kalypso wrote:Claire wrote:
what do you guys do? do you do the polite to stay safe thing or do you tell them to fuck off? i think i'd have to have them phsyically touching me to get to the 'fuck off' point.
it rlly depends, one time i was drunk af, sitting alone in the metro. 3 guys was sitting on the other side of me and one of them goes up to me and try to get in contact with me and starts talking to me. im sitting there listening to music with my big ass headphones on clearly looking like someone that doesn't wanna talk with anyone, but bc im so fucking fed up with men doing this, like leave me tf alone, i took my headphones of and said "seriously can you fuck off??!?!" in an aggressive tone, cause i was drunk and tired and couldn't do it anymore with any man's bullshit. he left me and went over to his friend again, but im telling u, when i saw they had to leave as the same stop as me i was so fucking scared when i had to walk home alone and thinking to myself jesus why do u always have to be so aggressive, bc it's not the first time i have spoke aggressively to men trying to get in contact with me when i was walking alone home drunk or out nightclubbing. I even once yelled at two guys walking past me that was saying stuff to me. but the thing is i live in the capitol of denmark and i literally live in the middle of everything, so there's always people on the street to the point where i can feel save. but one day it's probably going to fuck me over. Otherwise i think im polite too at most time, if im not drunk. but it's mainly happening when im drunk.. so that also mean when it's like pit dark 4 in the morning. WHYYY does it not cross men's mind that, that is probably the time of the day it's the most fucking scary thing.
i have also experience before men, when nightclubbing, trying to get in contact with me, and when i decline them, they get mad at me??? like once a dude put his arm around my shoulder and i just removed his arm, cause it was fucking uncomfortable that he just came behind me and did that, and he got so fucking mad at me for some fucked up reason, and i was just standing there... what??? HOW can YOU be the one mad at me??? i didnt do anything, u shouldn't fucking touch me, and that's not even the worst that has happened before when i have went clubbing 😩