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so like when do i get to do nothing?
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Callisto wrote:
I understand your side but I get a dry cough once/ twice a year that each lasts 2 months, that is HELL(especially because I can't sleep and I almost puke because my throat itches so much). Wish I could give you it so I wouldn't have to deal with it x)
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Date: 04-10-2019 10:51 | Times changed: 1
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scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
Then use your vacation to do nothing once in a while
Bf doesn't have to do that. Normal people that get sick once or twice a year don't have to do that. Then I shouldn't have to do that, either. In fact, I won't do that. I will take as many sick days off from life as normal people getting ill once or twice a year. I think I deserve that JUST AS MUCH, ill or not. I can eat poop or something if it makes it more right. Or walk on burning coal. I can suffer for it, just as long as I get it. 
It is a blessing to never get ill. Being ill is truly aggravating. 
I get ill like once every fifth year, and the truth is that when it happens, I enjoy the effortless aspect of it A LOT. It's worth feeling like total shit if I get to rest for it. Honestly. You can find that as provoking as you want to or think of me as a stupid twat, I don't care. It's the truth. 
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Date: 04-10-2019 10:52
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scoff wrote:
Callisto wrote:
I understand your side but I get a dry cough once/ twice a year that each lasts 2 months, that is HELL(especially because I can't sleep). Wish I could give you it so I wouldn't have to deal with it x)
How do people have such weak immune systems? Seriously. I want mine to just get a little weaker? 

I've tried EVERYTHING. Too much alcohol, too much junk food, not enough food, not washing my hands (yes, for real), not getting enough (or any) sleep... und suweiter. NOTHING works. 
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Date: 04-10-2019 10:53
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don't mean to come across as an asshole, but no. the fact that i can get up and move, breathe, swallow, eat etc. is something i'll never take for granted again after my dad got paralysed. you don't know when or what is gonna happen to you. 
I don't want to become paralyzed, I just want someone to tell me I'm allowed to not take out the trash, not deal with the dishes, not going grocery shopping because the fridge is empty, not fold the clean laundry, not cook, not do ANYTHING that "needs done" despite me being perfectly healthy. Just for three or four days, please. Without being looked upon as lazy.
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:00
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scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
Vuitton wrote:
don't mean to come across as an asshole, but no. the fact that i can get up and move, breathe, swallow, eat etc. is something i'll never take for granted again after my dad got paralysed. you don't know when or what is gonna happen to you. 

and a lot of people in other countries don't have the same luxuries as i do. i would feel ashamed for taking anything for granted, really. because i don't have the right to.
I agree. Being ill is anything but a blessing. There are people who have to work even though they’re ill and they never get a day off work. They never get the chance to do absolutely nothing because they have a family to take care of. 
I just want to BE my boyfriend. Seriously. I want to BE him. I want everything he has. Someone else can go be me if they'll enjoy it so much.
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:02
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Limbs wrote:
scoff wrote:
Limbs wrote:
scoff wrote:
My bf is ill as we speak and he would definitely judge me if he knew I thought I deserved the same kind of rest despite not being ill. 
wait so does he think you never deserve to rest like that unless you're ill? that doesn't sound fair. 
Oh, it's not that he doesn't think I deserve to rest - it's just that he doesn't think I have the same right to totally neglect caring for the home, cooking, shopping or doing other thinks that have to get done to just lay on the couch watching netflix and drinking tea for like three days. I think I do. I think I do have the right to act as if though I was ill, in the sense of neglecting responsibilites and just fucking chill.

I would gladly pay for it by becoming ill, if that was a possibility. Which it's not, because my immune system and so on. 

Think about it? When you're ill, it's totally ok to lay on the couch watching netflix DESPITE piles of dishes, trash that needs taken out, an empty fridge and so on. Which is what he's gonna do and expect me to do it. If I don't do it and suggest we do it together when he feels better, that's me being mean. But I don't wanna do it. I want the same kind of demandless rest. Actually, I demand it.
that's so weird. most people i know do nothing like that regularly even though they're not ill
maybe not for 3 days in a row but a day here and there, definitely. 
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:03 | Times changed: 1
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scoff wrote:
Limbs wrote:
scoff wrote:
Limbs wrote:
wait so does he think you never deserve to rest like that unless you're ill? that doesn't sound fair. 
Oh, it's not that he doesn't think I deserve to rest - it's just that he doesn't think I have the same right to totally neglect caring for the home, cooking, shopping or doing other thinks that have to get done to just lay on the couch watching netflix and drinking tea for like three days. I think I do. I think I do have the right to act as if though I was ill, in the sense of neglecting responsibilites and just fucking chill.

