Barbarella wrote:Eostre wrote:
I'm way too judgy about how ppl dress and tbh for widely different reasons I'd probably dislike most of ppl here based on clothing style alone lmao but yeah im less judgy about it now tho bc like i dress weird af as well
People who live at the gym and such like ooof
while I don't necessarily want to condone this - I think there's
some value to it somewhere. The way we dress when we have a choice is the outward presentation of how we want/expect to be perceived.
You should read
MEND! A Refashioning Manifesto
I got tore up with how she described fashion within Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, it made a lot of sense
I dress shitty myself so it's like I would not want to be my own friend most days so im just like gonna be superficially judgy.. Honestly tho, the only reson is bc i attach x styles and outfits to ppl earlier in my life and their vibes and that's sorta something vp is a lesson in too bc most ppl here I would never approach irl if i only knew how they dressed. Like i can act past it now, but my brain still goes there automatically.