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are you happy with your life rn?
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Physalis wrote:
yes and no

i'm grateful
i'm alive
i'm evolving/growing/learning and getting more wise

but

i'd like to get it over with, when it comes to ending one of my friendsships of over 10 years
in the past few years probably, but much more strongly for the past few months;
I've realized I can't keep entertaining the friendsship
it's wayy too toxic,
and i've realized i no longer want friendships like this
(it's not beneficial for any of us, n we are both in denial)

and she has a questionable influence on me (and others),
but she's lowkey sneaky about it, and a hard case to "get rid of"
our friendship is heavily based in a trauma bond, ngl -and it's no secret
but I have literally no single clue how imma end this friendship in a harmonious way
and in a way that she's gonna accept

prolly gonna take me even a year or even more, to slowly get rid of this
wish me luck hmm
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:21
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Physalis wrote:
iow

i want to make better space in my life for new and healthier connections in general
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:25
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ouch wrote:
No, and theres nothing I would like to receive 
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:49
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Biohazard wrote:
I'm thankful I saw this question because it got me thinking about where I am right now and I've actually come way further than I thought I had, and I really needed that realization rn
I'm not necessarily happy with my life rn, it's been such hellish work to start getting back up after some things happened but I actually have a direction to go to which I haven't had for a few years, and I'm more curious and hopeful about my future instead of being indifferent about it or dreading it

One thing I'm the most excited about is that I actually found a school I really want to get into after doing nothing for a long while bc I didn't know what I wanted to do and nothing felt appealing enough to use my little energy for
And if I get in, I'd also be able to move away from my home city which has started to just feel wrong after some stuff
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:50
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Physalis wrote:
I'm just doing a lot of soul searching and personal development atm
and my nr 1 priority is personal safety (-and safety of those dear to me)
so yeah..
figured I have a journey ahead of me, cutting almost every friendsship I've had
within the past ten years
i'm slowly but surely cutting the toxic connections

but then there's this friend of mine that I've mentioned

i'm suspecting successfully and safely ending this friendsship will demand of me to
- involve my own professional support system
- involve her family (and her professional support system)
- involve our common friends/aquaintances (those she's close to beside me)
(all in order to give me guidance, and her the support she'll need)

this will be such a long and draining process, but in the long run I'm sure it'll benefit the both of us, and let us grow for the better, in each our direction
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:52 | Times changed: 1
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Axon wrote:
ahhhh there are so many comments i relate to

hope we all can be happy with ourselves one day lol 
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:54
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kitten wrote:
no. im depressed and anxious and everyday is such a hard struggle just to live basically and im tired of being strong. my little brother passed away 3 yrs ago and it isn't seeming to get any better. guess ill just keep trying. i don't think i've been actually happy since
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:55
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hell no. 
Date: 30-12-2021 21:55
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Bicth wrote:
hell no. 
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:55
Axon
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Axon wrote:
Physalis wrote:
I'm just doing a lot of soul searching and personal development atm
and my nr 1 priority is personal safety (-and safety of those dear to me)
so yeah..
figured I have a journey ahead of me, cutting almost every friendsship I've had
within the past ten years
i'm slowly but surely cutting the toxic connections

but then there's this friend of mine that I've mentioned

i'm suspecting successfully and safely ending this friendsship will demand of me to
- involve my own professional support system
- involve her family (and her professional support system)
- involve our common friends/aquaintances (those she's close to beside me)
(all in order to give me guidance, and her the support she'll need)

this will be such a long and draining process, but in the long run I'm sure it'll benefit the both of us, and let us grow for the better, in each our direction
aaa this is such a wise decision & i really like the way you think !! i'm proud of you for wanting to put the work in and realizing that the person you're talking about isn't good to keep around
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:57
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
No, and theres nothing I would like to receive 
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:58
Axon
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Axon wrote:
Biohazard wrote:
I'm thankful I saw this question because it got me thinking about where I am right now and I've actually come way further than I thought I had, and I really needed that realization rn
I'm not necessarily happy with my life rn, it's been such hellish work to start getting back up after some things happened but I actually have a direction to go to which I haven't had for a few years, and I'm more curious and hopeful about my future instead of being indifferent about it or dreading it

One thing I'm the most excited about is that I actually found a school I really want to get into after doing nothing for a long while bc I didn't know what I wanted to do and nothing felt appealing enough to use my little energy for
And if I get in, I'd also be able to move away from my home city which has started to just feel wrong after some stuff
<3 i love this
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Date: 30-12-2021 21:58
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thecellabration wrote:
if i think too much about it, no
because i kinda feel like it's impossible to be happy with life and that nothing will ever be enough <3

but in actual reality then. yeah! i have a job that i actually enjoy (never expected that lol) (and i mean it's still a job but it's a decent one) and i just moved into my own apartment, and those were like the two things i really needed to achieve and now i have
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Date: 30-12-2021 22:02
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December wrote:
no, i have no life. guess that's what i'd like to achieve lol...
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Date: 30-12-2021 22:05
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Kouhai wrote:
I'm doing really good, studies and personal life is all going great, I'm in a steady relationship and we're moving in together in the fall. There's always that underlying feeling of everyone else doing better than me though, wish I could learn to be more confident in myself
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Date: 30-12-2021 22:11
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