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so many things in my life sadly, i'm the tumblr self-pitying reverse-escapist.. if i understood it correctly
I don't even understand that thermology
i interpreted it as like romanticizing the bad shit in your life, instead of avoiding it by escaping it you're leaning into it and victimizing yourself
No, i don't like my bad shit that much. I would rather escape it, and what I cannot escape I work to surrender to in a manner of "it is what it is." 

Sick brain can barely even start to digest the though processes behind it. Bc if you're not escaping, you're leaning in to it in a way that make x issue worse?? I neee a concrete example tbhm

I am confused 
Date: 13-04-2022 00:31 | Times changed: 1
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Suchomimus wrote:
spynation wrote:
hmm wrote:
Eostre wrote:
I don't even understand that thermology
i interpreted it as like romanticizing the bad shit in your life, instead of avoiding it by escaping it you're leaning into it and victimizing yourself
precisely
oh then i totally do this
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:31
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spynation wrote:
Eostre wrote:
hmm wrote:
Eostre wrote:
I don't even understand that thermology
i interpreted it as like romanticizing the bad shit in your life, instead of avoiding it by escaping it you're leaning into it and victimizing yourself
No, i don't like my bad shit that much. I would rather escape it, and what I cannot escape I work to surrender to in a manner of "it is what it is." 

Sick brain can barely even start to digest the though processes behind it. Bc if you're not escaping, you're leaning in to it in a way that make x issue worse?? I neee a concrete example tbhm
off the top of my head , daddy issues ? women who go for men they know arent right for them due to never having a decent father figure (me tbh) and those who r aware but unable to break the cycle r likely to play into bad boy tropes & put on a brave face thru trauma and become an expert at mental gymnastics to convince themselves the uncertainty they feel is some kind of mysterious charm nobody else understands (so me in my first rship)
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:35 | Times changed: 1
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ArianaGrande wrote:
Eostre wrote:
hmm wrote:
Eostre wrote:
I don't even understand that thermology
i interpreted it as like romanticizing the bad shit in your life, instead of avoiding it by escaping it you're leaning into it and victimizing yourself
No, i don't like my bad shit that much. I would rather escape it, and what I cannot escape I work to surrender to in a manner of "it is what it is." 

Sick brain can barely even start to digest the though processes behind it. Bc if you're not escaping, you're leaning in to it in a way that make x issue worse?? I neee a concrete example tbhm

I am confused 
i guess leaning into it in a romanticized way instead of facing the reality or severity of it is a way to cope with the issue at hand? 
also i suppose escaping it and leaning into it can exist simultaneously, it kinda still is escapism
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spynation wrote:
spynation wrote:
Eostre wrote:
hmm wrote:
i interpreted it as like romanticizing the bad shit in your life, instead of avoiding it by escaping it you're leaning into it and victimizing yourself
No, i don't like my bad shit that much. I would rather escape it, and what I cannot escape I work to surrender to in a manner of "it is what it is." 

Sick brain can barely even start to digest the though processes behind it. Bc if you're not escaping, you're leaning in to it in a way that make x issue worse?? I neee a concrete example tbhm
off the top of my head , daddy issues ? women who go for men they know arent right for them due to never having a decent father figure (me tbh) and those who r aware but unable to break the cycle r likely to play into bad boy tropes & put on a brave face thru trauma and become an expert at mental gymnastics to convince themselves the uncertainty they feel is some kind of mysterious charm nobody else understands (so me in my first rship)
i can easily see this thru a radfem lens too in how the patriarchy sells all kinds of pain to us beneath the guise of romance but i wouldnt say romance isnt real per se i just havent experienced it in full authenticity yet lol
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:39
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my debt & fear of losing my apartment bc it's a student apartment and i'm not currently studying bc very mentally ill, & not being able to find a new one because i have a ✨maksuhäiriömerkintä✨ and thus becoming homeless. no i can't romanticize this lmaoo
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what does that mean
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Imani wrote:
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cba to list those things but none of them can be romanticised lol not even a LITTLE bit
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:48
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spynation wrote:
Limbs wrote:
my debt & fear of losing my apartment bc it's a student apartment and i'm not currently studying bc very mentally ill, & not being able to find a new one because i have a ✨maksuhäiriömerkintä✨ and thus becoming homeless. no i can't romanticize this lmaoo
oh yeah i have some debt too separate from my tuition and they kept sending threatening letters before which i wasnt a huge fan of >.< what are ur options ?
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Suchomimus wrote:
for me i guess i romanticize my childhood trauma, mental illness, n general shittiness of my life rn 
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:52
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spynation wrote:
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for me i guess i romanticize my childhood trauma, mental illness, n general shittiness of my life rn 
i wonder what romanticizing childhood trauma would look like bc i cant do that myself, instant #TRIGGER thinking about... events

hope things get more bearable for u xoxo
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:55
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Me, trying to make sense of romance and daddy issues. 
So it's.. Getting stuck in trauma even when you logically know better at a point, you're just unable to process and heal from it so you keep on repeating it instead?

Isn't that stuff ppl get help for. 
Still confused af. Can i see some of those tumblr posts lmaof
Date: 13-04-2022 00:56
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Also when im done embarrassing myself in this topic, I will retire. 
Date: 13-04-2022 00:56
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spynation wrote:
Eostre wrote:
Me, trying to make sense of romance and daddy issues. 
So it's.. Getting stuck in trauma even when you logically know better at a point, you're just unable to process and heal from it so you keep on repeating it instead?

Isn't that stuff ppl get help for. 
Still confused af. Can i see some of those tumblr posts lmaof
i did say its a cycle so...................... yep and sure but i enjoy discussing things people get help for n this clearly needs to be discussed more if nobody knows what im talking about
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:58
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Suchomimus wrote:
spynation wrote:
Suchomimus wrote:
for me i guess i romanticize my childhood trauma, mental illness, n general shittiness of my life rn 
i wonder what romanticizing childhood trauma would look like bc i cant do that myself, instant #TRIGGER thinking about... events

hope things get more bearable for u xoxo
mine's probs not that bad that's why askjhdjkhf
and i can't remember a lot of it anyways
thanks :] i hope for u too
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Date: 13-04-2022 00:59
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