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Rouya wrote:
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Love that we basically just wrote the exact same thing hah
hahah yeah me too
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ellem wrote:
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Idk if you wished to b more intimate w them that might be a good place to start, if you wish to be theirs and think about kissing them and all that I guess? Not just hook up but actually be intimate, doesn’t necessarily mean just sex ya know 
that's how I differ them at least, I can sleep w friends that I love but that doesn’t mean I long for anything more than that, while with a romantic relationship I’d love more emotional intimacy as well as the physical, kissing, holding hands, being theirs and all of that crap

in my experience i can want to hold hands with a very dear friend but not want to kiss them hmm
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
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Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Idk if you wished to b more intimate w them that might be a good place to start, if you wish to be theirs and think about kissing them and all that I guess? Not just hook up but actually be intimate, doesn’t necessarily mean just sex ya know 
that's how I differ them at least, I can sleep w friends that I love but that doesn’t mean I long for anything more than that, while with a romantic relationship I’d love more emotional intimacy as well as the physical, kissing, holding hands, being theirs and all of that crap

in my experience i can want to hold hands with a very dear friend but not want to kiss them hmm
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
yeah ofc! hmm idk i have one friend that i long for holding hands as much as with my partner, but the closeness feels deep in another way i think. it feels like i am safe, rather than that i feel romantically special? idk love's hard lol
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Rouya wrote:
ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Idk if you wished to b more intimate w them that might be a good place to start, if you wish to be theirs and think about kissing them and all that I guess? Not just hook up but actually be intimate, doesn’t necessarily mean just sex ya know 
that's how I differ them at least, I can sleep w friends that I love but that doesn’t mean I long for anything more than that, while with a romantic relationship I’d love more emotional intimacy as well as the physical, kissing, holding hands, being theirs and all of that crap

in my experience i can want to hold hands with a very dear friend but not want to kiss them hmm
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
for me if i hold hands with a friend it's just like whatever, you know im not invested in it, it's just nice maybe, but if i hold hands with someone im romantically interested in, i get butterflies in my stomach or i can feel like in my body that im longing for them or it makes me really happy to be holding hands or something. deeper feelings than just "this is fine/nice"
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basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
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Evey wrote:
i should say that i only feel like that with one friend that is very special to me and our friendship has been probably the strongest non-blood relationship i've ever had so that's why the feelings are probably as strong as a platonic relationship can be... and therefore pretty close to the romantic one but still different
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Rouya wrote:
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basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol
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Evey wrote:
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basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them

either what rouya said or u just have a very close friend that's good in bed and u have good chemistry. doesn't sound like u r in love to me but the f do i know XD
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ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:

in my experience i can want to hold hands with a very dear friend but not want to kiss them hmm
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
yeah ofc! hmm idk i have one friend that i long for holding hands as much as with my partner, but the closeness feels deep in another way i think. it feels like i am safe, rather than that i feel romantically special? idk love's hard lol
Yesss exactly is more of a safe intimacy I guess????? I have one friend who I’m very very touchy w and I love to hug him and lie in his lap and everything but it’s completely different from a relationship ya know, this is just cus it’s comfortable and safe and idk.. is so hard to draw a definite line lmao
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ellem wrote:
Rouya wrote:
ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:

in my experience i can want to hold hands with a very dear friend but not want to kiss them hmm
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
for me if i hold hands with a friend it's just like whatever, you know im not invested in it, it's just nice maybe, but if i hold hands with someone im romantically interested in, i get butterflies in my stomach or i can feel like in my body that im longing for them or it makes me really happy to be holding hands or something. deeper feelings than just "this is fine/nice"
This was indeed what I was trying to say lmao 
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autism wrote:
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basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
for me those sound like romantic feelings but also i don't understand being in a relationship so maybe that would make a difference
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hungover wrote:
Rouya wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
could be romantic feelings you are suppressing. i dont want to kiss or be intimate with friends at least lol

Thing is, we've already been intimate, been together four times. And I can't stop thinking about doing it again, they're the first person I've ever felt comfortable enough with to get so intimate, all other times I've been like "ok sure we're doing this, I mean I don't really feel that comfortable, but you're hot" if that makes sense?
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Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Evey wrote:
ellem wrote:
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
yeah ofc! hmm idk i have one friend that i long for holding hands as much as with my partner, but the closeness feels deep in another way i think. it feels like i am safe, rather than that i feel romantically special? idk love's hard lol
Yesss exactly is more of a safe intimacy I guess????? I have one friend who I’m very very touchy w and I love to hug him and lie in his lap and everything but it’s completely different from a relationship ya know, this is just cus it’s comfortable and safe and idk.. is so hard to draw a definite line lmao
yeah idk i feel like friendships are more "pure" with pure intentions because you rly accept them for who they are and there is no passion in the way to make the view cloudy? so therefore the intimacy is kinda different but both can be as "intense" in my experience
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Rouya wrote:
ellem wrote:
Rouya wrote:
ellem wrote:
Ye but that varies from relationship to relationship, depends on the people u know, I’ve had some friends that I’ve held hands w too, but it’s still not really the same longing for intimacy as with a love interest I guess
for me if i hold hands with a friend it's just like whatever, you know im not invested in it, it's just nice maybe, but if i hold hands with someone im romantically interested in, i get butterflies in my stomach or i can feel like in my body that im longing for them or it makes me really happy to be holding hands or something. deeper feelings than just "this is fine/nice"
This was indeed what I was trying to say lmao 
hehe
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ellem wrote:
hungover wrote:
basically, I want to kiss them and I want to be intimate with them - but I don't want a relationship with them (but im not one for relationships in general) , they just make me feel safe and loved, they know me in and out and I love them with all of my heart, I'm just scared I might be catching feelings I don't want for them
But like what kind of intimacy are you talking about? Purely sex or are you talking about something deeper? There’s a big diff heh
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