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Lelop wrote:
I'm close with my mom, but my dad has always been mentally absent, like i lived with him for almost 13 years until my parent got a divorce. Even back then i wasn't close with him, now it's been 2 years since i last saw him and he only reaches out to us on mine and my sisters birthdays where he sends money but no message🤷

I prob won't invite him to events, but i don't really know yet
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:16
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wug wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Saudade wrote:
well by close i would mean, could u tell them everything and are they loving and supporting idk tbh i havent had a proper family in a decade lols
errrr no but we have never done that, it's unnatural, it would seem very artificial if someone suddenly (other than my sister) vocally expressed love because we just don't do that 
does it upset u cus i know that shit hurt me for so long
no i prefer it, it would make me very uncomfortable if they were like "i love u" and hugged me and shit i'd be like well obviously because that's how humans are?? it goes without saying 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:16
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Saudade wrote:
also for context my mum left me for almost a decade when i was 11, abducting my younger sister and being on the run for years while we battle it in court, leaving me w my dad and abusive step mum, when i finally moved out 2 years ago i got back in touch with my mum and never got an official apology. (stuff like, oh we were both in the wrong etc) and when i moved out my dad tried manipulating me into moving back in by saying he has cancer, said i was going to hell and ill never be happy in life ~(wrong, im booming love x) and also he commit fraud in my name which could have gotten me arrested <3
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:17
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Saudade wrote:
so should i invite them to my wedding XDDDDD
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:18
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wug wrote:
Saudade wrote:
also for context my mum left me for almost a decade when i was 11, abducting my younger sister and being on the run for years while we battle it in court, leaving me w my dad and abusive step mum, when i finally moved out 2 years ago i got back in touch with my mum and never got an official apology. (stuff like, oh we were both in the wrong etc) and when i moved out my dad tried manipulating me into moving back in by saying he has cancer, said i was going to hell and ill never be happy in life ~(wrong, im booming love x) and also he commit fraud in my name which could have gotten me arrested <3
well that is garbage parents 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:18
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wug wrote:
Saudade wrote:
so should i invite them to my wedding XDDDDD
no
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:19
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Saudade wrote:
Rosenbug wrote:
I'm close with my mom, but my dad has always been mentally absent, like i lived with him for almost 13 years until my parent got a divorce. Even back then i wasn't close with him, now it's been 2 years since i last saw him and he only reaches out to us on mine and my sisters birthdays where he sends money but no message🤷

I prob won't invite him to events, but i don't really know yet
literally what is wsith dads being absent ......... like bro just open up bro just tell me u love me lmao 

i guess its hard to decide on this stuff until the moment is present 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:19
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Saudade wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Saudade wrote:
also for context my mum left me for almost a decade when i was 11, abducting my younger sister and being on the run for years while we battle it in court, leaving me w my dad and abusive step mum, when i finally moved out 2 years ago i got back in touch with my mum and never got an official apology. (stuff like, oh we were both in the wrong etc) and when i moved out my dad tried manipulating me into moving back in by saying he has cancer, said i was going to hell and ill never be happy in life ~(wrong, im booming love x) and also he commit fraud in my name which could have gotten me arrested <3
well that is garbage parents 
not even the tip of the troubles lov!!!! literally given me years of trauma i will probaly never overcome as they follow me into every relationship i ever have with anyone <333333333 i just hope ill be a better parent one day. they are such miserable people.
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:20
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wug wrote:
Saudade wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Saudade wrote:
also for context my mum left me for almost a decade when i was 11, abducting my younger sister and being on the run for years while we battle it in court, leaving me w my dad and abusive step mum, when i finally moved out 2 years ago i got back in touch with my mum and never got an official apology. (stuff like, oh we were both in the wrong etc) and when i moved out my dad tried manipulating me into moving back in by saying he has cancer, said i was going to hell and ill never be happy in life ~(wrong, im booming love x) and also he commit fraud in my name which could have gotten me arrested <3
well that is garbage parents 
not even the tip of the troubles lov!!!! literally given me years of trauma i will probaly never overcome as they follow me into every relationship i ever have with anyone <333333333 i just hope ill be a better parent one day. they are such miserable people.
im sorry
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:21
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Idk anymore 
Date: 22-06-2020 00:21
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Maxwell wrote:
I mean yes I suppose
Like I trust em and lov them and I kno they lov me but it's not like I tell them how I feel and stuff, if that makes sense. Like my friend is like "ur not close to ur parents u cant even tell em when ur sad" but like I still see us as close llol

And no I don think ur wrong at all 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:21
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Okami wrote:
I'm pretty close with them and I love them very much, I'm closer to my dad though than my mom because he socialises a lot more and talks a lot more than my mom does, she seems like she doesn't know what to say a lot of the time, which is a bit sad though.


Also, reading what you've gone though makes me so sad. I can't understand why some parents are like that. No child should feel unsafe in their home. 
Hope it'll get better eventually though 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:21 | Times changed: 1
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Aske wrote:
you're not wrong for feeling that, if you're not comfortable with having them there then don't invite them.

i'm close with my mother, but not at all with my father. i would never invite him to anything.
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:22
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Saudade wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Idk anymore 
and thats valid
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:22
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Saudade wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I mean yes I suppose
Like I trust em and lov them and I kno they lov me but it's not like I tell them how I feel and stuff, if that makes sense. Like my friend is like "ur not close to ur parents u cant even tell em when ur sad" but like I still see us as close llol

And no I don think ur wrong at all 
i think everyone has their own interpretation of what close is defined as, and as long as ur happy with ur relationship with ur parents then its valid! 
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Date: 22-06-2020 00:24
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