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BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Rosa wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Rosa wrote:
A lot of cis people are completely confident with "breaking" gender stereotypes without even thinking about it which is amazing and important. 
But it's something else.
I felt something similar to that, but the difference was that I also felt something more. I realised that I never was as comfortable being percieved as a woman. I later realised, that I never was a woman. It wasn't natural for me. 
By percieved as a woman, what do you mean? Like, what society expects you to act like?
My physical body, basically. I was automatically put in the girl-folder. And I often have a conventionally feminine style, something that I've recently started to abandon. 
Then that would be more about feeling discomfort over your own body, wouldn't it?
And you can be feminine without being a female
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:21
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Buns wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Like, love whoever you want, dress however you want, do whatever you want. You don't need labels for that, nor to explain anything to anyone
YASS
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Koolaid wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
but what i don't understand is.. you can be a masculine female and still identify as female, and vice versa

i feel like all these labels just enforce gender stereotypes. you can act however you want and it doesn't mean you have to identify as another gender/sex because of it
the majority of non cis people don't id as anything other than their agab necause they don't fit into the gender roles perfectly, there are butch trans lesbians for example who are far away from fitting perfectly into female gender roles
okay but how does not fitting into a gender role make you not that gender..??

it doesn't, i just said that, sorry if it was confusing because of the double negative
Date: 03-07-2020 18:21
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Arthema wrote:
Heaven wrote:
imo i find those microlabels like demisexual to be so redundant and it invalidates microlabels that must be done

i mean overall i hate microlabels w a burning passion lol its so stupid
I don't understand labels eh
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:22
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ouch wrote:
I dont get how ppl r trans (especially nb) when everything is just based on like...hmmm.. gender norms?? Especially those who say u don't need gender dysphoria but das an argument for another day
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Abby wrote:
I think that there is a  difference between demisexuality and CHOOSING to only have anything with the people u know very well? but idk
I do't understand how it works
You don't really choose when it comes to feeling sexually attracted to someone, but the 99% of the time, you start to feel like that when you've been knowing that someone for a longer time
doesn't attraction usually comes when you see the person? like biologically when should be attracted to ppl by some certain things that are written in our brains
most of my friends if not all just know when they see a person if they're attracted to em
don't know how it works
made me think I was asexual
but then felt attraction under some serious criteria 
but meh just do whatever u feel good with
You could look at someone and think that they're attractive, that happens a lot
but I meant, when you actually want to be with that person, when you know them more personally, maybe?
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ouch wrote:
I dont get how ppl r trans (especially nb) when everything is just based on like...hmmm.. gender norms?? Especially those who say u don't need gender dysphoria but das an argument for another day
can u elaborate bold a little @_@
Date: 03-07-2020 18:23
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You can't really be non-binary..........
Date: 03-07-2020 18:23
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Rosa wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Rosa wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
By gender, I mean gender roles or what females and males are supposed to behave/be. Females are supposed to be feminine and males are supposed to be masculine. 
Since I'm a masculine female, I do not go by the gender that was imposed to me
but what i don't understand is.. you can be a masculine female and still identify as female, and vice versa

i feel like all these labels just enforce gender stereotypes. you can act however you want and it doesn't mean you have to identify as another gender/sex because of it
But the thing is, that it's not the system we have. We aren't comfortable with being called women. It could have been like that, but humanity has concentrated gender roles so strongly that it's impossible for most of us. 
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uhyre wrote:
Vogue wrote:
You can't really be non-binary..........
literally u can thats the point
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Vogue wrote:
You can't really be non-binary..........
i mean yea ofc u cant have 0 genitals but why would that matter anyways, non binary is not sex its gender
Date: 03-07-2020 18:24
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
disintegration wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Like, love whoever you want, dress however you want, do whatever you want. You don't need labels for that, nor to explain anything to anyone

would be nice to have my pronouns and name respected tho, i think that is owed to me
If you wanted me to call you, for example, Taylor, I'm going to call you Taylor.
If you wanted me to use they/them, for example, I'm going to refer to you as they/them, even if I still am not used to it
It's not really something that it's owed to anyone, but rather to be polite
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:24
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Koolaid wrote:
Rosa wrote:
Koolaid wrote:
Rosa wrote:
but what i don't understand is.. you can be a masculine female and still identify as female, and vice versa

i feel like all these labels just enforce gender stereotypes. you can act however you want and it doesn't mean you have to identify as another gender/sex because of it
But the thing is, that it's not the system we have. We aren't comfortable with being called women. It could have been like that, but humanity has concentrated gender roles so strongly that it's impossible for most of us. 
isn't it more effective to say ' hey im a woman but i dont act like how you expect a woman to be' instead of abandoning that and making microlabels where you actually stereotype yourself further?
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Date: 03-07-2020 18:25
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mikkelrev wrote:
Vogue wrote:
You can't really be non-binary..........
literally u can thats the point
How? You can definitely feel so, but biologically speaking....?
Date: 03-07-2020 18:26
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uhyre wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
disintegration wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
Like, love whoever you want, dress however you want, do whatever you want. You don't need labels for that, nor to explain anything to anyone

would be nice to have my pronouns and name respected tho, i think that is owed to me
If you wanted me to call you, for example, Taylor, I'm going to call you Taylor.
If you wanted me to use they/them, for example, I'm going to refer to you as they/them, even if I still am not used to it
It's not really something that it's owed to anyone, but rather to be polite
its polite to respect someone? its just to be polite?
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