNAOAOOOW BWWHWHWH
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:26
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liv wrote:
PLEASEKEJENEJEJ
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:26
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liv wrote:
liv wrote:
i’m so scared he’s gonna message me again to yell at me 😭😭😭
he said he WAS DRUNK??????????? and then asked again if i actually can’t hang out ? WTF 
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:29
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Arthema wrote:
I think it's an issue on both sides, you were not direct enough with a no, or I can't
and he didn't actually plan anything?

while he can be mad because emotion is valid he can't let it all out on you
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:29
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MasileinDE wrote:
:/

I mean, if you are still open to meeting him, you can say that today was just way too short notice, but if he wants to give it a serious try, you should make up real plans instead of just a *maybe potentially in the future if we both want to*
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:29
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Arthema wrote:
liv wrote:
liv wrote:
i’m so scared he’s gonna message me again to yell at me 😭😭😭
he said he WAS DRUNK??????????? and then asked again if i actually can’t hang out ? WTF 
uhhhhh nice excuse lol
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:30
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Arthema wrote:
MasileinDE wrote:
:/

I mean, if you are still open to meeting him, you can say that today was just way too short notice, but if he wants to give it a serious try, you should make up real plans instead of just a *maybe potentially in the future if we both want to*
^
if he actually starts bitching about it, drop it, you'll dodge a bullet
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:30
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MasileinDE wrote:
Abby wrote:
liv wrote:
liv wrote:
i’m so scared he’s gonna message me again to yell at me 😭😭😭
he said he WAS DRUNK??????????? and then asked again if i actually can’t hang out ? WTF 
uhhhhh nice excuse lol
tbh even if it's true, not really the best way to handle getting your feelings hurt
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:30
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liv wrote:
Abby wrote:
I think it's an issue on both sides, you were not direct enough with a no, or I can't
and he didn't actually plan anything?

while he can be mad because emotion is valid he can't let it all out on you
that’s true. i never said no until he was actually coming lmao 
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:32
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liv wrote:
i don’t wanna talk about this with him again ugh!!
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Date: 03-10-2022 00:33
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