potionsky wrote:Saudade wrote:potionsky wrote:
I dont think you are wrong for thinking, feeling or acting according to those feelings and thoughts.
I only invited one of my parents to my university graduation for similar reasons.
How did the other parent feel about that, if you know?
I don't even think my dad knows what uni I go to or what course I do. The only time I've spoken to him in 2 years is over arguing.
Im not sure actually. We havent spoken about it, but i imagine some feeling of sadness (but also understanding of why as it is a consequence of their behavior/actions, so maybe a bit of remorse, but as said, i cant be 100% sure)
Im sorry that thats the relationship you have with your dad, surely you deserve better...
a part of me hopes my parents get offended if i dont invite them to things ngl