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Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
yes, but oh boy that is screaming red flag, once a cheater always a cheater and if he is texting u this shit and holding back someone, nah that's not okay 
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
nono not at all, but im talking about the concept, if he can do this to someone he could do it to anyone 
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:22
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bee wrote:
MeNoS wrote:
bee wrote:
MeNoS wrote:
i have someone like that as well, although they unfortunately dont text me hahaha
tbh that is probably a good thing 
): youre probably right but i dont want you to be
i know the feeling, but i also know it wont hurt less to have contact to them and be constantly reminded of them. you would set yourself up for a lot of false hope. youre better off <3
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:23
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Evey wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
yes, but oh boy that is screaming red flag, once a cheater always a cheater and if he is texting u this shit and holding back someone, nah that's not okay 
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
hmm idk just sounded like he was together with one girl, but was complaining about her to another girl (u), putting u in a good light and her in a bad one, and with his intentions being unclear? sounds like something someone would do if they were considering leaving/cheating on their gf, having one foot in the relationship and one outside of it 

not cheating but red flag for me 
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:24
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bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
yes, but oh boy that is screaming red flag, once a cheater always a cheater and if he is texting u this shit and holding back someone, nah that's not okay 
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
nono not at all, but im talking about the concept, if he can do this to someone he could do it to anyone 
youre probably very right about that 
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:25
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
bee wrote:
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
nono not at all, but im talking about the concept, if he can do this to someone he could do it to anyone 
youre probably very right about that 
not that it's easy to stay away from at all, cause it's not you that are doing those things
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:26
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lain wrote:
Evey wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
yes, but oh boy that is screaming red flag, once a cheater always a cheater and if he is texting u this shit and holding back someone, nah that's not okay 
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
hmm idk just sounded like he was together with one girl, but was complaining about her to another girl (u), putting u in a good light and her in a bad one, and with his intentions being unclear? sounds like something someone would do if they were considering leaving/cheating on their gf, having one foot in the relationship and one outside of it 

not cheating but red flag for me 
yea i was just about to write this, red flag for sure 
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:27
MeNoS
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MeNoS wrote:
bee wrote:
MeNoS wrote:
bee wrote:
tbh that is probably a good thing 
): youre probably right but i dont want you to be
i know the feeling, but i also know it wont hurt less to have contact to them and be constantly reminded of them. you would set yourself up for a lot of false hope. youre better off <3
ty :') i think i might have needed that damn
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:28
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bee wrote:
Evey wrote:
bee wrote:
kalypso wrote:
yes, but oh boy that is screaming red flag, once a cheater always a cheater and if he is texting u this shit and holding back someone, nah that's not okay 
i mean... he is not cheating? i dont know if he has any intentions by messaging me, maybe he just sees me as a friend, idk. it doesnt matter cus even if i had the chance i wouldnt wanna get into a relationship with him (or anyone else for that matter) i just wanna kissy kissy
hmm idk just sounded like he was together with one girl, but was complaining about her to another girl (u), putting u in a good light and her in a bad one, and with his intentions being unclear? sounds like something someone would do if they were considering leaving/cheating on their gf, having one foot in the relationship and one outside of it 

not cheating but red flag for me 
i wont deny thats a red flag. he told me about how the relationship felt like it was coming to an end and i told him it wasnt worth staying in a relationship longer than you should and he told me i was right and he just needed to figure out how and when to end it. so he i definitely considering leaving her but i dont see him as one to cheat, though you never know. but we have only started texting often recently and they have been together for over two years so yea i forgot where i was going with this
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:30
Lean
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lean wrote:
bee wrote:
lean wrote:
how long were u together and for how long.

he was 16 and i was 17 when we met, we had something going on for 8 months, flirting back and forth, people were constantly calling us a couple but we never were for real. even though we both wanted more it just never happened. when we "broke up" we told each other that maybe sometime in the future when the time was right we could try again, and i think that part is why i have such a hard time letting go lol
if i can be completely honest.... he sounds like a jackass. comparing you to other women, staying with his gf even though he says he wants to break up with her? i've met so many guys like this and they're never really worth persuing. he's keeping you on so he can have someone to turn to if/when they break up, with the intention of making you feel special. i can guarantee it.
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:53
Lean
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lean wrote:
just realized people have already said basically exactly that but driving it home for good measure. 
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Date: 29-06-2021 23:54
Private
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kagura wrote:
i have this one person i don't really think about that often and last time i saw him i felt literally nothing
but sometimes he just comes out from somewhere deep inside of my mind. like hearing his name makes me shiver, reading my old diaries makes me cry a little, sometimes i see dreams about him or just some random things reminds me of him and makes me smile. or sometimes i remember things that happened between us and i cringe
so yeah he has left scars in me
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Date: 30-06-2021 00:00
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bee wrote:
lean wrote:
bee wrote:
lean wrote:
how long were u together and for how long.

