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devilcake wrote:
Imagine telling people you like dress up doll games and they go oh like everskies

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devilcake wrote:
List of things I’m kind of passionate about:
forum roleplay
twilight (the movie)
podcasts
linguistics/translation science (but I don’t remember that much of it since I dropped out gggh)
the color green
the wombats (band)

mmmm that’s it a think
which of these are most normal 🙈🙈🙈

linguistics for sure

I’m paranoid someone will try to talk to me about it n I’m like no I don’t remember anything I just like listening to a linguistics pod sometimes

In my experience, ppl know like zero if they haven't had it in school

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linguistics for sure

I’m paranoid someone will try to talk to me about it n I’m like no I don’t remember anything I just like listening to a linguistics pod sometimes

In my experience, ppl know like zero if they haven't had it in school

There is a discord where some people have written introductions and several people has it listed tho so : s

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devilcake wrote:
I think if I say translation sciences it’s more niche

also I just realized idk what language people are gonna be speaking so that’s another layer of anxiety to overcome thanks brain

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devilcake wrote:
Ah okay anxiety getting rly bad now I might not be able to physically get my self to go

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Hey do y’all think it would be weird to write in the group chat that I’ve been meaning to come to one of the meetings but that I’m struggling bc of my anxiety and ask if anyone could give a bit of a breakdown in what’s going on

bc maybe if I do that I won’t feel as awkward and I can go next month

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Also sorry for always making threads about this veepee

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Hey do y’all think it would be weird to write in the group chat that I’ve been meaning to come to one of the meetings but that I’m struggling bc of my anxiety and ask if anyone could give a bit of a breakdown in what’s going on

bc maybe if I do that I won’t feel as awkward and I can go next month

No absolutely not, ppl are generally very understanding

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misjel wrote:
From my experience (not lgbtq but kpop but they’re mostly lgbtq as well me thinks) ppl are pretty attentive like usually they try to make u feel welcomed, have you been there before and how was it?

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devilcake wrote:
Hey do y’all think it would be weird to write in the group chat that I’ve been meaning to come to one of the meetings but that I’m struggling bc of my anxiety and ask if anyone could give a bit of a breakdown in what’s going on

bc maybe if I do that I won’t feel as awkward and I can go next month

No absolutely not, ppl are generally very understanding

Okay yeah, okay so maybe I’ll do that for next week instead then, I don’t wanna come across as super weird but ur prolly right that they’ll be understanding

it feels a bit easier to show up for something when uve already flagged that ur going ig? + then I can’t make excuses lmao… okay this is a good plan it think

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misjel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

jelalalalalala wrote:

devilcake wrote:
Hey do y’all think it would be weird to write in the group chat that I’ve been meaning to come to one of the meetings but that I’m struggling bc of my anxiety and ask if anyone could give a bit of a breakdown in what’s going on

bc maybe if I do that I won’t feel as awkward and I can go next month

No absolutely not, ppl are generally very understanding

Okay yeah, okay so maybe I’ll do that for next week instead then, I don’t wanna come across as super weird but ur prolly right that they’ll be understanding

it feels a bit easier to show up for something when uve already flagged that ur going ig? + then I can’t make excuses lmao… okay this is a good plan it think

Otherwise you could frame it as ”oh haha this chat has been moving pretty quickly, could someone give me a recap?” But yes i don’t think it’s weird as u formulated it before

yes forcing urself >:3

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jelalalalalala wrote:
From my experience (not lgbtq but kpop but they’re mostly lgbtq as well me thinks) ppl are pretty attentive like usually they try to make u feel welcomed, have you been there before and how was it?

Ah see that’s the thing,,, I’ve been going to like some of the groups since November (not this specific one but it’s generally some combination of the same people) and everyone is really friendly and accommodating “like oh it’s Fine if you come and don’t speak don’t worry” but it’s just rly not getting any easier so even if the people are really nice it’s rly exhausting

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jelalalalalala wrote:

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No absolutely not, ppl are generally very understanding

Okay yeah, okay so maybe I’ll do that for next week instead then, I don’t wanna come across as super weird but ur prolly right that they’ll be understanding

it feels a bit easier to show up for something when uve already flagged that ur going ig? + then I can’t make excuses lmao… okay this is a good plan it think

Otherwise you could frame it as ”oh haha this chat has been moving pretty quickly, could someone give me a recap?” But yes i don’t think it’s weird as u formulated it before

yes forcing urself >:3

The chat is so dess though and i joined it in January 😭😭😭😭

I will…. Next month (my therapist is shaking her head somewhere in the background rn I swear, sorry malin)

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misjel wrote:

devilcake wrote:

jelalalalalala wrote:
From my experience (not lgbtq but kpop but they’re mostly lgbtq as well me thinks) ppl are pretty attentive like usually they try to make u feel welcomed, have you been there before and how was it?

Ah see that’s the thing,,, I’ve been going to like some of the groups since November (not this specific one but it’s generally some combination of the same people) and everyone is really friendly and accommodating “like oh it’s Fine if you come and don’t speak don’t worry” but it’s just rly not getting any easier so even if the people are really nice it’s rly exhausting

Oh i see, how would you prefer a new group to be? Also what makes it exhausting? Is it that people are trying to make u talk when u don’t wanna or perhaps that people are being loud etc?

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devilcake wrote:

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devilcake wrote:
Okay yeah, okay so maybe I’ll do that for next week instead then, I don’t wanna come across as super weird but ur prolly right that they’ll be understanding

it feels a bit easier to show up for something when uve already flagged that ur going ig? + then I can’t make excuses lmao… okay this is a good plan it think

Otherwise you could frame it as ”oh haha this chat has been moving pretty quickly, could someone give me a recap?” But yes i don’t think it’s weird as u formulated it before

yes forcing urself >:3

The chat is so dess though and i joined it in January 😭😭😭😭

I will…. Next month (my therapist is shaking her head somewhere in the background rn I swear, sorry malin)

Hehee if lgbtq groups aren’t your jam perhaps u could look for other potential groups?