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lifetrap test
Rosheo
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rosheo wrote:
I got Emotional Deprivation
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Date: 10-04-2019 13:43
Tamako
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tamako wrote:
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Date: 10-04-2019 13:49
WRENCH
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WRENCH wrote:
Your lifetrap is:
Failure-Impairment

You are characterized by feelings of apathy and despair. You feel as if there is no point in making the effort when you are doomed to fail anyway. As a consequence, you may avoid developing skills, tackling tasks, or taking on responsibility – all of the activities that might otherwise enable you to succeed. "What's the use?" is a thought that keeps recurring in your mind. You procrastinate, get distracted, do your work improperly, or mishandle the tasks you take on. To you, this feels like the normal state of things, but in reality these are all forms of self-sabotage.

It is easy for you to be filled with feelings of failure. This is a familiar feeling that you have had for most of your life. As a defense, you may have chosen a career below your potential or avoided taking the necessary steps to get a promotion in your career. It is possible that you feel safe in dead-end jobs.

Most likely you have avoided taking chances to become a success. You ignored your potential and gifts, even though others have pointed them out and, at some level, you knew that you possessed them. Instead, you kept setting yourself up for failure, which was the one thing you felt that you were good at.
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Date: 10-04-2019 13:50 | Times changed: 1
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Abandonment

You have a fundamental belief that you will lose the people you love and be left emotionally isolated. Whether you imagine that they will die, send you away, or leave you, somehow you feel that it is inevitable that you will be left alone. You expect to be abandoned, and you see the state of loneliness as the default condition in your life. In your heart, you feel it is your destiny to live completely alone. You often read the intent to abandon you into even innocent remarks made by others. Anything that feels like others have disengaged can trigger these fears in you, even if there is no actual danger. Once triggered, you tend to go through a cycle of negative emotions – anger, grief, and fear.People with abandonment can be alone for long periods of time. They might withdraw from close relationships out of hurt, or out of fear of being hurt again. Many have already faced loneliness as children and know they can survive it. Loneliness is not the issue. Rather, it is the process of separation that is devastating – that is, having a connection and then losing it, only to be thrown back into loneliness once more.
Date: 10-04-2019 14:11 | Times changed: 1
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Multiple Lifetraps
You appear to have multiple, equally prominent lifetraps. It is possible that you have several lifetraps that are all strongly expressed
and which co-exist in you. But, on the other hand, it is also possible
that one of these lifetraps is your primary one and that the others
merely accentuate it. We are unable to say. For the same reason, we are
also incapable of giving you a more personalized description. But you
can consult the charts below in order to see which lifetraps you scored
the strongest on.


Date: 10-04-2019 14:14
MasileinDE
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MasileinDE wrote:
Multiple Lieftraps
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Date: 10-04-2019 14:29
Ezreal
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Ezreal wrote:
can u tell i've been anxious about literally every aspect of my life lately!
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Date: 10-04-2019 14:38
Aessii
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Aessii wrote:
Emotional DeprivationAt root, you have a feeling of being chronically disappointed in other people. That they will let you down. We are not speaking about a single case of disappointment. Your conclusion, as a result of past relationships, is that you cannot count on people to be there for you emotionally. It is a sad and heavy sense of knowledge.Because you have faced so much deprivation in your life, you feel that it is frightening to make yourself vulnerable to others and ask for what you need. You may protect yourself from closeness by choosing partners who are unavailable, or someone who is physically there but mentally cold and ungiving. In this way, you perpetuate your sense of being neglected. It feels as if no matter where you turn, you encounter deprivation.Emotional neglect is part and parcel of intimate relations for you. But, at least in part, this neglect also arises because it is dangerous for you to ask for what you truly want. You have become very invested in doing the opposite; that is, keeping yourself invulnerable in close relations to protect yourself from disappointment.To avoid the hurt of the deprivation you have felt, you focus on how others have let you down and disappointed you. You can easily access anger about past relationships, but it is difficult for you to feel the pain.
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Date: 10-04-2019 14:39
Private
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wug wrote:
lol the results doesn't make sense it's like oh yes this trait is strong with you, and then I've answered like 1 or 2 on at least one of the 3 questions related to it. 
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Date: 10-04-2019 14:44
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Ezreal wrote:
can u tell i've been anxious about literally every aspect of my life lately!
okay but i like your name @Ezreal 
Date: 10-04-2019 15:01
Private
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Grinch wrote:
Lifetrap Test

Your lifetrap is: Emotional Deprivation

At root, you have a feeling of being chronically disappointed in other people. That they will let you down. We are not speaking about a single case of disappointment. Your conclusion, as a result of past relationships, is that you cannot count on people to be there for you emotionally. It is a sad and heavy sense of knowledge.

Because you have faced so much deprivation in your life, you feel that it is frightening to make yourself vulnerable to others and ask for what you need. You may protect yourself from closeness by choosing partners who are unavailable, or someone who is physically there but mentally cold and ungiving. In this way, you perpetuate your sense of being neglected. It feels as if no matter where you turn, you encounter deprivation.

Emotional neglect is part and parcel of intimate relations for you. But, at least in part, this neglect also arises because it is dangerous for you to ask for what you truly want. You have become very invested in doing the opposite; that is, keeping yourself invulnerable in close relations to protect yourself from disappointment.
To avoid the hurt of the deprivation you have felt, you focus on how others have let you down and disappointed you. You can easily access anger about past relationships, but it is difficult for you to feel the pain.





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Date: 10-04-2019 15:03
Private
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wug wrote:
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Date: 10-04-2019 15:09
Laurabled
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Laurabled wrote:
i was doing laundry and cooking.
finally i am done with it so i can take the goddamn test.

Failure-Impairment - 67%
Defectivness, Entitlement, Unrelenting Standards - 63%
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Date: 10-04-2019 15:48
Private
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scoff wrote:
entitlement 

i guess we all saw that one coming
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Date: 10-04-2019 15:57
Private
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scoff wrote:
Lifetrap TestYour lifetrap is:EntitlementYou are indifferent to social expectations and consider yourself above the rules. Other people should be punished when they violate social norms, but not you.You have a hard time disciplining yourself to complete routine tasks and goals. But you can always come up with excuses, no matter what you did. It was never really your fault.
You have trouble controlling your impulses. You act on your desires and feelings without regard for the consequences. When your needs are not met, you become angry and abusive. Many of the people in your life are way too willing to tolerate criticism and humiliation from you. They allow you to take advantage of them. You get your needs met at their expense.You have difficulty empathizing with others. You unfairly impinge upon their rights. Your demands become a drain on them. But to you, this does not feel painful.Your life is chaotic. Most likely there have been times where you have failed to complete the tasks necessary to make progress in your career. At some level, you know this and feel inadequate because you know you could do more. You compensate by splitting your self-image in two: Either you are perfect or you are defective; adored as an idol or rejected like a hobo. You internalize the belief that there is no middle ground. As a result, you spend a lot of time trying to cover up your bad sides on the one hand, and impressing people on the other.
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Date: 10-04-2019 15:58
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