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devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
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From my experience (not lgbtq but kpop but they’re mostly lgbtq as well me thinks) ppl are pretty attentive like usually they try to make u feel welcomed, have you been there before and how was it?
Ah see that’s the thing,,, I’ve been going to like some of the groups since November (not this specific one but it’s generally some combination of the same people) and everyone is really friendly and accommodating “like oh it’s Fine if you come and don’t speak don’t worry” but it’s just rly not getting any easier so even if the people are really nice it’s rly exhausting 
Oh i see, how would you prefer a new group to be? Also what makes it exhausting? Is it that people are trying to make u talk when u don’t wanna or perhaps that people are being loud etc?
Well there is this one group that’s very low key, usually like five people and we do a round of what we want to talk about so I have an easier time in that one, which is why I’m having some hopes about the need one because there are at least some overhanging topics to talk about?
but yeah it’s more of the second part, like it’s clearly very fine that I don’t talk and no one ever pressured me to but it makes it rly hard to be part of the convo espec since there are a handful of people who tend to take up a lot of the space and are clearly already quite good friends???
also just exhausting being so anxious a whole weekend just for one event yanno
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misjel wrote:
I don’t rly nerd about anything so if i were to go to that thingy i’d say

hello i’m michelle she/her ((((straight bye)))))) I don’t reeeeaaallly nerd about anything i more go in phases, but i’d say that i like drawing pixel dolls, and oh oh genshin i kinda dug myself into a hole and played it religiously for a year. Aa for the third one hmmmmmm idk i like reading up on things, i’m currently reading a book about justice, it’s super chunky but we’ll see >:3
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devilcake wrote:
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Otherwise you could frame it as ”oh haha this chat has been moving pretty quickly, could someone give me a recap?” But yes i don’t think it’s weird as u formulated it before

yes forcing urself >:3
The chat is so dess though and i joined it in January 😭😭😭😭

I will…. Next month (my therapist is shaking her head somewhere in the background rn I swear, sorry malin)
Hehee if lgbtq groups aren’t your jam perhaps u could look for other potential groups?
Yeah this might be an idea and then I could bring a friend maybe, I just don’t know any/most seem to be very uni adjacent :’(
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devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
I don’t rly nerd about anything so if i were to go to that thingy i’d say

hello i’m michelle she/her ((((straight bye)))))) I don’t reeeeaaallly nerd about anything i more go in phases, but i’d say that i like drawing pixel dolls, and oh oh genshin i kinda dug myself into a hole and played it religiously for a year. Aa for the third one hmmmmmm idk i like reading up on things, i’m currently reading a book about justice, it’s super chunky but we’ll see >:3
Hahahaha honestly that seems like a solid nerd inteoduction
Like I don’t think u can say I like drawing pixel doll clothes without being a bit of a nerd I’m sorry 
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Ah see that’s the thing,,, I’ve been going to like some of the groups since November (not this specific one but it’s generally some combination of the same people) and everyone is really friendly and accommodating “like oh it’s Fine if you come and don’t speak don’t worry” but it’s just rly not getting any easier so even if the people are really nice it’s rly exhausting 
Oh i see, how would you prefer a new group to be? Also what makes it exhausting? Is it that people are trying to make u talk when u don’t wanna or perhaps that people are being loud etc?
Well there is this one group that’s very low key, usually like five people and we do a round of what we want to talk about so I have an easier time in that one, which is why I’m having some hopes about the need one because there are at least some overhanging topics to talk about?
but yeah it’s more of the second part, like it’s clearly very fine that I don’t talk and no one ever pressured me to but it makes it rly hard to be part of the convo espec since there are a handful of people who tend to take up a lot of the space and are clearly already quite good friends???
also just exhausting being so anxious a whole weekend just for one event yanno
I see, smaller groups could usually be easier as it generally is easier to chip in and if nobody puts the pressure on you to speak it could feel less demanding. It’s a dilemma haha but i see ur point about oeople already being close friends so shen they speak to u it could be in a different tone aaa ashhaa aahaca damn estps i’m moving to istp

whata bout meeting ppl up 1:1? I had a friend i met on a kpop random dance play, then later she messaged me like hey i rly vibe with you, wanna grab a boba this weekend? I barely knew her other than the convos we had during that one time but we had a great time and now we’re close friends >:3
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
I don’t rly nerd about anything so if i were to go to that thingy i’d say

hello i’m michelle she/her ((((straight bye)))))) I don’t reeeeaaallly nerd about anything i more go in phases, but i’d say that i like drawing pixel dolls, and oh oh genshin i kinda dug myself into a hole and played it religiously for a year. Aa for the third one hmmmmmm idk i like reading up on things, i’m currently reading a book about justice, it’s super chunky but we’ll see >:3
Hahahaha honestly that seems like a solid nerd inteoduction
Like I don’t think u can say I like drawing pixel doll clothes without being a bit of a nerd I’m sorry 
You are so right, i started out being like hmm i don’t think i nerd abt smth that much but as i was writing i was like nvm i think i do cx swagswag
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misjel wrote:
But i think u definitely could find 3 things to talk about as the definition of nerding it quite broad like u could say that you used to be rlyyyy into twilight and that u don’t obsessively save quotes or smth but that it still holds a special place in my heart etc etc
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
The chat is so dess though and i joined it in January 😭😭😭😭

