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kruspersille wrote:
what did u do that upset him
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:08
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Doll wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
what did u do that upset him

that is a very sensitive topic for him and i don't wanna talk about it openly.. but what i can say is it was something bad and careless and stupid and hurtful on my behalf, especially knowing it was a sensitive topic for him.. just when i did it (months ago) i didn't even think of it as something bad because my reasoning was complete opposite of wanting to hurt him 
but then last week i started thinking and obsessing over it and i thought about telling him about it because he deserved to know in case it somehow upset him (it did!!!!!) regardless of my intentions back then being not bad

i am completely at fault for this tbh i was a bad girlfriend and he is valid to not wanna give me another chance if that is what he decides,, i just really wish he does so i can  prove to him that i can give him my love without being careless and stupid 
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:14
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Limited wrote:
Doll wrote:
Limited wrote:
I read what you wrote, but to me it sounds like he wanted to end it cuz it was a bit too much for him  . Let's hope the break will be good for you both and return stronger than ever. 

Do you get help with your thoughts or? 
he says he is mostly hurt by the mistake that i did rather than the thoughts but i think while that may be true, my thoughts by then had already done their damage as well  i wish i could turn back time 
he is such an angel i am so sad i took him for granted and hurt him like this

and if you are asking about medication, i am not medicated
i have been working on exposure response prevention therapy though but these past 2 months were very bad and that has not worked a lot either & i have been under a lot of stress and i have also probably not tried hard enough

i am kinda reaping what i sowed right now but i rly hope my bf can give me a chance to do better by him 
not that i know what your entire relationship have been through, but could it be that he often said "its ok" but in the end he got enough of all this? that his cup was full and he couldnt take it anymore?
no no i dont mean like medication, but like someone to talk about all your thoughts 
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:19
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Doll wrote:
Limited wrote:
Doll wrote:
Limited wrote:
I read what you wrote, but to me it sounds like he wanted to end it cuz it was a bit too much for him  . Let's hope the break will be good for you both and return stronger than ever. 

Do you get help with your thoughts or? 
he says he is mostly hurt by the mistake that i did rather than the thoughts but i think while that may be true, my thoughts by then had already done their damage as well  i wish i could turn back time 
he is such an angel i am so sad i took him for granted and hurt him like this

and if you are asking about medication, i am not medicated
i have been working on exposure response prevention therapy though but these past 2 months were very bad and that has not worked a lot either & i have been under a lot of stress and i have also probably not tried hard enough

i am kinda reaping what i sowed right now but i rly hope my bf can give me a chance to do better by him 
not that i know what your entire relationship have been through, but could it be that he often said "its ok" but in the end he got enough of all this? that his cup was full and he couldnt take it anymore?
no no i dont mean like medication, but like someone to talk about all your thoughts 
it is probably that 
or he thought he was okay with everything but the negativity probbaly just started adding up and adding up and he had enough TT 

and no i am unfortunately not in therapy right now since i cannot actively afford it at the moment
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:23
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Doll wrote:
tmr is my last exam of this term and the first exam he hasnt asked me about what time it is so he can wish me luck.... it is so over 
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Date: 09-03-2026 00:33
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bexxi wrote:
Doll wrote:
tmr is my last exam of this term and the first exam he hasnt asked me about what time it is so he can wish me luck.... it is so over 
reading ur messages i feel like if he really wants to end it after the break thats totally fair from him but also dont doomthink too much!! u are worth something even if u nd up breaking up etc. dont let this define ur worth.
you know u did wrong and all you can do is learn from this for the future, with or without your current boyfriend.

i hope your exam goes well!!
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Date: 09-03-2026 18:36
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