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Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Oh, and also, can't relate
*being pan and demi*

*cue me, lucky ass me, currently seeing the most adorable and kind and funny and gender curious pan man*


What's a demi?
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:41
Alam
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Alam wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Oh, and also, can't relate
*being pan and demi*

*cue me, lucky ass me, currently seeing the most adorable and kind and funny and gender curious pan man*


What's a demi?
Oh, that thing. I won't get into that.
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:44
Furby
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Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Oh, and also, can't relate
*being pan and demi*

*cue me, lucky ass me, currently seeing the most adorable and kind and funny and gender curious pan man*


What's a demi?
x
isnt that just like a preference not rly a sexuality from what ive heard...? if its just not wantkng to fuck unless u have a strong bond with the person? ..arent most ppl that way?? just wondering
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:45
Hungover
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hungover wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Oh, and also, can't relate
*being pan and demi*

*cue me, lucky ass me, currently seeing the most adorable and kind and funny and gender curious pan man*


What's a demi?
x
Genuinely just confused. To me, it looks like it's just... Having a preference for an emotional bond with people you hook up with? How's that an entire sexuality?
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:46
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Samfie wrote:
Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
What's a demi?
x
isnt that just like a preference not rly a sexuality from what ive heard...? if its just not wantkng to fuck unless u have a strong bond with the person? ..arent most ppl that way?? just wondering
Nah, it's like the sexual attraction isn't there at all (non existent or very weak), until you've formed a deep emotional bond over time, independent of sexuality or gender or anything -it's actually more common than people think, it just hasn't been talked much about until recent years ^^
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:49
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Samfie wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
x
isnt that just like a preference not rly a sexuality from what ive heard...? if its just not wantkng to fuck unless u have a strong bond with the person? ..arent most ppl that way?? just wondering
Nah, it's like the sexual attraction isn't there at all (non existent or very weak), until you've formed a deep emotional bond over time, independent of sexuality or gender or anything -it's actually more common than people think, it just hasn't been talked much about until recent years ^^
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:49
Furby
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Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
x
isnt that just like a preference not rly a sexuality from what ive heard...? if its just not wantkng to fuck unless u have a strong bond with the person? ..arent most ppl that way?? just wondering
Nah, it's like the sexual attraction isn't there at all (non existent or very weak), until you've formed a deep emotional bond over time, independent of sexuality or gender or anything -it's actually more common than people think, it just hasn't been talked much about until recent years ^^
but that sounds like exactly what i said? maybe im just too dumb for this
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:51
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Samfie wrote:
hungover wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Alam wrote:
What's a demi?
x
Genuinely just confused. To me, it looks like it's just... Having a preference for an emotional bond with people you hook up with? How's that an entire sexuality?
not really a preference either -it's how your body works -comparable to how heterosexual people don't have the attraction or ability in their body to find people of the same sex attractive
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:51
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Claire wrote:
Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Furby wrote:
isnt that just like a preference not rly a sexuality from what ive heard...? if its just not wantkng to fuck unless u have a strong bond with the person? ..arent most ppl that way?? just wondering
Nah, it's like the sexual attraction isn't there at all (non existent or very weak), until you've formed a deep emotional bond over time, independent of sexuality or gender or anything -it's actually more common than people think, it just hasn't been talked much about until recent years ^^
but that sounds like exactly what i said? maybe im just too dumb for this

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:53
Hungover
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hungover wrote:
Samfie wrote:
hungover wrote:
Samfie wrote:
x
Genuinely just confused. To me, it looks like it's just... Having a preference for an emotional bond with people you hook up with? How's that an entire sexuality?
not really a preference either -it's how your body works -comparable to how heterosexual people don't have the attraction or ability in their body to find people of the same sex attractive

That's just how... most people work? Like the majority of people don't feel sexually attracted unless there is some form of emotional bond.

Of course some people do, power to them, idc. But the majority need a connection before the attraction is there?

Idk I'm not trying to invalidate what you're comfortable with, I'm genuinely just confused. :)
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:53
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Samfie wrote:
Claire wrote:
Furby wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Nah, it's like the sexual attraction isn't there at all (non existent or very weak), until you've formed a deep emotional bond over time, independent of sexuality or gender or anything -it's actually more common than people think, it just hasn't been talked much about until recent years ^^
but that sounds like exactly what i said? maybe im just too dumb for this

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
idk, idec, but to give an example -which could be very rellevant for the dating process for example in norway where i live

Dating trend in Norway:
Meet - fuck - date - become a couple

And probably most people, world wide:
Meet - date - develop a bond - fuck - become a couple

Me and other demis:
Meet - develop a platonic bond (friendship for example) - *aestethic/romantic/sensual attraction* - date / become a couple - MAYBE fuck
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Date: 25-02-2021 19:59
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ouch wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Claire wrote:
Furby wrote:
but that sounds like exactly what i said? maybe im just too dumb for this

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
idk, idec, but to give an example -which could be very rellevant for the dating process for example in norway where i live

Dating trend in Norway:
Meet - fuck - date - become a couple

And probably most people, world wide:
Meet - date - develop a bond - fuck - become a couple

Me and other demis:
Meet - develop a platonic bond (friendship for example) - *aestethic/romantic/sensual attraction* - date / become a couple - MAYBE fuck
Still sounds like most ppl tho ngl 
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Date: 25-02-2021 20:00
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Claire wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Claire wrote:
Furby wrote:
but that sounds like exactly what i said? maybe im just too dumb for this

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
idk, idec, but to give an example -which could be very rellevant for the dating process for example in norway where i live

Dating trend in Norway:
Meet - fuck - date - become a couple

And probably most people, world wide:
Meet - date - develop a bond - fuck - become a couple

Me and other demis:
Meet - develop a platonic bond (friendship for example) - *aestethic/romantic/sensual attraction* - date / become a couple - MAYBE fuck
yea when i was young we just said 'i only become attracted to people im already friends with' and didnt like say we were part of the lgbt or a unique sexuality this is a normal thing and young people have decided to label it as its own sexuality IMO 
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Date: 25-02-2021 20:02
Furby
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Furby wrote:
ouch wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Claire wrote:

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
idk, idec, but to give an example -which could be very rellevant for the dating process for example in norway where i live

Dating trend in Norway:
Meet - fuck - date - become a couple

And probably most people, world wide:
Meet - date - develop a bond - fuck - become a couple

Me and other demis:
Meet - develop a platonic bond (friendship for example) - *aestethic/romantic/sensual attraction* - date / become a couple - MAYBE fuck
Still sounds like most ppl tho ngl 
yeah
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Date: 25-02-2021 20:02
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ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
Samfie wrote:
Claire wrote:

i dont think that not having sexual interets in people when youre not in love is a sexuality or even something that needed a label but young people wanna label everything 
idk, idec, but to give an example -which could be very rellevant for the dating process for example in norway where i live

Dating trend in Norway:
Meet - fuck - date - become a couple

And probably most people, world wide:
Meet - date - develop a bond - fuck - become a couple

Me and other demis:
Meet - develop a platonic bond (friendship for example) - *aestethic/romantic/sensual attraction* - date / become a couple - MAYBE fuck
yea when i was young we just said 'i only become attracted to people im already friends with' and didnt like say we were part of the lgbt or a unique sexuality this is a normal thing and young people have decided to label it as its own sexuality IMO 
Is demi part of the lgbt 
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