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last one for tonight but not wanting to be fat or not finding fat people attractive is not fatphobic lol. this opinion is not spicy on vp but if u say this on twitter ur gonna get cooked 😭😭 it's unattractive in the same way we humans find lopsided faces unattractive i 100% believe it's biological (and even if it wasn't biological it's still not fatphobic fyi). i obvs still think u should treat all people like humans and yaddayadda etc and i understand some people have more difficulty losing weight but my point stands.

Yes same tho, but I don't find it ugly I guess, but it makes me so uncomfortable when I look at a very overweight person because I can see they can't move properly? Like bending iver to tie ur shoes, like just moving ur body in a normal way I guess I just ahhhhh this is unnatura, kind of like uncanny valley I guess. Never saw a person that fat irl tho, just online

me neither i feel like they're largely an american phenomenon. like the uber fat ppl who cant walk so they have to be wheeled around

Looks claustrophobic to me

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on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

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For me I think ppl who use lolcow or kiwifarms n shit is just pathetic like they bully ppl for anything, but thats not a toxic opinion thats a normal opinion

idk what kiwifarms is but another lolcow example i can think of is chris chan. which is also sad ofc and he (or she? i forgot) is mentally ill and people are WAY too jobless but i'd be genuinely lying if i said i don't find it funny

and also when u post shit like this that's just disgusting like i can't muster any sympathy

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Chris chan is a disgusting human fr so that I understand, same with avocado man ish, but stuff like dissociadid (kiwifarms) or just random semi famous ppl I guess, its rlly off outting to me how they bully them for EVERYTHING they do and how they look, even tho it has nothing to do with why they are a "bad" person. Like how they were with lil bo weep on lolcow, I just read through the threads n its disgusting how they act

i have not heard of the other people but i can definitely see how people are just fucking nasty online yep

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last one for tonight but not wanting to be fat or not finding fat people attractive is not fatphobic lol. this opinion is not spicy on vp but if u say this on twitter ur gonna get cooked 😭😭 it's unattractive in the same way we humans find lopsided faces unattractive i 100% believe it's biological (and even if it wasn't biological it's still not fatphobic fyi). i obvs still think u should treat all people like humans and yaddayadda etc and i understand some people have more difficulty losing weight but my point stands.

id argue this one a little just purely from the historical context of like fatness WAS very attractive way back when bc it was a sign of health and wealth and fat women were constantly portrayed in art and seen as beautiful and almost as far as saying peak beauty

arguably there is a lot of biology to it but its certainly not 100%, society has a big hand in deciding what is the most attractive in a general sense rather than an individual sense

yeah but those women who were portrayed in renaissance paintings for example were what i'd call chubby at best. which i do think is a ways from fat / obese. also another argument is that people in very specific subcultures find fat women attractive (i think theres this niche tribe that feeds women fattening milk to make them very fat and they're worth more) but i'd argue that's also an exception to the norm and i do think there's a reason why it's not the standard

theres def a range! a lot of the more popular ones are def in the more chubby range, but yeah a lot of this discussion really ranges on what people consider "fat". and the "standard" is something that has a lot of context behind it too. what is the standard? its standard for the group of ppl ur talking about. why isnt it true for everyone else? tons of non biological context behind it imo

but as always with twitter things are taken too far it is what it is. a lot of ideas that are... kind of right and helpful... but never meaningfully argued its not worth it there 240 characters = no nuance = nothing worthwhile

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on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

like on god sometimes i really hate women when i scroll through tiktok. like yall bitches dont wanna be blamed for anything!!!! just promoting hyperconsumerism and plastic surgery and making up a new insecurity of the month ™️ and then turn around and say "uwu but it's the patriarchy 🥺🥺🥺" bffr

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on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

Me wanting to get plastic surgery and liposuction 😎 nothing extreme tho, like make my boobs even and mby 1 cup sice up even tho i have e cups but my body is so big I would want them to be a bit bigger in comparison, and also suck the fat out from under my boobs cus I have some fat there thats annoying and I can't rlly get rid of it unless I lose a lot of weight and im a healthy weight now so idk. Also liposuck my knees because they are fat compared to the rest of my body lmao

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For me I think ppl who use lolcow or kiwifarms n shit is just pathetic like they bully ppl for anything, but thats not a toxic opinion thats a normal opinion

idk what kiwifarms is but another lolcow example i can think of is chris chan. which is also sad ofc and he (or she? i forgot) is mentally ill and people are WAY too jobless but i'd be genuinely lying if i said i don't find it funny

and also when u post shit like this that's just disgusting like i can't muster any sympathy

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Chris chan is a disgusting human fr so that I understand, same with avocado man ish, but stuff like dissociadid (kiwifarms) or just random semi famous ppl I guess, its rlly off outting to me how they bully them for EVERYTHING they do and how they look, even tho it has nothing to do with why they are a "bad" person. Like how they were with lil bo weep on lolcow, I just read through the threads n its disgusting how they act

kiwifarms and lolcow are so... honestly ill pop on there sometimes just for context
a lot of these ppl are truly cringe but the users of those site literally just go there for an excuse to be awful human beings because everyone else there is also an awful human being. cant we just have fun laughing at some moron's antics without being depraved

