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murdurur wrote:
Claire wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
murdurur wrote:
lol man some three years ago my therapist used to do home visits so she was literally there doing my dishes while i was wasted out of my mind
big shame moment

i think it helps to just do a tiny bit of something every day. like almost having it as a schedule. one day i'll put all the dishes and glasses in the washing machine and call it a day, the next i might fold some laundry. that type of thing. doing everything at once is too overwhelming
Oof sorry to hear that :-(

I don't have dishwasher so I've actually the past 2 months resorted to paper plates, because I know I can't do dishes fast enough to re-use it when I need. It's so fucking embarrassing.

no thats called being smart and thinking ahead.  if you know you wont do dishes dont use dishes. thats smart.

definitely agree! paper dishes are an epic lifehack and nothing to be ashamed of. if i didn't have  a dishwasher either i would literally never use any permanent utensils lol
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:34
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murdurur wrote:
Cheetos wrote:
murdurur wrote:
lol man some three years ago my therapist used to do home visits so she was literally there doing my dishes while i was wasted out of my mind
big shame moment

i think it helps to just do a tiny bit of something every day. like almost having it as a schedule. one day i'll put all the dishes and glasses in the washing machine and call it a day, the next i might fold some laundry. that type of thing. doing everything at once is too overwhelming

Ur therapist is hella cute wtf

nah man she diagnosed me with a really serious disorder and told me to go home and google it if i had questions lmao

peak helpfulness was her doing my dishes and that's not really what you want from therapy
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:35
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murdurur wrote:
Claire wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Oof sorry to hear that :-(

I don't have dishwasher so I've actually the past 2 months resorted to paper plates, because I know I can't do dishes fast enough to re-use it when I need. It's so fucking embarrassing.

no thats called being smart and thinking ahead.  if you know you wont do dishes dont use dishes. thats smart.

definitely agree! paper dishes are an epic lifehack and nothing to be ashamed of. if i didn't have  a dishwasher either i would literally never use any permanent utensils lol
Dishes is the thing I hate the most. Luckily I have my dad to take my laundry though and do it at his place because here there is a washing machine in the basement for all 4 apartments and I'm not about that
Date: 10-06-2020 23:38
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Medusa wrote:
well i know that feeling hm
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:38
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
wish i could come over n be ur personal dishwasher whenever u needed cuz I LOVE DOING DISHES
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:39
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Nami wrote:
well i know that feeling hm
:-(
Date: 10-06-2020 23:39
Murdurur
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murdurur wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
murdurur wrote:
Claire wrote:

no thats called being smart and thinking ahead.  if you know you wont do dishes dont use dishes. thats smart.

definitely agree! paper dishes are an epic lifehack and nothing to be ashamed of. if i didn't have  a dishwasher either i would literally never use any permanent utensils lol
Dishes is the thing I hate the most. Luckily I have my dad to take my laundry though and do it at his place because here there is a washing machine in the basement for all 4 apartments and I'm not about that

god ikr, i hate touching wet food so so so much i'm cringing just thinking about it. i think scrubbing the toilet is less gross.
sounds like a great arrangment, shared washing machines are so stressful
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:40
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Claire wrote:
murdurur wrote:
Cheetos wrote:
murdurur wrote:
lol man some three years ago my therapist used to do home visits so she was literally there doing my dishes while i was wasted out of my mind
big shame moment

i think it helps to just do a tiny bit of something every day. like almost having it as a schedule. one day i'll put all the dishes and glasses in the washing machine and call it a day, the next i might fold some laundry. that type of thing. doing everything at once is too overwhelming

Ur therapist is hella cute wtf

nah man she diagnosed me with a really serious disorder and told me to go home and google it if i had questions lmao

peak helpfulness was her doing my dishes and that's not really what you want from therapy
a good therapist doesnt do your dishes a good therapist helps you get to a place emotionally where you can do your own dishes. what this therapist did by doing your dishes is absollutely enabling and dumb af imo.
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:40
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
wish i could come over n be ur personal dishwasher whenever u needed cuz I LOVE DOING DISHES
Please come I'm willing to pay your ticket or anything at this point lol

