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A quality i hate in people
Harumi
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Harumi wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Harumi wrote:
eheh I'm doing that right now with someone I live with. I don't like full on ignore him tho, only answer short, because I'm not sure I want anything to do with him anymore. Like he did something baaad.
i ignored the person im renting for for like a week but hes never been my friend so i wouldnt say its even similar
yeah he who I live with wasn't a friend at first, then he became one. And then he was mad about something I did that wasn't even something to get mad about and he was screaming in my face and I thought he was gonna hit me or something, and then he messaged the group chat for the people living in our dorm where he basically humiliated me in front of everybody.Ā 
Like I think that is a good excuse to distance myself from him.
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:32
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Arthema wrote:
even when I'm mad I think I can stay really logical as mad turns into disappointment, as I really try not to be mad over things, and I won't ignore the person that made me feel like it

but if it's really bad then I would tell the person that I need to take a few minutes or some while to collect myself and calm down as well I don't want to say something stupid or make the situation worse,

and I wish people could be more
idk
mature about it? I don't know how to explain it but I wish people would be more expressive? I think it could help a lot of people
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:37
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Hortensia wrote:
I HAAAATE when my sister does the silent treatment, and for the smallest of things,
she's also 4 years older than me and i also think that giving someone the silent treatment is childish like come on I'm trying to talk to you so that we can figure shit out and so that I can understand what you were so sensitive about but nooooooooooOooO i have to apologize first so that she'll MAYbe talkĀ 
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:41
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Abby wrote:
even when I'm mad I think I can stay really logical as mad turns into disappointment, as I really try not to be mad over things, and I won't ignore the person that made me feel like it

but if it's really bad then I would tell the person that I need to take a few minutes or some while to collect myself and calm down as well I don't want to say something stupid or make the situation worse,

and I wish people could be more
idk
mature about it? I don't know how to explain it but I wish people would be more expressive? I think it could help a lot of people
it honestly sort of feels like some ppl use silence as like a punishment? because it's clear when someone is ignoring you on purpose
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:42
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Bloodflowers wrote:
adtrfan wrote:
I HAAAATE when my sister does the silent treatment, and for the smallest of things,
she's also 4 years older than me and i also think that giving someone the silent treatment is childish like come on I'm trying to talk to you so that we can figure shit out and so that I can understand what you were so sensitive about but nooooooooooOooO i have to apologize first so that she'll MAYbe talkĀ 
im so grossed out by me apologising to people ive known that gave me the silent treatment ONLY so that we can talk about it. like it gives the other person that they are right and im the asshole
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:44
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Hortensia wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
adtrfan wrote:
I HAAAATE when my sister does the silent treatment, and for the smallest of things,
she's also 4 years older than me and i also think that giving someone the silent treatment is childish like come on I'm trying to talk to you so that we can figure shit out and so that I can understand what you were so sensitive about but nooooooooooOooO i have to apologize first so that she'll MAYbe talkĀ 
im so grossed out by me apologising to people ive known that gave me the silent treatment ONLY so that we can talk about it. like it gives the other person that they are right and im the asshole
exactly, why i stopped apologizing
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:45
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Gilmore wrote:
Agreed
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:49
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Versailles wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
MossPiglet wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Have u tried saying something? Bc if u have and theres no response im just saying people who dont even try communicating but keep being angry fuck them
No i only sent kermit meme kind of youtube stuff. I literally dont know what to say. It was a bad talk last time, I got really angry because I didnt find them taking resposibility n tried to explain my feelings, it wasnt met very well. I dont think they're angry, but same as me - dont know what to say. I think both r hurting but not sure. It's been a while tho, I should learn to move on from the friendship.Ā 
just say how you feel, doesnt seem like its worth saving a friendship with someone who doesnt care to solve it anyway

I look at it as both resposibility but both r cowards, but when it went so long it's a clear message.
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:51
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Arthema wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Abby wrote:
even when I'm mad I think I can stay really logical as mad turns into disappointment, as I really try not to be mad over things, and I won't ignore the person that made me feel like it

but if it's really bad then I would tell the person that I need to take a few minutes or some while to collect myself and calm down as well I don't want to say something stupid or make the situation worse,

and I wish people could be more
idk
mature about it? I don't know how to explain it but I wish people would be more expressive? I think it could help a lot of people
it honestly sort of feels like some ppl use silence as like a punishment? because it's clear when someone is ignoring you on purpose
yeah, some people use this as punishment which is
really stupid imo
but oh well
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Date: 24-11-2020 21:52
Harumi
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Harumi wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Abby wrote:
even when I'm mad I think I can stay really logical as mad turns into disappointment, as I really try not to be mad over things, and I won't ignore the person that made me feel like it

but if it's really bad then I would tell the person that I need to take a few minutes or some while to collect myself and calm down as well I don't want to say something stupid or make the situation worse,

and I wish people could be more
idk
mature about it? I don't know how to explain it but I wish people would be more expressive? I think it could help a lot of people
it honestly sort of feels like some ppl use silence as like a punishment? because it's clear when someone is ignoring you on purpose

Yeah a lot of people do and it's kind of toxic. But I understand those who are mature enough that they know they get mean when they're angry and wants some space to clear their head, but then it's important to communicate that.
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Date: 24-11-2020 22:08
Gilmore
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Gilmore wrote:
Harumi wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
Abby wrote:
even when I'm mad I think I can stay really logical as mad turns into disappointment, as I really try not to be mad over things, and I won't ignore the person that made me feel like it

but if it's really bad then I would tell the person that I need to take a few minutes or some while to collect myself and calm down as well I don't want to say something stupid or make the situation worse,

and I wish people could be more
idk
mature about it? I don't know how to explain it but I wish people would be more expressive? I think it could help a lot of people
it honestly sort of feels like some ppl use silence as like a punishment? because it's clear when someone is ignoring you on purpose

Yeah a lot of people do and it's kind of toxic. But I understand those who are mature enough that they know they get mean when they're angry and wants some space to clear their head, but then it's important to communicate that.
this
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Date: 24-11-2020 23:02
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wug wrote:
I would much rather handle my anger with silent treatment than ripping a new one to my friends over trivial shit I know I'll get over with time.Ā 
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Date: 24-11-2020 23:03
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Coralin wrote:
i agree
and i do it too but i've gotten better at talking rather than being a silent piece of shit
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Date: 24-11-2020 23:45
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Versailles wrote:
yo i contacted the person who i have a bit of tricky relationship n gonna find out if it's out or we gonna talk it out. I've been unsure since it's been a month. Kinda ready to get any answer.
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Date: 24-11-2020 23:48
Cult
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cult wrote:
i used 2 do that but lately i've realized it makes life harder for them to immediately confront them abt their wrong doingsĀ 
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