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am i mean
Callisto
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Well, he can order stuff from the store himself if you have that option where you live. But honestly, if a person asks something of somebody else, the least they can do is to accept a no and not gulit trip. Idc, he's behaving like a  child so no, you are not mean. 
Private
Princess of Pop



I'd understand if it was not money related and he just felt bad.. like he came down with a cold, and gave you money to buy something...

but this?
man what the actual fuck lmaooo 
Private
Princess of Pop



I've read your answers to the comments here and girl
> not attracted anymore
> basically useless
> a clingy crybaby
> is a grown-ass man with a BIG age gap between you two

girl... please take the trash out
Cobain
International Star



UHGHGHGHHGGH i answered him, right??? and i kept it nice bc i just do NOT have the energy for this rn.
i said "i thought you said earlier you felt better, and i know it often becomes SO much when i shop for us both. sure i could've asked what you wanted, but i just didn't ask bc i didn't feel like shopping for the two of us. because it often becomes so much" 
so like. it gets heavy. and expensive, that's what i mean

and now he answered and IFUKJJKDKJFDSKJFDKJLFDKJLFDKJLF
"so, you think that if i felt well, i would've been so lazy? didn't i say something about that i started feeling worse again? maybe i didn't say it very clearly then, but i thought that if you were going to the store you could buy me cigs, a coke and a frozen pizza or something. i think i do very much for you quite often, but when i need help i have to beg for it and also hear how hard it is for you to help me. it's clear you're taking me for granted in a way that's not nice. i don't wanna argue about this, it's just unnecessary. but i don't think it's fair"

that first thing he wrote..... hmmm boy yeah i've done the shopping for you before for no reason other than that you're feeling lazy or tired or whatever the fuck so. AND I DO SHIT FOR HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! idk why he makes it sound like i don't?!?!???!?!?!?! who the FUCK makes dinner most of the time??? do the dishes in HIS fucking apartment?!?!??! and yeah he does the shopping when i spend the night there too, i'd say it's quite equal there. BUT i sometimes shop for him when we're not even spending the night together. lol. and again how i pay for so much. ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
Cobain
International Star



like i'm gonna end up in the FUCKING store anyways i just know it
whenever we argue he goes on and on about how it's not about winning or losing in arguments like these but somehow i always fucking lose anyways lmfao
Cobain
International Star



what a DUMB thing to argue about honestly wtf even is this im embarrassed
Private
Princess of Pop



cobain wrote:

" i think i do very much for you quite often, but when i need help i have to beg for it and also hear how hard it is for you to help me. it's clear you're taking me for granted in a way that's not nice. i don't wanna argue about this, it's just unnecessary. but i don't think it's fair"

Girl, that's like...
A total manipulator right there.
Playing that "boohoo I do everything for you why won't you for me" card, trying to make you feel all bad and guilty, and it's sadly working as you came here asking if you're mean, and no you're not
he's just... ugh...
Pathetic
I hate ... HATE.. weak men. So disgusting.

dump him, get your own place, and get away from him as much as possible, please.
Callisto
World Famous



I don't get it, I don't see my partner as a person to "help me" whenever I want to. Why does he expect it so much? I would just tell him to accept a no. Idk what's fair to him but you two clearly have a different understanding. A coke isn't really life essential anyway. 
Cobain
International Star



Abby wrote:
cobain wrote:

" i think i do very much for you quite often, but when i need help i have to beg for it and also hear how hard it is for you to help me. it's clear you're taking me for granted in a way that's not nice. i don't wanna argue about this, it's just unnecessary. but i don't think it's fair"
Girl, that's like...
A total manipulator right there.
Playing that "boohoo I do everything for you why won't you for me" card, trying to make you feel all bad and guilty, and it's sadly working as you came here asking if you're mean, and no you're not
he's just... ugh...
Pathetic
I hate ... HATE.. weak men. So disgusting.

dump him, get your own place, and get away from him as much as possible, please.
luckily i have my own place, so we don't live together. but we're neighbors hhhhhh. and let me add that the store is right around the corner, it takes like 1-2 minutes to go there lmfao.
i'm trying to get a new place tho and i feel like it'd be easier to break up with him then. but it's hard and i don't think i can or should wait until then. i just ... don't really know when to do it. there's never a right time, i know that. but it's so hard LOL i hate this
Private
Princess of Pop



cobain wrote:
Abby wrote:
cobain wrote:

" i think i do very much for you quite often, but when i need help i have to beg for it and also hear how hard it is for you to help me. it's clear you're taking me for granted in a way that's not nice. i don't wanna argue about this, it's just unnecessary. but i don't think it's fair"
Girl, that's like...
A total manipulator right there.
Playing that "boohoo I do everything for you why won't you for me" card, trying to make you feel all bad and guilty, and it's sadly working as you came here asking if you're mean, and no you're not
he's just... ugh...
Pathetic
I hate ... HATE.. weak men. So disgusting.

dump him, get your own place, and get away from him as much as possible, please.
luckily i have my own place, so we don't live together. but we're neighbors hhhhhh. and let me add that the store is right around the corner, it takes like 1-2 minutes to go there lmfao.
i'm trying to get a new place tho and i feel like it'd be easier to break up with him then. but it's hard and i don't think i can or should wait until then. i just ... don't really know when to do it. there's never a right time, i know that. but it's so hard LOL i hate this
exactly, there is NEVER a right time, meaning that as soon as possible is the best
you yourself know that it's a waste of time, so the sooner the better really
unless you're willing to let it drag more and more
Cobain
International Star



Callisto wrote:
I don't get it, I don't see my partner as a person to "help me" whenever I want to. Why does he expect it so much? I would just tell him to accept a no. Idk what's fair to him but you two clearly have a different understanding. A coke isn't really life essential anyway. 
yeah idk, he's just too dependent on me. if he's so incapable to do ANYTHING; how the fuck did he manage n cope before he met me??? he DID manage n cope bc he didn't have someone to do everything for him ughhh
Cobain
International Star



i think maybe... that i should buy a new tv and then break up. smth like that
i currently have his bedroom tv bc mine broke. and he lent it to me right as we became a couple bc he brought it over and then we fucked for the first time lmfao. but if i break up i'd have to give it back eventually, so we'd have to meet. it would be very uncomfy. so i think i need to sort out the tv situation first
and i'm gonna ask my mom to help me with it, i'd feel shitty if i asked him to drive me + the tv and then break up with him afterwards
Cobain
International Star



oh right he used to dislike what i wore if he thought it was "too revealing"
bc he said other men will look at me or whatever. something along those lines. but i think i shut him the fuck up bc i got mad at him every time he said that and i told him that's their fucking issue, not mine. let people look i dont give a flying fuck. NOT MY PROBLEM. and he definitely shouldn't care if someone is simply LOOKING at his girlfriend. who gives a shit?
he hasn't said anything this summer at least

i don't even wanna know how he'd be if i went out partying. i haven't been to a party due to covid but i just know he'd be so annoying if i went out.
he claims to be a feminist but he sure doesn't act like one
Private
World Famous



cobain wrote:
i think maybe... that i should buy a new tv and then break up. smth like that
i currently have his bedroom tv bc mine broke. and he lent it to me right as we became a couple bc he brought it over and then we fucked for the first time lmfao. but if i break up i'd have to give it back eventually, so we'd have to meet. it would be very uncomfy. so i think i need to sort out the tv situation first
and i'm gonna ask my mom to help me with it, i'd feel shitty if i asked him to drive me + the tv and then break up with him afterwards
I find cheap TVs thru facebook marketplace mostly
Gilmore
World Famous



These are the kind of people that make me wish I was gay
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