But 4 real give me your dishwashing abilty..... send them telepathically or somehting I need it
Date: 10-06-2020 23:40
Murdurur
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murdurur wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
wish i could come over n be ur personal dishwasher whenever u needed cuz I LOVE DOING DISHES
Please come I'm willing to pay your ticket or anything at this point lol

But 4 real give me your dishwashing abilty..... send them telepathically or somehting I need it

dude i wanna come too so i can clean your entire bathroom (my one true specialty in life) and then we can proceed to have the coolest hangout ever
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:41
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Raquelle wrote:
murdurur wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
wish i could come over n be ur personal dishwasher whenever u needed cuz I LOVE DOING DISHES
Please come I'm willing to pay your ticket or anything at this point lol

But 4 real give me your dishwashing abilty..... send them telepathically or somehting I need it
dude i wanna come too so i can clean your entire bathroom (my one true specialty in life) and then we can proceed to have the coolest hangout ever
can i join too i’m a professional cleaner
and i can change bedsheets in three minutes

anyways i’m sorry to hear about your situation op )= don’t be ashamed of using paper plates btw it’s very smart thinking of you. I hope you’ll feel better soon and know that you can hit me up whenever if you feel like it. I’m here
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:44
Murdurur
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murdurur wrote:
Claire wrote:
murdurur wrote:
Cheetos wrote:

Ur therapist is hella cute wtf

nah man she diagnosed me with a really serious disorder and told me to go home and google it if i had questions lmao

peak helpfulness was her doing my dishes and that's not really what you want from therapy
a good therapist doesnt do your dishes a good therapist helps you get to a place emotionally where you can do your own dishes. what this therapist did by doing your dishes is absollutely enabling and dumb af imo.

yeah agree, for the entire 6 years of seeing her she consistently did more harm than good. she was so forgetful i'm pretty sure she didn't even know who i was lol, she'd ask me if i was the one who had a younger brother pretty much every single appointment for 6 whole  years.
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:45
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Chat0yant wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
I want to ask for help to take care of my apartment but I'm too ashamed
I feel this but even though my words are hollow i'll say it anyway. Don't be ashamed!!! everyone has different strengths and limits and needs help sometime and anyone who denies that is lying.
And America puts WAY too much pressure to be "independant." I mean, u should be some, but humans are social and it's always a better relationship when you can be weak with other people and build each other up.
Also, i'll do the laundry in this magical encouraging fest! I've literally helped my friend start her cleaning multiple times so i wish i could help u out more than vague encouragement from far away 
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Date: 10-06-2020 23:46
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wrote:
murdurur wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
wish i could come over n be ur personal dishwasher whenever u needed cuz I LOVE DOING DISHES
Please come I'm willing to pay your ticket or anything at this point lol

But 4 real give me your dishwashing abilty..... send them telepathically or somehting I need it

dude i wanna come too so i can clean your entire bathroom (my one true specialty in life) and then we can proceed to have the coolest hangout ever
Ahhhh I'd love that so much!! 


My bathroom do need some serious help ngl lol :-/ I have all the sopas and gloves and scrubs though but it's like.... hidden..... I pretend it's not there.....
Date: 10-06-2020 23:48
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wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
murdurur wrote:
C4TH3DR4L wrote:
Please come I'm willing to pay your ticket or anything at this point lol

But 4 real give me your dishwashing abilty..... send them telepathically or somehting I need it
dude i wanna come too so i can clean your entire bathroom (my one true specialty in life) and then we can proceed to have the coolest hangout ever
can i join too i’m a professional cleaner
and i can change bedsheets in three minutes

anyways i’m sorry to hear about your situation op )= don’t be ashamed of using paper plates btw it’s very smart thinking of you. I hope you’ll feel better soon and know that you can hit me up whenever if you feel like it. I’m here
Please come over too!!

Not to be a baby but I'm crying about how sweet you guys are
Date: 10-06-2020 23:49
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