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my dad kicked me out TW: su!cide
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wug wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Lemon wrote:

i know, he was drunk too. it is just heartbreaking that my dad knew i am suicidal, and knew i was heartbroken about my mom telling me to go kill myself too. the way he casually threw that sentence on me i... dont know...
i will study and get a job. 1 year. i have to be patient for 1 year and it will be okay.
i'm very sorry you have to experience this, hopefully it won't have too much negative impact on your mental health. it's absurd that your parents are capable of saying the things they do to you, try not to take it too much to heart although that's probably next to impossible. 
at least you seem to have a better relationship to your brother : /
my brother agrees with my dad, he just did not like the suicide thing my dad said. everyone says i should shape up, look good, be successful. but when i am surrounded by them i cannot even do that and they fail to understand that. they do not understand i need to heal before anything. i am trying to be better, thank you
what kind of culture is it? 
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Date: 09-09-2022 14:18
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Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
i'm very sorry you have to experience this, hopefully it won't have too much negative impact on your mental health. it's absurd that your parents are capable of saying the things they do to you, try not to take it too much to heart although that's probably next to impossible. 
at least you seem to have a better relationship to your brother : /
my brother agrees with my dad, he just did not like the suicide thing my dad said. everyone says i should shape up, look good, be successful. but when i am surrounded by them i cannot even do that and they fail to understand that. they do not understand i need to heal before anything. i am trying to be better, thank you
what kind of culture is it? 
turkish...
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Date: 09-09-2022 15:11
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wug wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Lemon wrote:
my brother agrees with my dad, he just did not like the suicide thing my dad said. everyone says i should shape up, look good, be successful. but when i am surrounded by them i cannot even do that and they fail to understand that. they do not understand i need to heal before anything. i am trying to be better, thank you
what kind of culture is it? 
turkish...
hmm it kind of adds up then.. i'm sorry : ( 
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Date: 09-09-2022 15:31
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Midaas wrote:
that's so horrible, i'm so sorry
as someone who struggles with mental health right now i really wish everyone understood that if someone is struggling with taking care of themselves, shaming them and telling them to just try harder does a lot more harm than good 
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:25
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Arthema wrote:
I am so sorry to hear this and wish I could give you a good hug rn, I know the pain all too well and how it can crush your soul and will to do much, because what if your parents don't believe you and IN you, what's the point? 
they don't deserve your attention and contact, we don't choose our family and are not obliged to anything to em, yes you SHOULD get better but rushing things will only make you mask the real problems and not actually deal with stuff, besides going to the extremes wishing you things like that.

Try to rremember and hold to the idea that you'll soon be able to finish studying and go somewhere nicer for a job, start your own life and get better at your own pace and tempo,
Sending many hugs and kisses, love you and hope that depite the hope that gets crippeled everytime things like that happen, that you won\t give up and that you WILL get out of this situation and it WILL be better 
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:28
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Arthema wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Lemon wrote:
my brother agrees with my dad, he just did not like the suicide thing my dad said. everyone says i should shape up, look good, be successful. but when i am surrounded by them i cannot even do that and they fail to understand that. they do not understand i need to heal before anything. i am trying to be better, thank you
what kind of culture is it? 
turkish...
Man he remindsme too much of my own father but mine is more...  less vocal and more actions type of guy )))
but yeah mine's partially Azeri so I know the pain more or less, it's so bad
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:30
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Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
what kind of culture is it? 
turkish...
hmm it kind of adds up then.. i'm sorry : ( 
yeah, hope nobody goes through smt like this esp in cultures like turkey
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:30
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Lemon wrote:
Midaas wrote:
that's so horrible, i'm so sorry
as someone who struggles with mental health right now i really wish everyone understood that if someone is struggling with taking care of themselves, shaming them and telling them to just try harder does a lot more harm than good 
yes!! why cannot parents understand this..
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:31
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Lemon wrote:
Abby wrote:
I am so sorry to hear this and wish I could give you a good hug rn, I know the pain all too well and how it can crush your soul and will to do much, because what if your parents don't believe you and IN you, what's the point? 
they don't deserve your attention and contact, we don't choose our family and are not obliged to anything to em, yes you SHOULD get better but rushing things will only make you mask the real problems and not actually deal with stuff, besides going to the extremes wishing you things like that.

Try to rremember and hold to the idea that you'll soon be able to finish studying and go somewhere nicer for a job, start your own life and get better at your own pace and tempo,
Sending many hugs and kisses, love you and hope that depite the hope that gets crippeled everytime things like that happen, that you won\t give up and that you WILL get out of this situation and it WILL be better 
thank you so much abby. you always make me feel so understood.
yes i will study and be better. move. cut off. anything for my mental health.
love you to the moon <3
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:31
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Lemon wrote:
Abby wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Klasifikovany wrote:
what kind of culture is it? 
turkish...
Man he remindsme too much of my own father but mine is more...  less vocal and more actions type of guy )))
but yeah mine's partially Azeri so I know the pain more or less, it's so bad
i am sorry you went through that :/ middle eastern dads are... something.
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:32
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Midaas wrote:
btw if you don't mind me asking, what are you studying? just curious to know
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:32
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Lemon wrote:
Midaas wrote:
btw if you don't mind me asking, what are you studying? just curious to know
english language teaching. i will be an english language teacher. i love teaching things and i like supporting teens, since i went through hardship i want to help them. this is the best job for me if you ask me. i wanna touch as many lives i want and help them because my teacher did the same to me, too.
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:36
Midaas
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Midaas wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Midaas wrote:
btw if you don't mind me asking, what are you studying? just curious to know
english language teaching. i will be an english language teacher. i love teaching things and i like supporting teens, since i went through hardship i want to help them. this is the best job for me if you ask me. i wanna touch as many lives i want and help them because my teacher did the same to me, too.
wow that's so cool 
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:37
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Arthema wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Abby wrote:
I am so sorry to hear this and wish I could give you a good hug rn, I know the pain all too well and how it can crush your soul and will to do much, because what if your parents don't believe you and IN you, what's the point? 
they don't deserve your attention and contact, we don't choose our family and are not obliged to anything to em, yes you SHOULD get better but rushing things will only make you mask the real problems and not actually deal with stuff, besides going to the extremes wishing you things like that.

Try to rremember and hold to the idea that you'll soon be able to finish studying and go somewhere nicer for a job, start your own life and get better at your own pace and tempo,
Sending many hugs and kisses, love you and hope that depite the hope that gets crippeled everytime things like that happen, that you won\t give up and that you WILL get out of this situation and it WILL be better 
thank you so much abby. you always make me feel so understood.
yes i will study and be better. move. cut off. anything for my mental health.
love you to the moon <3
anytime baby<3
Yes do anything in your power to grow and thrive, heal and get better, they might have good intentions but they cannot help you and if they're making it worsefor you... they're not entitled to your attention, time and efforts if you CAN be flexible with them and understanding and they can't
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:39
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Arthema wrote:
Lemon wrote:
Abby wrote:
Lemon wrote:
turkish...
Man he remindsme too much of my own father but mine is more...  less vocal and more actions type of guy )))
but yeah mine's partially Azeri so I know the pain more or less, it's so bad
i am sorry you went through that :/ middle eastern dads are... something.
truly are, mine'snot eveen fully  turkic like BRUH PLEASE
not that russians arebetter but godDAMN

like
your kids should be your treasure  what the FUCK are you DOING people
uuuuugggggh
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Date: 09-09-2022 16:47
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