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as someone who got drunk for the first time on whiskey, please choose something not so strong. like a cider, thats a better start 
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:17
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devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
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I have always had a lot of pride in not doing drugs, smoking or drinking so even if its stupid to you, its just different morals. You don’t have to call me stupid for that?
There is no real reason to take pride in it because it kind of half implores that one shouldn’t be proud of it if one has done those things

anyways again I’m saying I used to have your mindset, even the pride thing to an extent, and I’m glad I got over it because in hindsight yes, it was stupid. If you don’t want to do those things because of health reasons do it for that, not for a sense of pride or made up idea of alcohol/drug virginity 
Why would you be proud of drinking ?
Why would you be proud of not drinking (unless you’ve already had an issue with it)
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:18
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devilcake wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
There is no real reason to take pride in it because it kind of half implores that one shouldn’t be proud of it if one has done those things

anyways again I’m saying I used to have your mindset, even the pride thing to an extent, and I’m glad I got over it because in hindsight yes, it was stupid. If you don’t want to do those things because of health reasons do it for that, not for a sense of pride or made up idea of alcohol/drug virginity 
Why would you be proud of drinking ?
Why would you be proud of not drinking (unless you’ve already had an issue with it)
Or honestly more specifically: never having had a sip. That’s my main point here.
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:19
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Abigail4 wrote:
I love that i got so many mixed responses. ✍️

im leaning towards no. I feel like i would regret it and feel so ashamed but its so tempting
obciously alcohol does something for people since its so popular. It does make me feel left out but since when is the majority always in the right??


ahhhhh so many thoughts 🦀 
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:20
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wug wrote:
I'm a teetotaller  
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:20
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Abigail4 wrote:
bee wrote:
as someone who got drunk for the first time on whiskey, please choose something not so strong. like a cider, thats a better start 
Its the only thing i have
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:22
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Arix wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
Arix wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
What if i regret it?? Or become an alcoholic??
I really doubt that you’d become an alcoholic just by tasting alcohol. If you’re easily addicted to consumable stuff and start regularly drinking when you feel really bad to feel better then its a possibility. But becoming an alcoholic takes years and a lot of self destructive behavior my friend.

My personal experience with alcohol is that i only drink because i think it tastes nice or fits the occasion. I never drink to get drunk. I feel like a lot of young people think that thats the only reason you drink when it really doesn’t have to be. 

i do drink to get tipsy sometimes, only when there’s social interactions involved and i need to let loose a little since im a bit of an introvert. But i think you need some experience to know what your limits are and how much you can drink. 

i do have a lot of tips if you’re interested hhaha 
I’m a very obsessive person by nature so i can see myself  becoming addicted to things easily
im either 0 or 100 👌
Well if thats the case then you should start by thinking a lot about it. I dont think trying new unfamiliar things are to any particular help but i dont think staying away from it is either. You have to practice self control and if you think youre prone to different types of addiction then i think its good to talk to a therapist about it. Maybe they would advise you to stay away from alcohol or other things or maybe encourage you to try it just to help with self control?  
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:22
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Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
There is no real reason to take pride in it because it kind of half implores that one shouldn’t be proud of it if one has done those things

anyways again I’m saying I used to have your mindset, even the pride thing to an extent, and I’m glad I got over it because in hindsight yes, it was stupid. If you don’t want to do those things because of health reasons do it for that, not for a sense of pride or made up idea of alcohol/drug virginity 
Why would you be proud of drinking ?
Why would you be proud of not drinking (unless you’ve already had an issue with it)
I think its respectable. It shows you have a strong charachter and self control (which i struggle with)
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:22
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Abigail4 wrote:
Arix wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
Arix wrote:
I really doubt that you’d become an alcoholic just by tasting alcohol. If you’re easily addicted to consumable stuff and start regularly drinking when you feel really bad to feel better then its a possibility. But becoming an alcoholic takes years and a lot of self destructive behavior my friend.

