bee wrote: i luckily havent lost many people but my grandma died on her birthday so i cant really avoid thinking about that every time it comes aroundÂ
Limbs wrote: i wish my mom had a memory plaque or something too, not a grave bc she wanted to be cremated but i'm still so sad that there's no place i can go to like visit her. i know she's with me in spirit everywhere but i really needed a place to grieve n remember her in the first few years after she passed
ThugWorkout wrote: ye my sister died Christmas Day so itâs kinda hard to ignore u know and her birthday is two days before mine, she was cremated so we always just buy flowers or something when either of those are coming upÂ
provocative wrote: i mean some of them yeah like, my grandparents lived far away from us so i didn't knew them very well but my previous pets and my brothers best friend who was like a brother to me, yes. i visit his grave every now and then
hutsu wrote: i stopped after a few years. it's easier on me to commemorate them when i feel like it and not when it's  socially most approved. they matter to me regardless of not visiting a physical graveyardÂ
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wrote: Those people I know who have died I wasn't close to so it doesn't bother me really