Claire wrote:Anachronism wrote:
I think it's kinda silly women fret about going grey. Salt and pepper hair is sexy and distinguished in a man. Why not in a woman? Think its cuz women are objectified and infantilized. Youth fetishization ties into that imo!
Tho I get it think I'm mostly upset cuz I'm not even 30 yet and I'm also not even close to feeling accomplished with my life like I'm too young for this shit
yea i think youre right like i dont wanna say its silly to feel a way because of how society brainwashed you itno fetishizing youth but its like not a good thing and like if i really unpack why i feel a way about it in regard to like patriarchy maybe ill feel better about it
honestly im more fucked up about like 'not being a redhead' anymore than like being grey.
er the future potential of no longer being a redhead its not that bad i still look like anna toward the start of the movie