My personal experience with alcohol is that i only drink because i think it tastes nice or fits the occasion. I never drink to get drunk. I feel like a lot of young people think that thats the only reason you drink when it really doesn’t have to be. 

i do drink to get tipsy sometimes, only when there’s social interactions involved and i need to let loose a little since im a bit of an introvert. But i think you need some experience to know what your limits are and how much you can drink. 

i do have a lot of tips if you’re interested hhaha 
I’m a very obsessive person by nature so i can see myself  becoming addicted to things easily
im either 0 or 100 👌
Well if thats the case then you should start by thinking a lot about it. I dont think trying new unfamiliar things are to any particular help but i dont think staying away from it is either. You have to practice self control and if you think youre prone to different types of addiction then i think its good to talk to a therapist about it. Maybe they would advise you to stay away from alcohol or other things or maybe encourage you to try it just to help with self control?  
I’m definitively not supposed to drink alcohol lol but that’s not only because im easily addicted. Hehe 🥴 

But thanks  for your advice! I don’t think i would get addictwd from just trying A sip but i can see its easy to get into bad habits
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:25 | Times changed: 1
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devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
I love that i got so many mixed responses. ✍️

im leaning towards no. I feel like i would regret it and feel so ashamed but its so tempting
obciously alcohol does something for people since its so popular. It does make me feel left out but since when is the majority always in the right??


ahhhhh so many thoughts 🦀 
this is what im trying to get at. You dont need to get drunk, you dont need to drink regularly or at all, i dont think you should open the alcohol you have on hand with the intention of getting drunk if thats not something youre interested in (and if you are, u should probably not do it alone). What im saying is that getting over the mindset that there is some sort of prestige in never having had a sip, is a good thing, because it allows you to join in on the conversations and whatnot. Like not in the sense that you need to drink alcohol with other people, but if someone asks if you want a beer u can say you dont like the taste, or if someone orders a drink and talks about the flavour you can have a sip to taste because you no longer have that mental wall up.

im not really trying to argue that you should start drinking.
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:27
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Arix wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
Arix wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
I’m a very obsessive person by nature so i can see myself  becoming addicted to things easily
im either 0 or 100 👌
Well if thats the case then you should start by thinking a lot about it. I dont think trying new unfamiliar things are to any particular help but i dont think staying away from it is either. You have to practice self control and if you think youre prone to different types of addiction then i think its good to talk to a therapist about it. Maybe they would advise you to stay away from alcohol or other things or maybe encourage you to try it just to help with self control?  
I’m definitively not supposed to drink alcohol lol but that’s not only because im easily addicted. Hehe 🥴 

But thanks  for your advice! I don’t think i would get addictwd from just trying Witherspoon but i can see its easy to get into bad habits
Yeah i think thats a good mindset to have! Just dont drink a lot haha, you probably wont though since alcohol always tastes bad in the beginning 
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:28
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devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
Why would you be proud of drinking ?
Why would you be proud of not drinking (unless you’ve already had an issue with it)
I think its respectable. It shows you have a strong charachter and self control (which i struggle with)

its just a life decision, its only deservant of any sort of pride if you as you say struggle with self control i suppose but i think its iffy to value that specifically in the act of drinking as opposed to in the self control because it rly just makes it sound like u think higher of people who havent ever tried alcohol

in fact, drinking and not becoming addicted shows equal and/or more self control in my opinion. It always easy to deny urself something that isnt part of your life to begin with imo
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:31
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Aria wrote:
start slow and then see how you handle it
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:33
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Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
I love that i got so many mixed responses. ✍️

im leaning towards no. I feel like i would regret it and feel so ashamed but its so tempting
obciously alcohol does something for people since its so popular. It does make me feel left out but since when is the majority always in the right??


ahhhhh so many thoughts 🦀 
this is what im trying to get at. You dont need to get drunk, you dont need to drink regularly or at all, i dont think you should open the alcohol you have on hand with the intention of getting drunk if thats not something youre interested in (and if you are, u should probably not do it alone). What im saying is that getting over the mindset that there is some sort of prestige in never having had a sip, is a good thing, because it allows you to join in on the conversations and whatnot. Like not in the sense that you need to drink alcohol with other people, but if someone asks if you want a beer u can say you dont like the taste, or if someone orders a drink and talks about the flavour you can have a sip to taste because you no longer have that mental wall up.

im not really trying to argue that you should start drinking.
The reason i want to try drinking is to get a little tipsy/feel different. I wouldnt want a sip just for the taste (then i could just try something new that isn’t alcohol)
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Date: 14-08-2022 17:33
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Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Abigail4 wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Why would you be proud of not drinking (unless you’ve already had an issue with it)
I think its respectable. It shows you have a strong charachter and self control (which i struggle with)

its just a life decision, its only deservant of any sort of pride if you as you say struggle with self control i suppose but i think its iffy to value that specifically in the act of drinking as opposed to in the self control because it rly just makes it sound like u think higher of people who havent ever tried alcohol

in fact, drinking and not becoming addicted shows equal and/or more self control in my opinion. It always easy to deny urself something that isnt part of your life to begin with imo
I can’t argue with you that i dont tend to sit on my high horse lmaoo
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