brunhilde wrote:junogunpop wrote:Pavlov wrote:
is it still considered straight if u date people who dont consider themself the opposite gender of u
non-binary person weighing in! i'm afab, and my boyfriend is actually straight haha
i have a tendency to date straight men, which would get complicated because even though they knew i was non-binary, i felt they still looked at me as female.
that definitely changed when i met my current boyfriend. he says he's straight, he likes women, while he fully acknowledges my identity in our relationship, and outside of it, too. i can't speak for him, but what i do know is he loves me in all aspects, and for that to be true he'd have to be flexible in his orientation to some extent.
so glad u feel u can trust ur bf! fellow afab enby here
bein' enby kinda sucks ngl, i'm bi, yet feel like either cis straight peeps or cis gay peeps couldn't love me for who i am, 'cause ultimately, people think about bodies n like,, ugh, shit's too complicated
agreed! no doubt, if i were to start dating again, it'd be ideal to find someone that's attracted to more than one gender, because they'd be able to love all aspects of me with pride!!!! dating people that only like one single binary gender, can make for one-dimensional attraction, and it's really draining for an enby