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kagura wrote:
Alam wrote:
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well it's like your mother works with drug addicts so she doesn't accept any kind of drug using 
and you're a pothead and your mom asks you if you have ever tried any drugs and you say no

expect this is not about mothers and drugs
I'm even more confused now
ahhh.i'll just use this as an example. that was about my mother. well i'm not "a pothead", but yes i like to smoke sometimes and it's part of my life. but i can't tell that to my mother and those few times she has asked if i have tried drugs or anyone has offered me them i've been like No jesus christ mom of course there's no drug using in my friendgroup
she doesn't even like seeing me drinking alcohol. it's not like she's mad about that because it's legal, but she just don't like that and she refused to buy wine bottle to my 30 years old brother
so she knowing that all of her children smokes/has smoked weed wouldn't just do any good to her

it's same kind of situtation here. i don't think that person knowing the truth just wouldn't make any good
like i don't know what would she gain from there? nothing
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Date: 13-06-2021 19:24 | Times changed: 1
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rn, it hits me like a them issue, and I'm just wondering more about how would it feel living to always accommodate their preferences when you're around those topics, knowing you're always hiding something and actively lying? isn't it easier to just tell earlier rather than later, give them time to digest it, and see where it goes bc like if it is something hindering you living your life as you want it, then i dunno if it is as 'living the best life and such' as it may seem to be.


hypoetethically. never take my advice tbh. you just have to figure what feels right for you right now and go with that. you know the details of the situations much better than i ever can.
Date: 13-06-2021 20:05 | Times changed: 1
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uhyre wrote:
idk im a truth above absolutely everything kind of person, theres nothing on earth that feels worse to me than knowing people around me have lied/withheld information from me, specially when its in some misguided attempt at doing me a favour. its an immediate deal breaker on my end

so from that perspective i would not keep things from others nor would i accept others keeping things from me

if maintaining a relationship to someone in my life requires lying/being lied to then id rather not have that relationship at all
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:06
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Alam wrote:
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idk im a truth above absolutely everything kind of person, theres nothing on earth that feels worse to me than knowing people around me have lied/withheld information from me, specially when its in some misguided attempt at doing me a favour. its an immediate deal breaker on my end

so from that perspective i would not keep things from others nor would i accept others keeping things from me

if maintaining a relationship to someone in my life requires lying/being lied to then id rather not have that relationship at all
Yeah I think that's my stance on it too but like, more eloquent.
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:14
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uhyre wrote:
Alam wrote:
uhyre wrote:
idk im a truth above absolutely everything kind of person, theres nothing on earth that feels worse to me than knowing people around me have lied/withheld information from me, specially when its in some misguided attempt at doing me a favour. its an immediate deal breaker on my end

so from that perspective i would not keep things from others nor would i accept others keeping things from me

if maintaining a relationship to someone in my life requires lying/being lied to then id rather not have that relationship at all
Yeah I think that's my stance on it too but like, more eloquent.

eloquency is too much effort
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:28
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No truth will destroy my friendship
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:29
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ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
well it's like your mother works with drug addicts so she doesn't accept any kind of drug using 
and you're a pothead and your mom asks you if you have ever tried any drugs and you say no

expect this is not about mothers and drugs
Tbh every mom I have met that works w drug addicts, r more accepting of drug use (not including hard drugs tho). Weird stuff
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:31
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kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
well it's like your mother works with drug addicts so she doesn't accept any kind of drug using 
and you're a pothead and your mom asks you if you have ever tried any drugs and you say no

expect this is not about mothers and drugs
Tbh every mom I have met that works w drug addicts, r more accepting of drug use (not including hard drugs tho). Weird stuff
i don't know other moms that works with them than my own and she def is not accepting
she actually tried to tell me that cannabis is used by injecting it to your veins and it will kill you. and i was there like yes mom if you somehow manage to inject cannabis to your veins you'll probably die from a blood clot. and she got mad for "joking with something so serious"
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:34
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Alam wrote:
kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
well it's like your mother works with drug addicts so she doesn't accept any kind of drug using 
and you're a pothead and your mom asks you if you have ever tried any drugs and you say no

