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Doll wrote:
has anyone here ever had one and did it help your relationship? 
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:12
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remains wrote:
a permanent one, yes
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:14
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Doll wrote:
remains wrote:
a permanent one, yes

i will cry
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:15
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Doll wrote:
remains wrote:
a permanent one, yes
i hope it was for the best for u tho <3
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:15
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bexxi wrote:
sry i cant hep with that
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:16
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Doll wrote:
bexxi wrote:
sry i cant hep with that
no worries thank you for ur comment.. 🌹
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Date: 08-03-2026 22:17
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Limited wrote:
my sister had one with her ex-boyfriend. it never helped. he was still an asshole and a jerk
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:25
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Doll wrote:
Limited wrote:
my sister had one with her ex-boyfriend. it never helped. he was still an asshole and a jerk
i am kind of the asshole in my relationship
i hurt my boyfriend (unintentionally but still) and now we are taking some time apart for him to sort out his feelings
and i am scared 
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:32
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Maxwell wrote:
what happnd!
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:49
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Maxwell wrote:
I haven't been in a relationship since middle school Im useless here my only idea of a relationship is my parents nd they r too amazing I cud never imagine them even thinkin abt a break at any point in their relationship
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:51
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Doll wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
what happnd!
it's a very long story but my ocd got bad the past 2 months and i was telling my bf all my intrusive thoughts (the ones about Him as well) and he always said it was ok it was ok it was ok and was so supportive and everything and then i ended up unintentionally doing smth that really hurt him which i regret so much and it was a genuiine mistake but it is valid that he is so hurt regardless because it is a very sensitive topic for him and i suppose that really hurt + the intrusive thoughts about this sensitive topic also just piled up together and he tried breaking up with me but i begged him not to and he sai ok and that he needs time but i didnt give him that so he tried breaking up again and i begged again and now i am actually trying to give him time properl but i am so scared 

yes this happened .. 
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:54 | Times changed: 1
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Doll wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I haven't been in a relationship since middle school Im useless here my only idea of a relationship is my parents nd they r too amazing I cud never imagine them even thinkin abt a break at any point in their relationship

your parents relationship sounds lovely i am happy for them user maxwell 
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:56 | Times changed: 1
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Doll wrote:
Doll wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
what happnd!
it's a very long story but my ocd got bad the past 2 months and i was telling my bf all my intrusive thoughts (the ones about Him as well) and he always said it was ok it was ok it was ok and was so supportive and everything and then i ended up unintentionally doing smth that really hurt him which i regret so much and it was a genuiine mistake but it is valid that he is so hurt regardless because it is a very sensitive topic for him and i suppose that really hurt + the intrusive thoughts about this sensitive topic also just piled up together and he tried breaking up with me but i begged him not to and he sai ok and that he needs time but i didnt give him that so he tried breaking up again and i begged again and now i am actually trying to give him time properl but i am so scared 

yes this happened .. 
though i have kinda been so selfish by just telling him all my intrusive thoughts just to get some sort of relief myself and ending u just piling them up on him
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:57
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Doll wrote:
it is our 5 months-ary in 3 minutes i will just cry
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Date: 08-03-2026 23:57
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Limited wrote:
I read what you wrote, but to me it sounds like he wanted to end it cuz it was a bit too much for him  . Let's hope the break will be good for you both and return stronger than ever. 

Do you get help with your thoughts or? 
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:02
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Doll wrote:
Limited wrote:
I read what you wrote, but to me it sounds like he wanted to end it cuz it was a bit too much for him  . Let's hope the break will be good for you both and return stronger than ever. 

Do you get help with your thoughts or? 
he says he is mostly hurt by the mistake that i did rather than the thoughts but i think while that may be true, my thoughts by then had already done their damage as well  i wish i could turn back time 
he is such an angel i am so sad i took him for granted and hurt him like this

and if you are asking about medication, i am not medicated
i have been working on exposure response prevention therapy though but these past 2 months were very bad and that has not worked a lot either & i have been under a lot of stress and i have also probably not tried hard enough

i am kinda reaping what i sowed right now but i rly hope my bf can give me a chance to do better by him 
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:07
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