kagura wrote:
okay bad date story; i talked with this guy on tinder. he seemed decent and okay, so i wanted to meet him irl
first it was okay-ish. i mean he talked very much and i kinda felt like i don't get a change to talk that much, but i was like okay at least the conversation doesn't die and maybe he's nervous so he talks much.
well okay then he started talking like we are in a relationship, and he started saying very random stuff like "hehe are you sure that if i come to your place over night your ex doesn't just come there with his keys to beat me up??" and i was like what the actual fucking fuck
but it just gets worse.. he starts talking about how he feels like his dead mother is present and he wants to do some ritual to summon her there
then he starts to tell about how our horoscopes is a perfect match and universe has brought us together, and how he's been missing me all of his life and i'm his missing piece. and he hasn't felt alive since he started talking with me and he's so amazed that i want him
and i'm there like ..........i do not want you, BYE
afterwards i nicely told him that i'm not interested of seeing him anymore or keep talking with him, good luck in life! and he hits me with "why?? i don't understand,we had connection... you just wanna throw that away?"
obliviously i blocked him after and it's been 4 months but i'm still lowkey scared because he knows how i look and i might run into him somewhere
also a nice story; i matched with this guy on tinder and we talked, he didn't really seem like my type and i watched his profile like lmao why did i even give him a like. but he was nice and he asked me for a coffee and said "sorry if it's too soon to ask, but it's easier to meet as soon as possible because people tend to be different irl and online". so i was like yea he right to and what i have to loose anyway
it was the best desicions i've made this year. i'm not even sure why but right when we started talking irl i was like damn take off your clothes already
well that didn't happen on our coffee dates, but we planned next dates to bar to have a beer or few. well it was one beer and then i was like yeah you wanna hit the bong at my place i'm not really a drinker and he's like thank god me either let's go
now we have been dating for 3 months and we don't date other people.. we still get to know each others so it's not like we have committed to be in a relationship. but maybe maybe maybe