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EtherealPJM
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EtherealPJM wrote:
gender and sexuality are both very complicated, in my opinion its a spectrum and not everyone fits into certain things,  some people just label themselves as queer because they are unsure of their sexuality and/or gender. genders not really real anyways, so I can see how this discourse can start, it's all very confusing lol
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Date: 13-01-2023 16:44
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Honestly don’t see how he/him lesbian is any different from like drag queens  using she/her pronouns lol

but I’m not even a lesbian and I don’t think cis men should use the label… got set up with a guy and he talked about how he turned these lesbians into having sex with him lol wtf gross I turned him down 
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Date: 13-01-2023 16:57
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ouch wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Honestly don’t see how he/him lesbian is any different from like drag queens  using she/her pronouns lol

but I’m not even a lesbian and I don’t think cis men should use the label… got set up with a guy and he talked about how he turned these lesbians into having sex with him lol wtf gross I turned him down 
Wym, a he/him lesbian would be their actual personality/sense of self or whatever, while most drag queens only use she/her in character
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:01
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
ouch wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Honestly don’t see how he/him lesbian is any different from like drag queens  using she/her pronouns lol

but I’m not even a lesbian and I don’t think cis men should use the label… got set up with a guy and he talked about how he turned these lesbians into having sex with him lol wtf gross I turned him down 
Wym, a he/him lesbian would be their actual personality/sense of self or whatever, while most drag queens only use she/her in character
They don’t identify as women, just like he/him lesbians don’t identify as male 

they both use pronouns that don’t match their gender 

no one cares about drag queens but he/him lesbians get a lot of hate idgi
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:07
O7Goner
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o7Goner wrote:
Dont care, people do what they want
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:11
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autism wrote:
hot
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:15
Bimbo
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Bimbo wrote:
I didn't even know that was a thing, so I don't have an opinion on the matter
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:21
Aske
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Aske wrote:
no thoughts, maybe i'll think abt it if i meet a he/him lesbian and the concept becomes less abstract to me
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:26
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ouch wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
ouch wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Honestly don’t see how he/him lesbian is any different from like drag queens  using she/her pronouns lol

but I’m not even a lesbian and I don’t think cis men should use the label… got set up with a guy and he talked about how he turned these lesbians into having sex with him lol wtf gross I turned him down 
Wym, a he/him lesbian would be their actual personality/sense of self or whatever, while most drag queens only use she/her in character
They don’t identify as women, just like he/him lesbians don’t identify as male 

they both use pronouns that don’t match their gender 

no one cares about drag queens but he/him lesbians get a lot of hate idgi
Oh I thought u meant he/him as cis man
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Date: 13-01-2023 17:50
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Sylvan wrote:
don't care not my problem etc

also if cis gays can call each other bitch and sis then lesbians should be allowed to do whatever they want too
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:09
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toraix wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
toraix wrote:
ElaVampire wrote:
So I don't see anything wrong with he/him lesbians, as long as they don't identify as men, bc men can't be lesbians, otherwise they'd just be straight or bisexual
even though i have no experience with a man who identifies as a lesbian, i wouldnt try to argue someone over their own experience and their identity. identities are not something you get to have an opinnion on. identities just exist and if you get offended by some, you should probably reflect on your own insacurities or image that needs some work.
a man identifying as a lesbian completely defeats the point of being a lesbian, I'm not offended by how someone identifies, it's none of my business and doesn't involve at all. I understand some trans men resonate with the label due to their history, however they aren't lesbians and shouldn't call themselves lesbians when they arent
are you the one who defines what lesbian means to everyone? didnt know that, remember to remind me to update the wiki
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:20
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Azriel wrote:
Why do pronouns not equal gender again I genuinely forgot
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:28
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ouch wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Why do pronouns not equal gender again I genuinely forgot
Cus u can choose I guess , but its kind of confusing cus usually it goes hand in hand with gender identity
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:32
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Azriel wrote:
ouch wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Why do pronouns not equal gender again I genuinely forgot
Cus u can choose I guess , but its kind of confusing cus usually it goes hand in hand with gender identity
But u can choose both 

idk I googled it and it was like bc pronouns are a social construct but so is gender right
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:39
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ouch wrote:
Azriel wrote:
ouch wrote:
Azriel wrote:
Why do pronouns not equal gender again I genuinely forgot
Cus u can choose I guess , but its kind of confusing cus usually it goes hand in hand with gender identity
But u can choose both 

idk I googled it and it was like bc pronouns are a social construct but so is gender right
Meh I don't think gender is only a social construct imo, I don't see how trans people would exist then. Like woman who presents super masculine like technically looking like a man, so they follow the man stereotypes, but they still identify as women yeah. But some go from women to men, and if gender only was a social construct I would think they were ok with just presenting like a man but no dysphoria if they presented like a man (without medical intervention), and vice versa for men to women and feminine men

like I figure theres gotta be some brain thing going on that differs men from women but I don't know

idk if this made any sense even 
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Date: 13-01-2023 18:48
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