I will…. Next month (my therapist is shaking her head somewhere in the background rn I swear, sorry malin)
Hehee if lgbtq groups aren’t your jam perhaps u could look for other potential groups?
Yeah this might be an idea and then I could bring a friend maybe, I just don’t know any/most seem to be very uni adjacent :’(
Aww i see, perhaps look up facebook or idk where do ppl find groups😭
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devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
Oh i see, how would you prefer a new group to be? Also what makes it exhausting? Is it that people are trying to make u talk when u don’t wanna or perhaps that people are being loud etc?
Well there is this one group that’s very low key, usually like five people and we do a round of what we want to talk about so I have an easier time in that one, which is why I’m having some hopes about the need one because there are at least some overhanging topics to talk about?
but yeah it’s more of the second part, like it’s clearly very fine that I don’t talk and no one ever pressured me to but it makes it rly hard to be part of the convo espec since there are a handful of people who tend to take up a lot of the space and are clearly already quite good friends???
also just exhausting being so anxious a whole weekend just for one event yanno
I see, smaller groups could usually be easier as it generally is easier to chip in and if nobody puts the pressure on you to speak it could feel less demanding. It’s a dilemma haha but i see ur point about oeople already being close friends so shen they speak to u it could be in a different tone aaa ashhaa aahaca damn estps i’m moving to istp

whata bout meeting ppl up 1:1? I had a friend i met on a kpop random dance play, then later she messaged me like hey i rly vibe with you, wanna grab a boba this weekend? I barely knew her other than the convos we had during that one time but we had a great time and now we’re close friends >:3
Haha I don’t know enough about the personality types to understand this but e types scare me on account of being so far off on the I scale lolol 

yeahhh I’ve done that once or twice and it usually goes pretty well! It’s just hard to find people who r both Swedish n live somewhat closeby I think, hahaha I should go on one of those cringe looking for people subreddits. Anyways this is actually a very good idea thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
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devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
But i think u definitely could find 3 things to talk about as the definition of nerding it quite broad like u could say that you used to be rlyyyy into twilight and that u don’t obsessively save quotes or smth but that it still holds a special place in my heart etc etc

Um…..  😳😳😳😳😳okay so maybe I’m very nerdy about twilight……
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devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
Hehee if lgbtq groups aren’t your jam perhaps u could look for other potential groups?
Yeah this might be an idea and then I could bring a friend maybe, I just don’t know any/most seem to be very uni adjacent :’(
Aww i see, perhaps look up facebook or idk where do ppl find groups😭
Ghhhhggh I need to make new Facebook before I’m ready to touch any Facebook group, can’t have people see my write “PIE!!!!!” Over and over again as a status phase
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Well there is this one group that’s very low key, usually like five people and we do a round of what we want to talk about so I have an easier time in that one, which is why I’m having some hopes about the need one because there are at least some overhanging topics to talk about?
but yeah it’s more of the second part, like it’s clearly very fine that I don’t talk and no one ever pressured me to but it makes it rly hard to be part of the convo espec since there are a handful of people who tend to take up a lot of the space and are clearly already quite good friends???
also just exhausting being so anxious a whole weekend just for one event yanno
I see, smaller groups could usually be easier as it generally is easier to chip in and if nobody puts the pressure on you to speak it could feel less demanding. It’s a dilemma haha but i see ur point about oeople already being close friends so shen they speak to u it could be in a different tone aaa ashhaa aahaca damn estps i’m moving to istp

whata bout meeting ppl up 1:1? I had a friend i met on a kpop random dance play, then later she messaged me like hey i rly vibe with you, wanna grab a boba this weekend? I barely knew her other than the convos we had during that one time but we had a great time and now we’re close friends >:3
Haha I don’t know enough about the personality types to understand this but e types scare me on account of being so far off on the I scale lolol 

yeahhh I’ve done that once or twice and it usually goes pretty well! It’s just hard to find people who r both Swedish n live somewhat closeby I think, hahaha I should go on one of those cringe looking for people subreddits. Anyways this is actually a very good idea thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏💚💚💚
Hahahah estps are pretty sensor driven people like they look out for mew things to do and experiences etc, probably like things to be quick paced and could be rather loud. Istps have sensing as their second preferred fuction but their first one is introverted thinking ok i’ll stop add mbti to my nerd list i’m blaming stuartlena
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misjel wrote:
I believe in you go go gooooo!!!!
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
But i think u definitely could find 3 things to talk about as the definition of nerding it quite broad like u could say that you used to be rlyyyy into twilight and that u don’t obsessively save quotes or smth but that it still holds a special place in my heart etc etc

Um…..  😳😳😳😳😳okay so maybe I’m very nerdy about twilight……
I was gonna say u “don’t save quotes anymore but..” but seems like ur still doing that, add to the nerd list! >:3
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misjel wrote:
devilcake wrote:
jelalalalalala wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Yeah this might be an idea and then I could bring a friend maybe, I just don’t know any/most seem to be very uni adjacent :’(
Aww i see, perhaps look up facebook or idk where do ppl find groups😭
Ghhhhggh I need to make new Facebook before I’m ready to touch any Facebook group, can’t have people see my write “PIE!!!!!” Over and over again as a status phase
Hahahhahahaah what’s the story behind this
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