I would gladly pay for it by becoming ill, if that was a possibility. Which it's not, because my immune system and so on. 

Think about it? When you're ill, it's totally ok to lay on the couch watching netflix DESPITE piles of dishes, trash that needs taken out, an empty fridge and so on. Which is what he's gonna do and expect me to do it. If I don't do it and suggest we do it together when he feels better, that's me being mean. But I don't wanna do it. I want the same kind of demandless rest. Actually, I demand it.
that's so weird. most people i know do nothing like that regularly even though they're not ill
I mean for SEVERAL days. Not just taking one day off, but taking like three or four or five like he does when he gets ill, because he's ill for so many days.
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:08
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scoff wrote:
I decide now that I deserve four days off doing ABSOLUTELY nothing important. I am also 100% allowed to neglect the entire fucking home. The trash gets to stink for another four days, I ain't taking it out. I'll only leave home to buy new cigarettes, if needed. Nothing else. Good night!
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:10
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scoff wrote:
Vuitton wrote:
scoff wrote:
Vuitton wrote:
don't mean to come across as an asshole, but no. the fact that i can get up and move, breathe, swallow, eat etc. is something i'll never take for granted again after my dad got paralysed. you don't know when or what is gonna happen to you. 
I don't want to become paralyzed, I just want someone to tell me I'm allowed to not take out the trash, not deal with the dishes, not going grocery shopping because the fridge is empty, not fold the clean laundry, not cook, not do ANYTHING that "needs done" despite me being perfectly healthy. Just for three or four days, please. Without being looked upon as lazy.
you're not lazy. you can do what without being ill. i'm not saying you can't take days off, because of course you can. just remember not to take what you have for granted.
Can I take four days off in a row AT THE SAME TIME that bf is ill and doing nothing? Is that ok too, or do I have to wait or some other ridiculous shit?
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:13
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scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
scoff wrote:
Vuitton wrote:
you're not lazy. you can do what without being ill. i'm not saying you can't take days off, because of course you can. just remember not to take what you have for granted.
Can I take four days off in a row AT THE SAME TIME that bf is ill and doing nothing? Is that ok too, or do I have to wait or some other ridiculous shit?
If you want your home to become a complete mess, sure, go ahead
Will I have to deal with everything myself afterwards as a compensation or is it ok to DEMAND us splitting the responsibility 50/50 even if I do nothing while he's ill? And he has to do half of it when none of us have done anything for a few days? Is that ok to dewamnd? When he's gotten well, that is. 
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:14 | Times changed: 1
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scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
If you want your home to become a complete mess, sure, go ahead
Will I have to deal with everything myself afterwards as a compensation or is it ok to DEMAND us splitting the responsibility 50/50 even if I do nothing while he's ill? And he has to do half of it when none of us have done anything for a few days? Is that ok to dewamnd? When he's gotten well, that is. 
Wait. You don’t take care of him and the house while he’s ill? Wouldn’t want to have you as my girlfriend
You should always split the responsibility 50/50, but when he’s ill it should be like 70/30 or 80/20
I can do that, but is it ok to really want him to take 70% and I 30% when he's gotten well, even if I'm not ill? Because I NEED that. I really, really NEED that. 
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:18
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Plastique wrote:
Omg this topic is #toomuch 
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scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
scoff wrote:
medusasnakes wrote:
Wait. You don’t take care of him and the house while he’s ill? Wouldn’t want to have you as my girlfriend
You should always split the responsibility 50/50, but when he’s ill it should be like 70/30 or 80/20
I can do that, but is it ok to really want him to take 70% and I 30% when he's gotten well, even if I'm not ill? Because I NEED that. I really, really NEED that. 
I don’t think that’s fair, but you can always ask
Is it fair if my baseline is that I can't deal with more than I already do on a regular basis without becoming a mess, and thus need someone to let me off for a couple days after I've had to do extra for a couple days? If we switch it like that. Because I can't to 70-80% of everything and then go back to 50%. I need a rest in between.
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:21
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scoff wrote:
Plastique wrote:
Omg this topic is #toomuch 
I just want to be allowed to rest in the same way that he does when he gets ill. And I never get ill. How will I then get that rest whithout looking lazy huh
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Date: 04-10-2019 11:21
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wanna switch? im constantly sick
Date: 04-10-2019 11:22
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