hutsu wrote:Ataraxia wrote:hutsu wrote:
yay someone i can relate to
i think i have phases where i love treating myself with cute lingerie but now isn't one of them and it's surreal to own so many of them. i have no idea how many of them actually fit me, i was thinking about roughly sorting them by size so that i could have a reasonable amount in use and get different ones from storage when i loose/gain weight
uugh buying new cute lingerie and wearing it is the best feeling. i mean i have some bras that are necessary for work, strapless clothes, working out etc. but 90% is just for my enjoyment. i do really need to go through my collection. i have them scattered between two houses at the moment, and i know for sure a lot of them are way too small. underwear and shoes are my biggest expenses

i'm with you!! i love wearing pretty lingerie and it 100% makes me carry myself better. i haven't in a long while though, i should go through all of them and it seems.......exhausting. but i'm moving apartments so i need to sort everything anyway. not looking into this part of organisation though, i guess i'm feelings some sort of remorse for having way too many.
i was super into shoes at some point too, but then decided to invest in a couple of quality pairs and stop buying new ones all the time. i still have a few i don't need and i plan on selling/donating them once i get settled. all my shoes fit in 1 moving box though so it's not that bad imo.... i live in finland so i need a few pairs for different seasons/weathers/terrains etc.
i always focus on quality over quantity when it comes to shoes. like i dont mind dropping 100-200 bucks on a pair, because i know theyll last many years and keep me warm and dry. once in a while i do splurge on some nice heels or like recently, i bought myself a pair of summer boots (basically my winter boots, just without the wool lining lmao). on the bras, i never intentionally buy full price, i always wait until theres a sale, but sometimes i get impulsive thoughts lmao.