expect this is not about mothers and drugs
Tbh every mom I have met that works w drug addicts, r more accepting of drug use (not including hard drugs tho). Weird stuff
i don't know other moms that works with them than my own and she def is not accepting
she actually tried to tell me that cannabis is used by injecting it to your veins and it will kill you. and i was there like yes mom if you somehow manage to inject cannabis to your veins you'll probably die from a blood clot. and she got mad for "joking with something so serious"
Sorry for being blunt but who let her work with drug addicts? She clearly has a critical gap in knowledge, holy fuck.
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:36
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i would like to know the truth
Date: 13-06-2021 20:36
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ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
well it's like your mother works with drug addicts so she doesn't accept any kind of drug using 
and you're a pothead and your mom asks you if you have ever tried any drugs and you say no

expect this is not about mothers and drugs
Tbh every mom I have met that works w drug addicts, r more accepting of drug use (not including hard drugs tho). Weird stuff
i don't know other moms that works with them than my own and she def is not accepting
she actually tried to tell me that cannabis is used by injecting it to your veins and it will kill you. and i was there like yes mom if you somehow manage to inject cannabis to your veins you'll probably die from a blood clot. and she got mad for "joking with something so serious"
She sounds stupid and like a bad worker if she has to deal w drug addicts no offence but 🤔🤔 wth lol
The ones I know obv don't want their kids to do any drugs (including my mom) but I think they see more the issue with doing hard drugs, but they also see that smoking weed =/= getting completely fucked 
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:37
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kagura wrote:
Alam wrote:
kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
Tbh every mom I have met that works w drug addicts, r more accepting of drug use (not including hard drugs tho). Weird stuff
i don't know other moms that works with them than my own and she def is not accepting
she actually tried to tell me that cannabis is used by injecting it to your veins and it will kill you. and i was there like yes mom if you somehow manage to inject cannabis to your veins you'll probably die from a blood clot. and she got mad for "joking with something so serious"
Sorry for being blunt but who let her work with drug addicts? She clearly has a critical gap in knowledge, holy fuck.
that was when i was like 14 so maybe she just tried to scare me idk
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:38
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ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
Alam wrote:
kagura wrote:
i don't know other moms that works with them than my own and she def is not accepting
she actually tried to tell me that cannabis is used by injecting it to your veins and it will kill you. and i was there like yes mom if you somehow manage to inject cannabis to your veins you'll probably die from a blood clot. and she got mad for "joking with something so serious"
Sorry for being blunt but who let her work with drug addicts? She clearly has a critical gap in knowledge, holy fuck.
that was when i was like 14 so maybe she just tried to scare me idk
U still shouldn't try to scare anyone out of doing drugs lol, she should know that either way 
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:39
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kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
Alam wrote:
Sorry for being blunt but who let her work with drug addicts? She clearly has a critical gap in knowledge, holy fuck.
that was when i was like 14 so maybe she just tried to scare me idk
U still shouldn't try to scare anyone out of doing drugs lol, she should know that either way
yeah welp. haven't talk with her about drugs now that i'm adult soo, but after whe she did to my brother i absolute don't even dare to

anyhow this original thing wasn't about my mother and drugs, but yeah still same kind of stuff. no need to tell her everything about her kids lifes, she's much happier without knowing 
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Date: 13-06-2021 20:44
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ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
ouch wrote:
kagura wrote:
that was when i was like 14 so maybe she just tried to scare me idk
U still shouldn't try to scare anyone out of doing drugs lol, she should know that either way
yeah welp. haven't talk with her about drugs now that i'm adult soo, but after whe she did to my brother i absolute don't even dare to

anyhow this original thing wasn't about my mother and drugs, but yeah still same kind of stuff. no need to tell her everything about her kids lifes, she's much happier without knowing 
If its not smth abt the other person or that impacts the other person, I don't see the point in telling. Like it doesn't impact ur mom that u do drugs, it wouldn't impact ur friend if u do drugs, it would impact them if u knew abt their partner cheating on them or sum tho 
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