sinister wrote:
@Antisocial same reason why she maybe "dressed up" as her rapist
it takes a while to sink in sometimes that what happened to you was actually fucked up and not okay
Troublemaker wrote:
post
how?
wjat
why
victims can be friends with their rapist and realize a year later that it was wrong and they had been raped.
it takes time for some people to "let it in" or actually understand it
it's not as easy as you may think (and i still am not 100% at this, but people that have experienced have said it)
and you cant just let someone go "off"
when you're in that state, people react differently
some people can't handle the situation and dont know what to do and
also
they were high during that time
she had said no two days straight but in the end she gave up
please.
glowed wrote:
i am in no way defending her
but what that girl said is so weird ??
like, okay , melanie isn't a fucking body builder
you could've pushed her off ?? but you let her get you off ?
aND
came over again the day after
and the same happened ?? ? and you "didn't know you were raped"
until a year later ?
um
girl
i am in no way defending melanie
but i'm not on the victim's side either
seems super fcking fishy to me and i'm for sure not gonna pick sides
this is the worst i am in no way defending her
but what that girl said is so weird ??
like, okay , melanie isn't a fucking body builder
you could've pushed her off ?? but you let her get you off ?
aND
came over again the day after
and the same happened ?? ? and you "didn't know you were raped"
until a year later ?
um
girl
i am in no way defending melanie
but i'm not on the victim's side either
seems super fcking fishy to me and i'm for sure not gonna pick sides
post
how?
wjat
why
victims can be friends with their rapist and realize a year later that it was wrong and they had been raped.
it takes time for some people to "let it in" or actually understand it
it's not as easy as you may think (and i still am not 100% at this, but people that have experienced have said it)
and you cant just let someone go "off"
when you're in that state, people react differently
some people can't handle the situation and dont know what to do and
also
they were high during that time
she had said no two days straight but in the end she gave up
please.
@Antisocial same reason why she maybe "dressed up" as her rapist
it takes a while to sink in sometimes that what happened to you was actually fucked up and not okay