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Evey wrote:
not my main topics in this thread being hating kids, liking skiing and being interested in stocks
what fucking a dick 💀

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BloomCissi wrote:

Evey wrote:

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Evey wrote:
my friend worked at postnord customer service until like 5 months ago and she said the job was fine until like some months ago when a department closed down and the calls just were never ending outta nowhere so...... i hope it got better since u started working

anyway job applying is awful to a degree i can't neither comprehend nor put into words so i feel you on that one (never wanted to puke on myself as much as when writing personal letters as well) . sorry to hear about having been turned down after so many applications being sent ugh

and also happy birthday!!!!!!!!! king 25

Ah, that's interesting. Was it in Västerås or Malmö? The workload is okay right now. Like, the past month was really calm, because at times we were like 120 people working at the same time and not that many people calling, so there was quite a bit of "dötid" between the calls, which was nice. Now we've reached the peak season though, and many people are sick (or they've quit??), so now we're like maximum 80 people working at the same time, and more people calling. Like, on Monday, there were 200 people in the queue, which has basically never happened since I started working (1st of August). It's annoying that you now barely get to breathe between calls, and that you can't take breaks as you please, since they monitor everything through that phone program we use... And apart from the fucking surveillance, and my boss who's an idiot, the job itself is mostly fine. Sure, you always have those annoying customers every day, but most of the time, it's bearable.

Yeah, and it's so annoying, because you have no idea whether you're doing anything wrong in your applications, since you don't get any feedback, or they just prefer people with experience or relevant education.

Thank you! I feel so old, goodness. It's halfway to 30 counting from 20, and that just feels like such a major thing. Like, 24 is a nice age, but 25? It just feels like I have to be a proper adult now...

västerås!

i worked in customer service kind of similar to that but for konsumentverket last summer and we were not monitored like that but i still hated it with all my guts. i think it's amazing that people can actually work with that and not lose it

200 ppl in que sounds crazy, i'll have to let my friend know that haha

yeah i've been thinking about that a lot since applying for internships , that i just would like to get feedback on why they don't want me. it's fine but pls just tell me it would rly help aaaA and just be good to know what criteria matters to them

yeah i know these different 20's are not fun and games anymore aaA but i don't feel like i will have to be a proper adult until i'm like 45 lmfao so i guess i'm not rly stressing (but feeling old, yeah, that's happening, and it's no fun lol)

Ah, I see. The head office is in Västerås, so they have a lot more people there. Down here in Malmö it just feels like we're completely disconnected from them.

Yeah, I feel like you have to be a certain kind of person for it to be bearable. Like, I'm very much an introvert, but I love talking. Eye contact is nearly impossible for me, so if this was face to face, I could never. But this is phone calls, which removes the difficult part, and leaves me with just talking, which is fine. And like, you can't be sensitive, you need to be able to handle annoying people, and also be able to put your foot down if they're being really unreasonable. Like, I've hung up on people before, which we are allowed to do if they're being idiots.

Yeah, exactly. Like, tell me what you want so that I get a chance to improve.

I mean, true. I still live with my parents, so I really don't feel like an adult in any sense of the word. Maybe when I'm 30...

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Evey wrote:
not my main topics in this thread being hating kids, liking skiing and being interested in stocks
what fucking a dick 💀

the fuck why are you into stocks

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ozymandias wrote:
i have a vague idea of the foreseeable future, but i don't make any big plans because i don't have the confidence for that, and i don't care to achieve greater things lol, stability is good enough. i also can't stay loyal to one single kind of goal anyways so it's hard to create a solid plan like that

i can't see myself ever being in the position of having a relationship
i'm not good with it because i don't prioritize it enough, hardly any kind of social relationship i think, but that's a result of something unhealthy anyways

i aim for greater things and hope i will reach the lvl "decently stable" while doing so
feels like a decent plan
then i can fail sum yes

that would kill my self esteem, i just aim for what i know i can do decently

. failure is unacceptable smh

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My local ski facility is so good tho, cus the round ones actually stop until u mount them, I hate the ones that go automatically around at all times

oh what a luxury

there are like round ones that are longer that work like that but they are crazy fast and harder to stand on because they put them on the most steep places and they can rly jerk u forward so those are no good ..

Yeahh its the long and jerky ones are the ones we have, and its SO steep at one part lmao , but I love those

i always feel stressed about losing my phone on those and it just sliding 200 metres down..... (i'm always on my phone in the lift)

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it went okay though!!

and happy birthday!

me writing that it went okay as if id be writing here if it didnt 😭 but yes

Maybe you're actually a ghost??

Thank you!!

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Evey wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Evey wrote:

MissLondon wrote:
Yeah
Get another degree and
start the next chapter
focusing solely on philanthropy/service
Until death, at least that’s the goal
I like kids but can’t have them
because I’m selfish and I’m not ready
for life to not be about me

Yes, because I put in the work
to maintain them

can't see myself ever wanting life to not be about me tbh

Parenthood is a lifetime sentence
that doesn’t end at 18.
Nor does one know how their kid
will turn out..I could provide the best life
and they turn out to be a serial killer
no thank you, just no

yeah like what a non-bargain

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Evey wrote:

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Evey wrote:
oh what a luxury

there are like round ones that are longer that work like that but they are crazy fast and harder to stand on because they put them on the most steep places and they can rly jerk u forward so those are no good ..

