kalypso wrote:Eveningmoon wrote:Persephone wrote:
i literally just lurked around my first 2 years lmao but it gets better with friends
This happens to me too almost every time I join somewhere, I'm just lurking around and then I find it hard to start speaking because I've been so silent the whole time.
Or the other option is that I socialize with people at the beginning but then I slowly start to speak less and less until one day I realize I don't speak at all anymore lmao
why tho, like nobody remembers that they haven’t seen u anywhere before and it’s so anonymous to have a profile here anyways, so why hold back, like i get that in real life, but not here. I know it’s like the same ten ppl that join the forums sometimes, but also a lot of user in the forums i never haven’t seen anywhere before, though i even have been here 1 month, but like i think that the same for ppl that have a little bit older user than mine