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what is the absolute worst thing
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
and its never intentional
i genuinely try to smile at ppl in public, help people when i can, try to be there for my family if im able to
but it comes crashing down very often
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:41
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
so if anyone wants to tell me what they actually hate about me so i can work on it it would be appreciated
not just "noo theres nothing wrong with u!!!" ahh responses
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:42
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Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
so if anyone wants to tell me what they actually hate about me so i can work on it it would be appreciated
not just "noo theres nothing wrong with u!!!" ahh responses
I responded to this tho I said the constant self negativity is what we dislike
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:45
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
so if anyone wants to tell me what they actually hate about me so i can work on it it would be appreciated
not just "noo theres nothing wrong with u!!!" ahh responses
I responded to this tho I said the constant self negativity is what we dislike
ok i will pretend to be a good upstanding member of vp that doesnt hate themselfs 
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:46
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like how you said we when there was no other people on the thread but you and me
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:47
Nesta
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nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
so if anyone wants to tell me what they actually hate about me so i can work on it it would be appreciated
not just "noo theres nothing wrong with u!!!" ahh responses
I responded to this tho I said the constant self negativity is what we dislike
ok i will pretend to be a good upstanding member of vp that doesnt hate themselfs 
Here's a practice tool for that
youtu.be/1eLKEuJkggw?is=-tMrGtMtPVX3m8fA 
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:48
Private
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Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like how you said we when there was no other people on the thread but you and me
but they have said this in past threads
the you inviting them to talk negatively abt u is making them back off T__T
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:48
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like how you said we when there was no other people on the thread but you and me
but they have said this in past threads
the you inviting them to talk negatively abt u is making them back off T__T
idk why that would be when usually everyone loves to make fun and talk negatively about me
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:49
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I responded to this tho I said the constant self negativity is what we dislike
ok i will pretend to be a good upstanding member of vp that doesnt hate themselfs 
Here's a practice tool for that
youtu.be/1eLKEuJkggw?is=-tMrGtMtPVX3m8fA 
is this going to be mean/sarcastic
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:49 | Times changed: 1
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Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like how you said we when there was no other people on the thread but you and me
but they have said this in past threads
the you inviting them to talk negatively abt u is making them back off T__T
idk why that would be when usually everyone loves to make fun and talk negatively about me
will u take the advice or not
u wanted advice I gave advice u dont seem to want it 
I can leave if u want
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:51
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
but they have said this in past threads
the you inviting them to talk negatively abt u is making them back off T__T
idk why that would be when usually everyone loves to make fun and talk negatively about me
will u take the advice or not
u wanted advice I gave advice u dont seem to want it 
I can leave if u want
i said i will pretend to like myself!
it just seems the advice was just dismissive of actual flaws
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:53
Nesta
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nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like how you said we when there was no other people on the thread but you and me
I just got here but I agree w Maxwell that it's something worth working on. You have your own back first and it's important to be able to be realistic about how you act as a person. most acts doesn't define your worth, or goodness/badness in a way that matter but you always have to live with yourself and my hope for you is then that you see that you are worthy of being percieved as a decent person and that you believe that you are deserving of good things and that you find the way to do better for and by yourself. 

I have this quote on my wall, 
"every time you want to self sabotage, do the opposite." I don't know what this means specifically for you bc everyone self sabotage in different ways but maybe it can be a thought to bring into the next day. See if when youre about to do something that may not be the best option for you, if you can make a better choice. Whatever that looks like for you. 
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:53
Nesta
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nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
ok i will pretend to be a good upstanding member of vp that doesnt hate themselfs 
Here's a practice tool for that
youtu.be/1eLKEuJkggw?is=-tMrGtMtPVX3m8fA 
is this going to be mean/sarcastic
No. It's metta meditation. It's a practice of extending good thoughts to strangers, people you know and yourself. 
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:54
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Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
idk why that would be when usually everyone loves to make fun and talk negatively about me
will u take the advice or not
u wanted advice I gave advice u dont seem to want it 
I can leave if u want
i said i will pretend to like myself!
it just seems the advice was just dismissive of actual flaws
fake it til u make it lowkey works after a while
my only other advice, u obv know your flaws, work on them. You do not need us to tell you your flaws if you already are aware of them. You got a therapist, I believe in you
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:57
Nesta
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nesta wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
idk why that would be when usually everyone loves to make fun and talk negatively about me
will u take the advice or not
u wanted advice I gave advice u dont seem to want it 
I can leave if u want
i said i will pretend to like myself!
it just seems the advice was just dismissive of actual flaws
Confidence in self is definitely a fake it til you make it situation. Promise I've told myself I'm a decent person with a grimace on my face and my internal voice screaming it's all lies and fakes and I'm worthless but the voice is fake and often, the voice may not even be your own. So many of the beliefs we have about ourselves comes from feedback and the opinions of others, esp family and friends. 

Sometimes it helps making a list about about how you feel about yourself and then genuinely ask yourself for every one of them IS THIS MY TRUTH? IS THIS WHAT I WANT FOR MYSELF? You get to decide if you actually believe the thoughts running through your brain. Just bc they are there doesn't meant they are correct. 
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Date: 03-04-2026 00:58
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