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do yall think asexuality should be celebrated
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
so are kinksters and poly people.

pride was a riot and is a protest first and foremost. specifically for safety and equality for people who's sexuality and gender has systemically been oppressed. no one is denying ace people rights, no one is bashing them on the street, there's no such thing as ace panic.
sure an asexual person's relationship dynamic will be different but that's not a systemic issue it's a personal one. there's no material evidence of legitimate ~aphobia~.

and like.... i'm saying this not as someone who just doesn't understand but as someone who id'd as ace for multiple years and thought that ace people did belong in the lgbt community. 
lmao ppls kink does participate in pride tho so idk why u would mention that as if it's not apart of it
but cishet kinksters aren't lgbt on the basis of being kinksters, and leather culture is connected to the gay community in a way that just being a kinky cishet is not.
to use ur own argument; ace is related to the queer community ... translated to aayyy the lgbt community and what is pride for??? the lgbt community
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:07
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
i just dont get it, what exactly is the problem 
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:07
Lean
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lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lmao ppls kink does participate in pride tho so idk why u would mention that as if it's not apart of it
but cishet kinksters aren't lgbt on the basis of being kinksters, and leather culture is connected to the gay community in a way that just being a kinky cishet is not.
to use ur own argument; ace is related to the queer community ... translated to aayyy the lgbt community and what is pride for??? the lgbt community
i never said that. if you're talking about the resource centre i mentioned, i put queer in quotes for a reason. 
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:10
Lean
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lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
i just dont get it, what exactly is the problem 
don't wanna be victim of lesbophobia or biphobia in my own spaces. if you've never experiences it that's good for you i suppose. but i can understand why black people deserve to have spaces seperate from white people because we're their opressors, why is it so hard to imagine lgbt people want a space seperate from cishet people because they're our oppressors.
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:12
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q**er is a slur so
Date: 30-06-2021 18:13
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BunnyButts wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
Yes

how?
Melk literally just told u you're just too blind by your close minded hatred to see anyone else points. How about stop gate keeping sexuality on the internet and actually do something productive for the community 

hatred? where's the hatred?
pls do provide quotes of said hatred.
Date: 30-06-2021 18:13
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
i just dont get it, what exactly is the problem 
don't wanna be victim of lesbophobia or biphobia in my own spaces. if you've never experiences it that's good for you i suppose. but i can understand why black people deserve to have spaces seperate from white people because we're their opressors, why is it so hard to imagine lgbt people want a space seperate from cishet people because they're our oppressors.
oh u r in for a ride if u r bi, you can still experience biphobia through the lgbt community. 
talking from own experience 
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:15
Lean
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lean wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
q**er is a slur so
if this is directed at me ia and don't think it should be used as an umbrella term esp to include ace people but i typed out lgbt and was like well no cuz there's not resources for lesbians and the centre has q in the name.
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:15
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
i just dont get it, what exactly is the problem 
don't wanna be victim of lesbophobia or biphobia in my own spaces. if you've never experiences it that's good for you i suppose. but i can understand why black people deserve to have spaces seperate from white people because we're their opressors, why is it so hard to imagine lgbt people want a space seperate from cishet people because they're our oppressors.
oh u r in for a ride if u r bi, you can still experience biphobia through the lgbt community. 
talking from own experience 
like literally two weeks ago 
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:16
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
q**er is a slur so
it's a reclaimed slur just like the n word and f word
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:17
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wrote:
lean wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
q**er is a slur so
if this is directed at me ia and don't think it should be used as an umbrella term esp to include ace people but i typed out lgbt and was like well no cuz there's not resources for lesbians and the centre has q in the name.

nah it's rather saying it's the same as lgbt which is like yikes moment
i hate it
Date: 30-06-2021 18:17
Lean
Streetmusician



lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
i just dont get it, what exactly is the problem 
don't wanna be victim of lesbophobia or biphobia in my own spaces. if you've never experiences it that's good for you i suppose. but i can understand why black people deserve to have spaces seperate from white people because we're their opressors, why is it so hard to imagine lgbt people want a space seperate from cishet people because they're our oppressors.
oh u r in for a ride if u r bi, you can still experience biphobia through the lgbt community. 
talking from own experience 
this is a completely seperate topic and yes i've had lesbians generalize bi women but i feel more comfortable with that because as a bi women i do hold privilege over lesbians and any lesbian who's been wary of bi women has had a very valid reason to.
and i mean it's not hard to prove that you're a safe person to be around. just like.... listen to why people feel the way they do and don't act like everything is an attack on you.
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:19
Lean
Streetmusician



lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
q**er is a slur so
it's a reclaimed slur just like the n word and f word
for personal use sure fine whatever but it shouldn't be used as an umbrella term or around people who have trauma related to the word..
like idk i would hate it if i saw a gay man call another gay man an f slur and the other one was like "hey i don't feel comfortable with that" and the first one just kept doing it.
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:21
Kalypso
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kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
kalypso wrote:
lean wrote:
don't wanna be victim of lesbophobia or biphobia in my own spaces. if you've never experiences it that's good for you i suppose. but i can understand why black people deserve to have spaces seperate from white people because we're their opressors, why is it so hard to imagine lgbt people want a space seperate from cishet people because they're our oppressors.
oh u r in for a ride if u r bi, you can still experience biphobia through the lgbt community. 
talking from own experience 
this is a completely seperate topic and yes i've had lesbians generalize bi women but i feel more comfortable with that because as a bi women i do hold privilege over lesbians and any lesbian who's been wary of bi women has had a very valid reason to.
and i mean it's not hard to prove that you're a safe person to be around. just like.... listen to why people feel the way they do and don't act like everything is an attack on you.
i see a connection but i dont know how to explain it, so ill just let it be 
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:21
Lean
Streetmusician



lean wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
lean wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
q**er is a slur so
if this is directed at me ia and don't think it should be used as an umbrella term esp to include ace people but i typed out lgbt and was like well no cuz there's not resources for lesbians and the centre has q in the name.

nah it's rather saying it's the same as lgbt which is like yikes moment
i hate it
or when people say the lgbt community and the q***r community are different
like how why
clown moment
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Date: 30-06-2021 18:22
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