Yeahh its the long and jerky ones are the ones we have, and its SO steep at one part lmao , but I love those

i always feel stressed about losing my phone on those and it just sliding 200 metres down..... (i'm always on my phone in the lift)

Yeah me too but atthe steepest part I putit in my pocket cus its just like... Straight up 90° it feels like lmao. At the other parts I can use my phone lol.

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Evey wrote:

BloomCissi wrote:

Evey wrote:

BloomCissi wrote:
Ah, that's interesting. Was it in Västerås or Malmö? The workload is okay right now. Like, the past month was really calm, because at times we were like 120 people working at the same time and not that many people calling, so there was quite a bit of "dötid" between the calls, which was nice. Now we've reached the peak season though, and many people are sick (or they've quit??), so now we're like maximum 80 people working at the same time, and more people calling. Like, on Monday, there were 200 people in the queue, which has basically never happened since I started working (1st of August). It's annoying that you now barely get to breathe between calls, and that you can't take breaks as you please, since they monitor everything through that phone program we use... And apart from the fucking surveillance, and my boss who's an idiot, the job itself is mostly fine. Sure, you always have those annoying customers every day, but most of the time, it's bearable.

Yeah, and it's so annoying, because you have no idea whether you're doing anything wrong in your applications, since you don't get any feedback, or they just prefer people with experience or relevant education.

Thank you! I feel so old, goodness. It's halfway to 30 counting from 20, and that just feels like such a major thing. Like, 24 is a nice age, but 25? It just feels like I have to be a proper adult now...

västerås!

i worked in customer service kind of similar to that but for konsumentverket last summer and we were not monitored like that but i still hated it with all my guts. i think it's amazing that people can actually work with that and not lose it

200 ppl in que sounds crazy, i'll have to let my friend know that haha

yeah i've been thinking about that a lot since applying for internships , that i just would like to get feedback on why they don't want me. it's fine but pls just tell me it would rly help aaaA and just be good to know what criteria matters to them

yeah i know these different 20's are not fun and games anymore aaA but i don't feel like i will have to be a proper adult until i'm like 45 lmfao so i guess i'm not rly stressing (but feeling old, yeah, that's happening, and it's no fun lol)

Ah, I see. The head office is in Västerås, so they have a lot more people there. Down here in Malmö it just feels like we're completely disconnected from them.

Yeah, I feel like you have to be a certain kind of person for it to be bearable. Like, I'm very much an introvert, but I love talking. Eye contact is nearly impossible for me, so if this was face to face, I could never. But this is phone calls, which removes the difficult part, and leaves me with just talking, which is fine. And like, you can't be sensitive, you need to be able to handle annoying people, and also be able to put your foot down if they're being really unreasonable. Like, I've hung up on people before, which we are allowed to do if they're being idiots.

Yeah, exactly. Like, tell me what you want so that I get a chance to improve.

I mean, true. I still live with my parents, so I really don't feel like an adult in any sense of the word. Maybe when I'm 30...

yeah i feel like i was good at putting my foot down but i just got sooo drained from hearing people be annoyed or upset about something it rly was a miracle i lasted 3 months (only to get it on my resume and pay rent). good that the job fits u decently well!

i feel like 30 is the new 20 !! so there is no stress for us in my book haha

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draugr wrote:

Evey wrote:

Mymble wrote:
life plan:

start own country with evey with lussekatter as currency and our own very reasonable laws !

HAHA yes where do i fucking sign >:3

sign here ofc

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BloomCissi wrote:

Mymble wrote:

wug wrote:
many posts

talking about skiing brings something out in Scandinavians

I feel like a bad Scandinavian since I've never tried skiing... I'm Danish (is skiing a big thing in Denmark??) and have lived all my life in Skåne though, so I feel like I should be excused...

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Evey wrote:

wug wrote:

Evey wrote:
not my main topics in this thread being hating kids, liking skiing and being interested in stocks
what fucking a dick 💀

the fuck why are you into stocks

it just happened . studied stocks market law and it was interesting as hell and it's like learning a whole new system that is just complex and interesting and fucked up and anything can happen and intuition is fun to use and it's all made up which is so weird

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wug wrote:

Evey wrote:

wug wrote:

Evey wrote:
not my main topics in this thread being hating kids, liking skiing and being interested in stocks
what fucking a dick 💀

the fuck why are you into stocks

it just happened . studied stocks market law and it was interesting as hell and it's like learning a whole new system that is just complex and interesting and fucked up and anything can happen and intuition is fun to use and it's all made up which is so weird

weird

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wug wrote:

BloomCissi wrote:

Mymble wrote:

wug wrote:
many posts

talking about skiing brings something out in Scandinavians

I feel like a bad Scandinavian since I've never tried skiing... I'm Danish (is skiing a big thing in Denmark??) and have lived all my life in Skåne though, so I feel like I should be excused...

denmark is cancelled anyway

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draugr wrote:

BloomCissi wrote:

Mymble wrote:

wug wrote:
many posts

talking about skiing brings something out in Scandinavians

I feel like a bad Scandinavian since I've never tried skiing... I'm Danish (is skiing a big thing in Denmark??) and have lived all my life in Skåne though, so I feel like I should be excused...

do denmark have places to ski? isnt it too flat