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DIRT
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DIRT wrote:

Zussi wrote:

DIRT wrote:
ok narcissism (as in npd n not an Insulting trait) does come from deep insecurity & trauma & is a real serious disorder n ppl w it r. real ppl w emotions n not just Evil n Selfish. but if ur psych is just straight up calling u (or even just implying ur) a narcissist that's so inappropriate n they're a horrible psych wtf ??

i got diagnosed with npd

ok having npd ISN'T a bad thing u can't help that & i 100% support everyone w a personality disorder, esp cluster b that's stigmatized to hell & back however
if ur therapist made u feel like shit for it or that having npd makes u a bad person that's not ok
maybe ik biased cus the majority of my therapist experiences have been bad but considering how little most "professionals" rly understand more "serious" disorders (such as pds) if ur therapist is making u feel awful, or u think they're wrong about u, & u express this but they insist and continue to make u uncomfortable that's a bad therapist point blank

let's say hypothetically someone who did actually have npd was simply just, upset w the diagnosis & the therapist wasn't saying they're a horrible person. a good therapist would understand that the actual dx doesn't matter so much. a dx is given to help figure out a proper treatment plan. if someone isn't ready to accept a diagnosis it's not ok to force it on them. not saying the patient is always right but if the focus is You're A Narcissist n not... your actual treatment. that's a shit therapist

MabeI
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mabeI wrote:
reading all these comments makes me feel like im on drugs

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Who doesn't they are usually selfish bitches

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GvcciGoddess wrote:

Zussi wrote:

DIRT wrote:
ok narcissism (as in npd n not an Insulting trait) does come from deep insecurity & trauma & is a real serious disorder n ppl w it r. real ppl w emotions n not just Evil n Selfish. but if ur psych is just straight up calling u (or even just implying ur) a narcissist that's so inappropriate n they're a horrible psych wtf ??

i got diagnosed with npd

Dont u have to do tests and fill in forms with symptoms that applies to u in order to get a diagnosis like with other disorders? like if u fit the criteria for it then u probably have it and ur psychologist is right

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GvcciGoddess wrote:
Btw narcissists usually have deep hatred for themselves. The narcissistic traits are the coping mechanism narcissists develop to deal with it

Pavlov
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Pavlov wrote:

ouch wrote:
Have u read the symptoms for npd, its mostly just abt an excessive superiority feeling (which u can have without liking urself). Im pretty sure she wouldn't diagnose u if u didn't have symptoms for it but, js its not offensive or bad to have npd, like theres no reason to reject it just cus u feel its bad if u have the symptoms (or enough of them at least)

it has to be more than just a superiority feeling cause if thats all it is then everyone must have it

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GvcciGoddess wrote:

hungover wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
do u need to like urself 2 be a narcissist

No. Not really.

My friend was a narcissist, her narcissism sprung out of her deep self-hatred and inferiority complex. When she sobered up, got on medication, moved out of her abusive household, and got a good therapist, she became much more healthy emotionally as well.

yup