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devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
vp is this for me, n before i stopped rping my fave rp forum was also this for me

further back i did use DA and tumblr like this but my mutuals n stuff were on very surface level comaper to vp n rp site

but not on social media now no

have u just spend ur time online on vp or rp forum like.. say the past 8 years?! inter esting.. u did have an art twt at some point right.. but u just posted and dipped i assume hsbs

mmmm u used tumblr too okay okay i see then.....

did you not keep contact w anyone from rp site question mark.. why is that

yes pretty much that + tumblr but i havent been active on tumblr since like pandemic times id say... ive never actually used twitter ive tried to have art account on there yes but i just cannot grasp it so whenever im like aaa maybe i should try to be a hashtag proffesional artist will all socials i just spam my backlog then give up pls...

me n my rp bestie kept in contact even when our rp ended, we still have each other on facebook but i think we sort of grew a part a bit after she got engaged and i got more burnt out, i even made her get VP at one point but she never logged back in (truly tragic)
most other people on the site i was mostly just talking to in regards to rp and not outside the site n i havent logged on in 1.5 years so i havent spoken to them bc of that tho when i have the time for it i mite go back n see if they wanna chat again lol

oooh i see then! well hopefully they'll wanna chat again ahvsbnjahbs

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hmm wrote:

dollzmaniac wrote:

hmm wrote:

dollzmaniac wrote:
i love my instagram because i love myself

can u elaborate more i wanna know about u too.

no i dont really get the question im a bit stupid

Sorry are you really active on social media like.. committed to it the same way u've been committed to vp, like e.g. having mutuals you regularly interact with or i guess friends on there

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devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:
have u just spend ur time online on vp or rp forum like.. say the past 8 years?! inter esting.. u did have an art twt at some point right.. but u just posted and dipped i assume hsbs

mmmm u used tumblr too okay okay i see then.....

did you not keep contact w anyone from rp site question mark.. why is that

yes pretty much that + tumblr but i havent been active on tumblr since like pandemic times id say... ive never actually used twitter ive tried to have art account on there yes but i just cannot grasp it so whenever im like aaa maybe i should try to be a hashtag proffesional artist will all socials i just spam my backlog then give up pls...

me n my rp bestie kept in contact even when our rp ended, we still have each other on facebook but i think we sort of grew a part a bit after she got engaged and i got more burnt out, i even made her get VP at one point but she never logged back in (truly tragic)
most other people on the site i was mostly just talking to in regards to rp and not outside the site n i havent logged on in 1.5 years so i havent spoken to them bc of that tho when i have the time for it i mite go back n see if they wanna chat again lol

oooh i see then! well hopefully they'll wanna chat again ahvsbnjahbs

i actually had one of them EMAIL me like they found my emil thru my tumblr commission page but i forgot to reply because i was like ill wait until i actually have the time to rp again---- n then i didnty have time oops

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dollzmaniac wrote:

hmm wrote:

dollzmaniac wrote:

hmm wrote:
can u elaborate more i wanna know about u too.

no i dont really get the question im a bit stupid

Sorry are you really active on social media like.. committed to it the same way u've been committed to vp, like e.g. having mutuals you regularly interact with or i guess friends on there

i dont interact with ppl on tjhere because i havent made the effort i had tiktok mutuals when i was active there

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hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
yes pretty much that + tumblr but i havent been active on tumblr since like pandemic times id say... ive never actually used twitter ive tried to have art account on there yes but i just cannot grasp it so whenever im like aaa maybe i should try to be a hashtag proffesional artist will all socials i just spam my backlog then give up pls...

me n my rp bestie kept in contact even when our rp ended, we still have each other on facebook but i think we sort of grew a part a bit after she got engaged and i got more burnt out, i even made her get VP at one point but she never logged back in (truly tragic)
most other people on the site i was mostly just talking to in regards to rp and not outside the site n i havent logged on in 1.5 years so i havent spoken to them bc of that tho when i have the time for it i mite go back n see if they wanna chat again lol

oooh i see then! well hopefully they'll wanna chat again ahvsbnjahbs

i actually had one of them EMAIL me like they found my emil thru my tumblr commission page but i forgot to reply because i was like ill wait until i actually have the time to rp again---- n then i didnty have time oops

PLSSS im crying they really wanted to stay in contact w u

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hmm wrote:

dollzmaniac wrote:

hmm wrote:

dollzmaniac wrote:
no i dont really get the question im a bit stupid

Sorry are you really active on social media like.. committed to it the same way u've been committed to vp, like e.g. having mutuals you regularly interact with or i guess friends on there

i dont interact with ppl on tjhere because i havent made the effort i had tiktok mutuals when i was active there

not on ig, twitter, discord, etc. either ??? so u've also just been like.. more so active on vp and es okay

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i tried that with tumblr for a while but i was like ... instantly so mch happier once i stopped lol
thats just a lot of effort and time to spend and idk i cant dothat

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devilcake wrote:
i find most social media very like hard to interact with in a more interpersonal way the way it is on vp i think, n i also need something very specific to bond over/fall back on to be able to stay in contact with people which is why vp and rp has worked for me, since i struggle so much with keeping in contact/being social etcetc,,, n also why a lot of my attempts to like make friends online based on just wanting to make friends fail (like r4r style things on reddit even when ive met them irl or planned to x_x)

smaller fandom spaces sort of work similarly which is why i enjoy tumblr still like the specific tags u hang out with feel more personal/forum like than other social media feed thats like a mix of mutuals and content creator type stuff

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devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:
oooh i see then! well hopefully they'll wanna chat again ahvsbnjahbs

i actually had one of them EMAIL me like they found my emil thru my tumblr commission page but i forgot to reply because i was like ill wait until i actually have the time to rp again---- n then i didnty have time oops

PLSSS im crying they really wanted to stay in contact w u

its funny tho cos me n this person talked about NOTHING other than occasionally discussing what would happen in the rp, but even that was way less than in my othjer rps but it was still my fave rp ever (kyle rp), so i think we both mostly just feel a strong attachement to the characters in this case... like onne time theyt were gona for a week and came back like sorry lol i was busy getting married n i was like HUH???????????

