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Elxu97
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elxu97 wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
i think it could be also different kind of insecurity, or different way of acting from it. like, they try little bit too hard to "own" something..? to the point it's actually just annoying and others hardly recognize that thing until they say about it themselves..

or do you mean especially those things that are actually generally considered attractive and good things, like being small girl and then those small girls are like omg im so small im so insecure, even they actually know themselves that they have nothing to feel insecure about, but they just want to have attention and mask it as insecurity?

yes the last one

ah yes fuck thats so annoying!!!!!!!!!!!

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
i think it could be also different kind of insecurity, or different way of acting from it. like, they try little bit too hard to "own" something..? to the point it's actually just annoying and others hardly recognize that thing until they say about it themselves..

or do you mean especially those things that are actually generally considered attractive and good things, like being small girl and then those small girls are like omg im so small im so insecure, even they actually know themselves that they have nothing to feel insecure about, but they just want to have attention and mask it as insecurity?

yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
i think it could be also different kind of insecurity, or different way of acting from it. like, they try little bit too hard to "own" something..? to the point it's actually just annoying and others hardly recognize that thing until they say about it themselves..

or do you mean especially those things that are actually generally considered attractive and good things, like being small girl and then those small girls are like omg im so small im so insecure, even they actually know themselves that they have nothing to feel insecure about, but they just want to have attention and mask it as insecurity?

yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

small as in stature not age, though japan probably disagrees

Private
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wug wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
i think it could be also different kind of insecurity, or different way of acting from it. like, they try little bit too hard to "own" something..? to the point it's actually just annoying and others hardly recognize that thing until they say about it themselves..

or do you mean especially those things that are actually generally considered attractive and good things, like being small girl and then those small girls are like omg im so small im so insecure, even they actually know themselves that they have nothing to feel insecure about, but they just want to have attention and mask it as insecurity?

yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

while the least desired group of men are the small ones

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

while the least desired group of men are the small ones

i mean youre a gay man there has to be a market for that

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

while the least desired group of men are the small ones

i mean youre a gay man there has to be a market for that

but straight men might have a problem with being small

Elxu97
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elxu97 wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
i think it could be also different kind of insecurity, or different way of acting from it. like, they try little bit too hard to "own" something..? to the point it's actually just annoying and others hardly recognize that thing until they say about it themselves..

or do you mean especially those things that are actually generally considered attractive and good things, like being small girl and then those small girls are like omg im so small im so insecure, even they actually know themselves that they have nothing to feel insecure about, but they just want to have attention and mask it as insecurity?

yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

yes !!1

Private
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wug wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

while the least desired group of men are the small ones

i mean youre a gay man there has to be a market for that

i doubt it to be honest, not that i've tried and not that i actually intend to

Elxu97
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elxu97 wrote:

Snusmumrikken wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
yes the last one

i feel like small girls tend to act like theyre like an oppressed group or something when in reality theyre the most desired group of girls

while the least desired group of men are the small ones

thats so fucked up as well!!

Elxu97
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elxu97 wrote:
isnt this kinda the same problem that is going on with bodyposi movement? like that movement was originally or intended to be (i guess) about like ACTUALLY oppressed bodies, like people who have been considered as fat or "over weighted" or people who have visible disabilities or things like that, but then the hashtags have been overtaken by completely generally-seen-as-attractive-and-normal people with one fat/skin roll when sitting completely folded or something. i mean bodypositivity is ofc for all but shouldnt people also give space in the internet to those who actually need it the most..? its sometimes hard to see when and how to give space.. i have thought it much because i have had lots of insecurities going on with my body and has had eating disorders linked to that, but then again i know that my body isnt very much socially oppressed in most ways. maybe its most important to see the difference between social and personal struggles.

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

elxu97 wrote:
isnt this kinda the same problem that is going on with bodyposi movement? like that movement was originally or intended to be (i guess) about like ACTUALLY oppressed bodies, like people who have been considered as fat or "over weighted" or people who have visible disabilities or things like that, but then the hashtags have been overtaken by completely generally-seen-as-attractive-and-normal people with one fat/skin roll when sitting completely folded or something. i mean bodypositivity is ofc for all but shouldnt people also give space in the internet to those who actually need it the most..? its sometimes hard to see when and how to give space.. i have thought it much because i have had lots of insecurities going on with my body and has had eating disorders linked to that, but then again i know that my body isnt very much socially oppressed in most ways. maybe its most important to see the difference between social and personal struggles.

i think the worst about that movement is that people see it as glorifying fat people