living with someone is so expensive??? - Forum

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ellem wrote:
Living alone is ridiculously expensive I’d say

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absintjente wrote:
i think this is the exception rather than the rule

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Adelen wrote:
I totally agree with this!!

When my bf started staying at my place a lot I would stay at his house (w his parents) just as much. Therefor it made sense that I would buy us dinners and stuff since his parents fed me too, but after a while he started staying with me so much and still didn't pay for food!!

He also would complain if it wasn't "proper" food, and not just the cheapest pasta with the cheapest sauce. Bc when I was alone, my dinners would cost around 20kr , but when I make food for the both of us they cost like 70kr.. urgh,

(he's started carrying his weight tho, but I Still pay all of the rent bc he says "If I had to pay rent I would still live with my parents" even though that's not even a real possibility atm.)

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belladonnaofsadness wrote:

scoff wrote:

Pavlov wrote:
do u pay for ur housemates essentials

bf is notoriously bad with money n i don't want the electricity or internet shut off eh

Have you talked to him about his spending habits?
If you have and he doesn't listen, you should kick him out until he's changed.

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Pavlov wrote:

KarenMonson wrote:
I totally agree with this!!

When my bf started staying at my place a lot I would stay at his house (w his parents) just as much. Therefor it made sense that I would buy us dinners and stuff since his parents fed me too, but after a while he started staying with me so much and still didn't pay for food!!

He also would complain if it wasn't "proper" food, and not just the cheapest pasta with the cheapest sauce. Bc when I was alone, my dinners would cost around 20kr , but when I make food for the both of us they cost like 70kr.. urgh,

(he's started carrying his weight tho, but I Still pay all of the rent bc he says "If I had to pay rent I would still live with my parents" even though that's not even a real possibility atm.)

ew dump him

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Barbarella wrote:

scoff wrote:

Sannissan wrote:

scoff wrote:
bf is notoriously bad with money n i don't want the electricity or internet shut off eh

Have a talk about it with him. Unless you always want to keep on paying his share too. I don't think it will suddenly just change unless it's brought up.

oh believe me it's been brought up time and time again
i'm just so sick of some people obviously not being able to handle money while i always think like... six months ahead. at least. and it pisses me off.

why would he be good with money when you're doing it all for him
nah you gotta bail

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Adelen wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

KarenMonson wrote:
I totally agree with this!!

When my bf started staying at my place a lot I would stay at his house (w his parents) just as much. Therefor it made sense that I would buy us dinners and stuff since his parents fed me too, but after a while he started staying with me so much and still didn't pay for food!!

He also would complain if it wasn't "proper" food, and not just the cheapest pasta with the cheapest sauce. Bc when I was alone, my dinners would cost around 20kr , but when I make food for the both of us they cost like 70kr.. urgh,

(he's started carrying his weight tho, but I Still pay all of the rent bc he says "If I had to pay rent I would still live with my parents" even though that's not even a real possibility atm.)

ew dump him

Heheh, I got pretty close at some point. But honestly, this is the worst thing about him so I figure I can keep up with it for now. Moving apartments soon and then he's definitely gonna pay his half of the rent! (if he argues about this I´ll definitely tell him to move back to his mother)

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Rotte wrote:

KarenMonson wrote:

Pavlov wrote:

KarenMonson wrote:
I totally agree with this!!

When my bf started staying at my place a lot I would stay at his house (w his parents) just as much. Therefor it made sense that I would buy us dinners and stuff since his parents fed me too, but after a while he started staying with me so much and still didn't pay for food!!

He also would complain if it wasn't "proper" food, and not just the cheapest pasta with the cheapest sauce. Bc when I was alone, my dinners would cost around 20kr , but when I make food for the both of us they cost like 70kr.. urgh,

(he's started carrying his weight tho, but I Still pay all of the rent bc he says "If I had to pay rent I would still live with my parents" even though that's not even a real possibility atm.)

ew dump him

Heheh, I got pretty close at some point. But honestly, this is the worst thing about him so I figure I can keep up with it for now. Moving apartments soon and then he's definitely gonna pay his half of the rent! (if he argues about this I´ll definitely tell him to move back to his mother)

That's the energy (;

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Limbs wrote:
how do you already live with someone again

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scoff wrote:

Limbs wrote:
how do you already live with someone again

what do you mean how
my ex kicked me out a year ago i met someone new after like 4 months and 4 months after that we moved in together