he was 16 and i was 17 when we met, we had something going on for 8 months, flirting back and forth, people were constantly calling us a couple but we never were for real. even though we both wanted more it just never happened. when we "broke up" we told each other that maybe sometime in the future when the time was right we could try again, and i think that part is why i have such a hard time letting go lol
if i can be completely honest.... he sounds like a jackass. comparing you to other women, staying with his gf even though he says he wants to break up with her? i've met so many guys like this and they're never really worth persuing. he's keeping you on so he can have someone to turn to if/when they break up, with the intention of making you feel special. i can guarantee it.
yea maybe hes a jackass. i dont feel like he is but i might just be the blind one here. im not gonna lie, if he breaks up with her, i hope he is interested in me in some way, but i would never be serious with him so i guess it doesnt really matter that he is a jackass. at least its nice having a conversation with him and he come off as kind and caring : )
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Date: 30-06-2021 00:01
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bee wrote:
kagura wrote:
i have this one person i don't really think about that often and last time i saw him i felt literally nothing
but sometimes he just comes out from somewhere deep inside of my mind. like hearing his name makes me shiver, reading my old diaries makes me cry a little, sometimes i see dreams about him or just some random things reminds me of him and makes me smile. or sometimes i remember things that happened between us and i cringe
so yeah he has left scars in me
those damn memories uh i know the feeling too well. im sorry it still hurts sometimes but i hope youre able to heal eventually <3
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Date: 30-06-2021 00:03
Lean
Streetmusician



lean wrote:
bee wrote:
lean wrote:
bee wrote:

he was 16 and i was 17 when we met, we had something going on for 8 months, flirting back and forth, people were constantly calling us a couple but we never were for real. even though we both wanted more it just never happened. when we "broke up" we told each other that maybe sometime in the future when the time was right we could try again, and i think that part is why i have such a hard time letting go lol
if i can be completely honest.... he sounds like a jackass. comparing you to other women, staying with his gf even though he says he wants to break up with her? i've met so many guys like this and they're never really worth persuing. he's keeping you on so he can have someone to turn to if/when they break up, with the intention of making you feel special. i can guarantee it.
yea maybe hes a jackass. i dont feel like he is but i might just be the blind one here. im not gonna lie, if he breaks up with her, i hope he is interested in me in some way, but i would never be serious with him so i guess it doesnt really matter that he is a jackass. at least its nice having a conversation with him and he come off as kind and caring : )
he's comparing women and [trying to] pitting them aginst each other. he's keeping you on the side so you're around. 
this is how it's gonna go imo, if he does ever end up breaking up with her

slowly he keeps talking about how ~awful~ his gf is to you, building up (it will be vague, like what he did calling her negative, often followed with "i'm so glad ur not like that" or something along those lines)
ur gonna believe him (i hope not this is just what i see happen to women and teenage girls), and probably at some point you'll call her crazy cuz he made you believe she is (she isn't, probably)
you'll get attached cuz he's made you feel special and important but he'll probably keep you at an arms length and even if you do end up getting together he will be a bad boyfriend and you'll be in her current position and someone else will be in your current position

i'm not saying that's exactly what will happen or that you'll even want to get together with him (cuz u said u didn't, fair) but just be careful cuz dudes like that come a dime a dozen lol i've seen nearly this exact situation play out multiple times

and if he does break up with her and you do actually want to just fuck around with him and not get seriously involved, i say go for it but don't get attached cuz your feelings will get hurt

ik this sounds like a lot from a stranger on the internet i just know this archetype too well and have seen too many women and girls get sucked into it, myself included
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Date: 30-06-2021 00:13
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bee wrote:
lean wrote:
bee wrote:
lean wrote:
if i can be completely honest.... he sounds like a jackass. comparing you to other women, staying with his gf even though he says he wants to break up with her? i've met so many guys like this and they're never really worth persuing. he's keeping you on so he can have someone to turn to if/when they break up, with the intention of making you feel special. i can guarantee it.
yea maybe hes a jackass. i dont feel like he is but i might just be the blind one here. im not gonna lie, if he breaks up with her, i hope he is interested in me in some way, but i would never be serious with him so i guess it doesnt really matter that he is a jackass. at least its nice having a conversation with him and he come off as kind and caring : )
he's comparing women and [trying to] pitting them aginst each other. he's keeping you on the side so you're around. 
this is how it's gonna go imo, if he does ever end up breaking up with her

slowly he keeps talking about how ~awful~ his gf is to you, building up (it will be vague, like what he did calling her negative, often followed with "i'm so glad ur not like that" or something along those lines)
ur gonna believe him (i hope not this is just what i see happen to women and teenage girls), and probably at some point you'll call her crazy cuz he made you believe she is (she isn't, probably)
you'll get attached cuz he's made you feel special and important but he'll probably keep you at an arms length and even if you do end up getting together he will be a bad boyfriend and you'll be in her current position and someone else will be in your current position

i'm not saying that's exactly what will happen or that you'll even want to get together with him (cuz u said u didn't, fair) but just be careful cuz dudes like that come a dime a dozen lol i've seen nearly this exact situation play out multiple times

and if he does break up with her and you do actually want to just fuck around with him and not get seriously involved, i say go for it but don't get attached cuz your feelings will get hurt

ik this sounds like a lot from a stranger on the internet i just know this archetype too well and have seen too many women and girls get sucked into it, myself included
well i thank you for caring enough to tell me all this. i catch feelings way too fast so i probably should be really careful. if hes gonna keep telling me bad stuff about his gf like that i will know he is not worth it and is just a dumb boi. but i also wanna have my fun if i get the chance lol. but i will be careful and also keep my opinion about his gf neutral cus its not my place to judge her off his words ever

i will save this thread to update one day and we can see if you just predicted the future 
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