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hmm wrote:

bexxi wrote:
i tried that with tumblr for a while but i was like ... instantly so mch happier once i stopped lol
thats just a lot of effort and time to spend and idk i cant dothat

yeah i feel like it's extremely hard to get yourself truly involved w other people on such big platforms... even w vp i had difficulty at first but it kinda got easier once at least 1 person started interacting w me regularly.. but yeah it's kind of miserable trying to put yourself out there hbanjbsnjd it is too much effort and it's beyond me how people do it all the time....... idk maybe i'm too used to being in a small space like vp lol

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hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
i find most social media very like hard to interact with in a more interpersonal way the way it is on vp i think, n i also need something very specific to bond over/fall back on to be able to stay in contact with people which is why vp and rp has worked for me, since i struggle so much with keeping in contact/being social etcetc,,, n also why a lot of my attempts to like make friends online based on just wanting to make friends fail (like r4r style things on reddit even when ive met them irl or planned to x_x)

smaller fandom spaces sort of work similarly which is why i enjoy tumblr still like the specific tags u hang out with feel more personal/forum like than other social media feed thats like a mix of mutuals and content creator type stuff

no really it's soooo hardd i recently had a mutual who i really liked and it was the first time in forever that someone outside of vp was interesting to me and a potential friend but then they Completely Vanished so that was really unfortunate......... and since then it's back to not being able to form any kind of bond w ppl somehow shbhnjbs... and the idea of joining groupchats or whatever sounds like a nightmare

right at least tumblr is a bit more personalized but ehhh

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hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
i actually had one of them EMAIL me like they found my emil thru my tumblr commission page but i forgot to reply because i was like ill wait until i actually have the time to rp again---- n then i didnty have time oops

PLSSS im crying they really wanted to stay in contact w u

its funny tho cos me n this person talked about NOTHING other than occasionally discussing what would happen in the rp, but even that was way less than in my othjer rps but it was still my fave rp ever (kyle rp), so i think we both mostly just feel a strong attachement to the characters in this case... like onne time theyt were gona for a week and came back like sorry lol i was busy getting married n i was like HUH???????????

HELPP insane

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devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
i find most social media very like hard to interact with in a more interpersonal way the way it is on vp i think, n i also need something very specific to bond over/fall back on to be able to stay in contact with people which is why vp and rp has worked for me, since i struggle so much with keeping in contact/being social etcetc,,, n also why a lot of my attempts to like make friends online based on just wanting to make friends fail (like r4r style things on reddit even when ive met them irl or planned to x_x)

smaller fandom spaces sort of work similarly which is why i enjoy tumblr still like the specific tags u hang out with feel more personal/forum like than other social media feed thats like a mix of mutuals and content creator type stuff

no really it's soooo hardd i recently had a mutual who i really liked and it was the first time in forever that someone outside of vp was interesting to me and a potential friend but then they Completely Vanished so that was really unfortunate......... and since then it's back to not being able to form any kind of bond w ppl somehow shbhnjbs... and the idea of joining groupchats or whatever sounds like a nightmare

right at least tumblr is a bit more personalized but ehhh

yes tbh i think the easiest way to find friends online VP style now would be like niched discord groups but joining group chats is the most terrifying thing ever like i cant do that pls

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bexxi wrote:

hmm wrote:

bexxi wrote:
i tried that with tumblr for a while but i was like ... instantly so mch happier once i stopped lol
thats just a lot of effort and time to spend and idk i cant dothat

yeah i feel like it's extremely hard to get yourself truly involved w other people on such big platforms... even w vp i had difficulty at first but it kinda got easier once at least 1 person started interacting w me regularly.. but yeah it's kind of miserable trying to put yourself out there hbanjbsnjd it is too much effort and it's beyond me how people do it all the time....... idk maybe i'm too used to being in a small space like vp lol

maybe u dont need to force urself to be active mutuals with ppl on bigger platforms, i realized its just not for me so i stopped trying to make it happen and it really made me more relaxed and happy

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hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:

hmm wrote:

devilcake wrote:
i find most social media very like hard to interact with in a more interpersonal way the way it is on vp i think, n i also need something very specific to bond over/fall back on to be able to stay in contact with people which is why vp and rp has worked for me, since i struggle so much with keeping in contact/being social etcetc,,, n also why a lot of my attempts to like make friends online based on just wanting to make friends fail (like r4r style things on reddit even when ive met them irl or planned to x_x)

smaller fandom spaces sort of work similarly which is why i enjoy tumblr still like the specific tags u hang out with feel more personal/forum like than other social media feed thats like a mix of mutuals and content creator type stuff

no really it's soooo hardd i recently had a mutual who i really liked and it was the first time in forever that someone outside of vp was interesting to me and a potential friend but then they Completely Vanished so that was really unfortunate......... and since then it's back to not being able to form any kind of bond w ppl somehow shbhnjbs... and the idea of joining groupchats or whatever sounds like a nightmare

right at least tumblr is a bit more personalized but ehhh

yes tbh i think the easiest way to find friends online VP style now would be like niched discord groups but joining group chats is the most terrifying thing ever like i cant do that pls

i can barely even talk in vp servers let alone a groupchat w strangers kshbnshsbd