Barbarella wrote:kagura wrote:
ok i gotta ask if this is a common thing because this has happened to me more than once...
when i've told some men that i don't wanna have sex with them,their reaction is "oh i see you've been sexually abused before and now you can't trust men anymore. but trust me i'm a safe person"
yeahhh...that sentence was exactly why no one is gonna have sex with you
there's this guy in town who's a full on piece of shit abuser, and he tried to get one of his employees to fuck him (he managed a walmart and prayed on the young girls working there) and when she told him that she was asexual he told her that there was clearly something wrong with her and she needed to "figure that shit out" if she wanted a "worthwhile life"
yiaksss...