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DEITY wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Waifu wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
honestly i think age of consent should be 21  worldwide........ too many pedos take advantage of the different age limits and the grooming that's happening in the socialization. 
and oh sugar dating should be illegal and more frowned upon. 

you're still a child at 18, your brain aren't even fully developed, neither is your body. 
i actually agree that 21 should be the age of consent !!! like sure there r some 18 year olds that matured really young but most of the time its not the case, even if ur mature for 18 ur usually not mature in the same way as a 40 year old
i dind't know SHIT when i was 18. i don't know shit now, but i know the red flags, the dangerous types and i can avoid them, because i'm not young, naive and trusting in the same way i was as a child. 
definetly same, as soon as i turned 20 i changed so much and im still growing a lot all the time

back then i was easily manipulated and people used me and i didnt even notice it
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:28
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Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
okay but you said grooming
yes which still can happen even if that person is over 18 and there's a large age gap.
i don't think so. grooming is when an adult "prepares" a child and they have sex with them when they turn legal age
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
Date: 21-08-2020 20:28
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
yes which still can happen even if that person is over 18 and there's a large age gap.
i don't think so. grooming is when an adult "prepares" a child and they have sex with them when they turn legal age
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:30
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DEITY wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
i don't think so. grooming is when an adult "prepares" a child and they have sex with them when they turn legal age
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:31
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wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
i don't think so. grooming is when an adult "prepares" a child and they have sex with them when they turn legal age
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
that's a more normal age gap, since they're both actual ADULTS. still a big difference between your initial post and questions. 
Date: 21-08-2020 20:31
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
care to elaborate? how would an adult groom another (normal functioning) adult?
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:32
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Alam wrote:
Claire wrote:
Beat me to it.
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:32
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
"Grooming is the process by which an offender draws a victim into a sexual relationship and maintains that relationship in secrecy."

it's more prevalent in child sexual abuse cases, but it can happen to adults as well. 
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
that's a more normal age gap, since they're both actual ADULTS. still a big difference between your initial post and questions. 
sure but i was just curious about the adults grooming adults kind of thing
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:33
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wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
care to elaborate? how would an adult groom another (normal functioning) adult?
https://www.anncrafttrust.org/signs-of-grooming-in-adults-what-to-watch-out-for/ 
Date: 21-08-2020 20:33
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
and 18 year old can sleep with whoever over (15?16?) ig
if they want to date someone then yes too its legal and it doesnt have to not work and everyone gets their feelings hurt anyway
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:34
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
acidreflux wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
care to elaborate? how would an adult groom another (normal functioning) adult?
https://www.anncrafttrust.org/signs-of-grooming-in-adults-what-to-watch-out-for/ 
interesting
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:36
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Bloodflowers wrote:
i'd totally date someone older than me and they can try to hurt me just like anyone my age

and it reminds me when i at 19 slept with a 26 year old and they kept spamming me to convince me to meet them again because they "loved" me", i was called the bad guy so this whole thing with people saying older people take advantage of younger people doesnt hold up
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:37
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DEITY wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
i can only imagine that being a possibility if the victim has mental problems like unable to think clearly for themselves and a predator taking advantage of that.... but a normal 25 year old being groomed by a 30 year old? nah i don't think so. i've never heard of that before at least
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
care to elaborate? how would an adult groom another (normal functioning) adult?
being manipulated n abused can happen to anyone no matter if they r mentally ill or not idk what more to say
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:38
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
i think it's worth mentioning how different we treat the question depending on who it is about..

if we see it from the 18 real olds perspective we usually think that of course they should be able to date a 40 year old if they want. it's their choice

but if we turn the question around and ask "is it morally right for the 40 year old to date the 18 year old?" we aren't so quick to answer
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:39
Slave2Master
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Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
Slave2Master wrote:
Waifu wrote:
u really do not need mental problems for that to happen no
care to elaborate? how would an adult groom another (normal functioning) adult?
being manipulated n abused can happen to anyone no matter if they r mentally ill or not idk what more to say
i agree with that but i'm not sure if i would call it grooming if we're talking about adults. this is actually the first time i've read about that term in that manner
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Date: 21-08-2020 20:40
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