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Date: 10-03-2021 01:11
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Ataraxia wrote:
im just built different
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i think people who are good at everything just hide the things they're bad at lol
cuz folks think I'm good at everything, but really I just keep everything I'm bad at a total secret
Nno ion mean like that, I mean if u try smth new (not like if u have been doing smth for some time) but just trying smth new yeah, n obv not being a pro at once but also not sucky, like medium+ as I said, while some ppl r like,, very sucky always when they try stuff
I mean most skills build off of other skills
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god complex
Sometimes it is deserved honestly, but idk im just good at doing stuff like practical and theoretical stuff at least in school n like that, tho ig everyone has to b bad at something (feelings allegedly lol, I do not understand)
myb they are good at other stuff that u dont know that they are tho
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I don't think theres a dichotomy to people who are good at everything and people who are bad at everything. It's probably just a combination of income and certain kids getting more support and praise at a young age because they learned faster, since the learning methods were made for them, which resulted to them being motivated and good at many things. Kids from high income families can also have more hobbies and more expensive hobbies than low income kids. Some things that lead to poverty are also neurological and genetic which affect the way we learn, so at least some of the neurodivergent kids are also from low income families. 

I also think that the people who seem to be good at everything have huge pressure on beeing seen as people who are good at everything. So they're probably pretty good at hiding the things they're bad at. Or they just have skills that make them good at making themselves seem like they're good at everything (very complicated sentence, apologies!). People who are openly bad at something are probably openly bad at other things as well. And maybe they don't brag about the things they're good at so much. 

We should also consider on what we see as things you can be good and bad at and which things wee se as more valuable than others. Sorry for the long reply, this topic is very interesting! 
No I just mean me n my best friend, very similar backgrounds etc etc, n I absolutely do not feel pressure to b good cus I will own it if what I do is bad, but like at school for example, if we r doing smth neither of us has done before, she will always suck n I will always do it good (generalized but u get), like idk why is that. Also it is hard to talk to her lol cus she doesn't know any words or general knowledge but ig that is a different discussion, but idk. Its just a recurring theme w everything. Tho she is still miles better than some of the other ppl in my class tho thank god
Interesting! However I do believe that everyone has the potential to be good at things. Some people take more time to learn than others. And the way we're teached is made for certain kind of brain. It's not even meant to be understood by everyone, so obviously there's people that are going to learn slower or in some cases, not at all. But in those cases I do think the fault is in the education and not in the one being educated. 
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god complex
Sometimes it is deserved honestly, but idk im just good at doing stuff like practical and theoretical stuff at least in school n like that, tho ig everyone has to b bad at something (feelings allegedly lol, I do not understand)
myb they are good at other stuff that u dont know that they are tho
No ouff not my best friend at least, she aknowledge that she is not good at anything but iss ok cus I can help her in school so she is still better than other ppl in our class (also she is not immune to criticism/input like certain other ppl can b thank god)
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autism wrote:
Ataraxia wrote:
im just built different
from now on when i need accommodations on my classes I'll just say this to my proffs  
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ouch wrote:
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im just built different
from now on when i need accommodations on my classes I'll just say this to my proffs  
I think it would count as legit 
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Ataraxia wrote:
autism wrote:
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im just built different
from now on when i need accommodations on my classes I'll just say this to my proffs  

also works when someone asks "how did you come to this solution on the problem"
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kalypso wrote:
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Sometimes it is deserved honestly, but idk im just good at doing stuff like practical and theoretical stuff at least in school n like that, tho ig everyone has to b bad at something (feelings allegedly lol, I do not understand)
myb they are good at other stuff that u dont know that they are tho
No ouff not my best friend at least, she aknowledge that she is not good at anything but iss ok cus I can help her in school so she is still better than other ppl in our class (also she is not immune to criticism/input like certain other ppl can b thank god)
in my case, always just been like average to everything in school, wasn't good or bad at anything, but that was only bc i didnt get the recognition for it. in 9th grade i got a new math teacher and she put me on the highest level when our class was divided into levels, i was so confused and asked her why and she was like.. but u are good at math hello. i was just confused, then i started gymnasium and math has never been easier in my life. and i thought i was bad at it until that one teacher
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myb they are good at other stuff that u dont know that they are tho
No ouff not my best friend at least, she aknowledge that she is not good at anything but iss ok cus I can help her in school so she is still better than other ppl in our class (also she is not immune to criticism/input like certain other ppl can b thank god)
in my case, always just been like average to everything in school, wasn't good or bad at anything, but that was only bc i didnt get the recognition for it. in 9th grade i got a new math teacher and she put me on the highest level when our class was divided into levels, i was so confused and asked her why and she was like.. but u are good at math hello. i was just confused, then i started gymnasium and math has never been easier in my life. and i thought i was bad at it until that one teacher
I am good in every course except gym and religion but ig I have sticky brain , very too sticky sticky 
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also found a redit thread where they explore that the reasoning might just be mentality and confidence. people who appear good at everything simply arent afraid to explore options that arent the normality cause theyre not afraid to fail, they have more. while people who dont do as well is stuck on some parts, overthink, and dont see the full picture or new aspects of it cause theyre scared.

but idk. im terrified of failing or doing something wrong. so i just do everything as fast and unsupervised as possible and never proof read or look back. if i cant see my mistakes i havent made any, yknow. it always works out for me.

maybe its just luck.
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No ouff not my best friend at least, she aknowledge that she is not good at anything but iss ok cus I can help her in school so she is still better than other ppl in our class (also she is not immune to criticism/input like certain other ppl can b thank god)
in my case, always just been like average to everything in school, wasn't good or bad at anything, but that was only bc i didnt get the recognition for it. in 9th grade i got a new math teacher and she put me on the highest level when our class was divided into levels, i was so confused and asked her why and she was like.. but u are good at math hello. i was just confused, then i started gymnasium and math has never been easier in my life. and i thought i was bad at it until that one teacher
I am good in every course except gym and religion but ig I have sticky brain , very too sticky sticky 
gym is a fucking stupid class, like you are graded on how good u are on the whatever sport u are doing and not ur interest/commitment whatever, like it's not everything that has played football/vollyball ANYTHING STUPID BALL since they were 6. 
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in my case, always just been like average to everything in school, wasn't good or bad at anything, but that was only bc i didnt get the recognition for it. in 9th grade i got a new math teacher and she put me on the highest level when our class was divided into levels, i was so confused and asked her why and she was like.. but u are good at math hello. i was just confused, then i started gymnasium and math has never been easier in my life. and i thought i was bad at it until that one teacher
I am good in every course except gym and religion but ig I have sticky brain , very too sticky sticky 
gym is a fucking stupid class, like you are graded on how good u are on the whatever sport u are doing and not ur interest/commitment whatever, like it's not everything that has played football/vollyball ANYTHING STUPID BALL since they were 6. 
The criteria is supposed to b only effort based but u just kno if u come there n ur fat n bad at sports but still try ur best, u will get a medium grade max 
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