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Lean
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kalypso wrote:
i was SOOOOOOOOOO ugly up until like two-three years ago
and yet i was fourteen when i got catcalled the most
tru i was at a local dyke march (pride for lesbians) as a 14 y/o and a couple men in their 30s catcalled me i was like do u know where u are cuz these lesbians will ruin you
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i think it makes sense in some way like u only ever know what ur PAST self has looked like, and after some years uve distanced urself mentally enough to look back and think "yea i wasnt ugly actually nvm"

but its not like ur appearance actually changes that much after u exit puberty like i looked 25 at 17 and i think i looked fine so logically i know i look perfectly fine now bc i have exactly the same face still
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yeah
the standards are set by pedophilic males that values zero body hair, small bodies and youth like features more than reality of female bodies.
when u start existing in your natural state, you realise how fucked up society truly is.
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phrasing it as being hotter is kinda weird but im not sure most ppl mean it in a literal way when they say that??
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uhyre wrote:
i think it makes sense in some way like u only ever know what ur PAST self has looked like, and after some years uve distanced urself mentally enough to look back and think "yea i wasnt ugly actually nvm"

but its not like ur appearance actually changes that much after u exit puberty like i looked 25 at 17 and i think i looked fine so logically i know i look perfectly fine now bc i have exactly the same face still
nope mine changed a lot, i was defo ugly
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lean wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I just think about all
the grown ass men
who would hit on me
nasty fuckers
literally.
i got hit on more as a teenager than i do as an adult, and most other women ik say the same thing.
to the point where i recall a SINGLE incident where a man got uncomfortable and left when he found out my age because i was shocked. like???
me too! I haven't gotten hit on by older men after age 16 and that's quite strange, since it did happen prior to that quite a few times, and they didn't care!! they knew it was weird and still made strange comments about my body
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anyway i was ugly at 14 and still am at 19, even though my weight hasn't changed
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Hazelnut wrote:
Justifying being chunkier with body positivity is toxic.
not what this thread is about at all
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sad how almost every girl ive talked to has been heavily sexualized and hit on when they were 13-15 the most
its disturbing lol
but as soon as u look like a fully grown adult woman, men think you're too intimidating and not as easily manipulated in to bed

i love creepy men 
Koolaid
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fuck body standards but im also not immune to society's standards and i sometimes wish i fit in aaarrghh
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I've looked th same since 15, sorta prepubescent, I feel like it mb actually kept creeps away or mb just luck who knows, i've never been catcalled or anything like that
I dont rlly care how attractive i am to others bbut i do have a lot of anxiety around mb 4 some reason still developping or sth bc ik i wouldn't b happy looking like tht
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Rouya wrote:
uhyre wrote:
i think it makes sense in some way like u only ever know what ur PAST self has looked like, and after some years uve distanced urself mentally enough to look back and think "yea i wasnt ugly actually nvm"

but its not like ur appearance actually changes that much after u exit puberty like i looked 25 at 17 and i think i looked fine so logically i know i look perfectly fine now bc i have exactly the same face still
nope mine changed a lot, i was defo ugly

how 😭 same skull
Lean
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Koolaid wrote:
fuck body standards but im also not immune to society's standards and i sometimes wish i fit in aaarrghh
this is such a mood like i'm so aware of who beauty standards are set for and am actively trying to unlearn that and i'm still like :~) gotta shave my whole body :~) gotta wear makeup when meeting up with people who aren't n my core group :~) gotta look pretty :~)
like i don't consider myself heteronormative at all, i've decentered men in my life, i'm surrounded by like minded fuck the patriarchy people yet i'm still a victim to it
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