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id argue this one a little just purely from the historical context of like fatness WAS very attractive way back when bc it was a sign of health and wealth and fat women were constantly portrayed in art and seen as beautiful and almost as far as saying peak beauty

arguably there is a lot of biology to it but its certainly not 100%, society has a big hand in deciding what is the most attractive in a general sense rather than an individual sense

yeah but those women who were portrayed in renaissance paintings for example were what i'd call chubby at best. which i do think is a ways from fat / obese. also another argument is that people in very specific subcultures find fat women attractive (i think theres this niche tribe that feeds women fattening milk to make them very fat and they're worth more) but i'd argue that's also an exception to the norm and i do think there's a reason why it's not the standard

theres def a range! a lot of the more popular ones are def in the more chubby range, but yeah a lot of this discussion really ranges on what people consider "fat". and the "standard" is something that has a lot of context behind it too. what is the standard? its standard for the group of ppl ur talking about. why isnt it true for everyone else? tons of non biological context behind it imo

but as always with twitter things are taken too far it is what it is. a lot of ideas that are... kind of right and helpful... but never meaningfully argued its not worth it there 240 characters = no nuance = nothing worthwhile

o yeah i 100% agree. i think the model thin beauty that's advertised rn is also unhealthy and twitter is a fucking cesspool

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on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

Me wanting to get plastic surgery and liposuction 😎 nothing extreme tho, like make my boobs even and mby 1 cup sice up even tho i have e cups but my body is so big I would want them to be a bit bigger in comparison, and also suck the fat out from under my boobs cus I have some fat there thats annoying and I can't rlly get rid of it unless I lose a lot of weight and im a healthy weight now so idk. Also liposuck my knees because they are fat compared to the rest of my body lmao

i literally bounce between never wanting to get anything done and also wanting to get everything done so i get it. but yeah i find how ppl online talk about this stuff so disingenuous and it's just like... get a grip.

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idk what kiwifarms is but another lolcow example i can think of is chris chan. which is also sad ofc and he (or she? i forgot) is mentally ill and people are WAY too jobless but i'd be genuinely lying if i said i don't find it funny

and also when u post shit like this that's just disgusting like i can't muster any sympathy

X

Chris chan is a disgusting human fr so that I understand, same with avocado man ish, but stuff like dissociadid (kiwifarms) or just random semi famous ppl I guess, its rlly off outting to me how they bully them for EVERYTHING they do and how they look, even tho it has nothing to do with why they are a "bad" person. Like how they were with lil bo weep on lolcow, I just read through the threads n its disgusting how they act

kiwifarms and lolcow are so... honestly ill pop on there sometimes just for context
a lot of these ppl are truly cringe but the users of those site literally just go there for an excuse to be awful human beings because everyone else there is also an awful human being. cant we just have fun laughing at some moron's antics without being depraved

Yes its just actually so bad, I never want to meet those ppl irl because they are the most disgusting I can think of, honestly might be worse than the worse parts of 4chan. They are literal adults acting like 5 year olds, but just a hundred times worse than anywhere else on the internet

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ouch wrote:

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on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

Me wanting to get plastic surgery and liposuction 😎 nothing extreme tho, like make my boobs even and mby 1 cup sice up even tho i have e cups but my body is so big I would want them to be a bit bigger in comparison, and also suck the fat out from under my boobs cus I have some fat there thats annoying and I can't rlly get rid of it unless I lose a lot of weight and im a healthy weight now so idk. Also liposuck my knees because they are fat compared to the rest of my body lmao

whatever you do DONT TOUCH THE BUCCAL FAT

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Koolaid wrote:
on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

Me wanting to get plastic surgery and liposuction 😎 nothing extreme tho, like make my boobs even and mby 1 cup sice up even tho i have e cups but my body is so big I would want them to be a bit bigger in comparison, and also suck the fat out from under my boobs cus I have some fat there thats annoying and I can't rlly get rid of it unless I lose a lot of weight and im a healthy weight now so idk. Also liposuck my knees because they are fat compared to the rest of my body lmao

whatever you do DONT TOUCH THE BUCCAL FAT

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Yes same tho, but I don't find it ugly I guess, but it makes me so uncomfortable when I look at a very overweight person because I can see they can't move properly? Like bending iver to tie ur shoes, like just moving ur body in a normal way I guess I just ahhhhh this is unnatura, kind of like uncanny valley I guess. Never saw a person that fat irl tho, just online

me neither i feel like they're largely an american phenomenon. like the uber fat ppl who cant walk so they have to be wheeled around

Looks claustrophobic to me

but WHY is this mainly a US phenomenon?? Like fr?? I grew up with obese step-family, so it's disgusting and baffling to me the habits Americans can have....but still, obesity shows up in young children, so I wonder how they got that way that fast......

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ouch wrote:

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ouch wrote:

Koolaid wrote:
on the same tangent, i do cringe when people make SUCH extreme choices, such as skin bleaching, plastic surgery, etc. to change their bodies. like i GET IT it's society but by doing that ur also influencing other people to do it. like i feel like there's a certain point u can't keep blaming other people for shit cause there are plenty people "uglier" than u who never do it ??? and esp heinous when ur like a beauty influencer and preach that choice feminism bullshit to go with it. fuck offff

Me wanting to get plastic surgery and liposuction 😎 nothing extreme tho, like make my boobs even and mby 1 cup sice up even tho i have e cups but my body is so big I would want them to be a bit bigger in comparison, and also suck the fat out from under my boobs cus I have some fat there thats annoying and I can't rlly get rid of it unless I lose a lot of weight and im a healthy weight now so idk. Also liposuck my knees because they are fat compared to the rest of my body lmao

whatever you do DONT TOUCH THE BUCCAL FAT

Oh I forgot to say it, but I want to fix my nose also but thats the only thing on my face I think. Just cus its rlly uneven, struggle to breathe, and makes me look like 2 different ppl depending on what side u look at me from (like a dude said he agreed w me on that one so im not delusional I guess lol)

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also i have this weird thing where i genuinely believe some women are very annoying pick me's but also get annoyed when another person (man or woman) call someone a pickme lol bc i always think of that margaret atwood quote about seeing urself from the male gaze