ElaVampire wrote:toraix wrote:ElaVampire wrote:
So I don't see anything wrong with he/him lesbians, as long as they don't identify as men, bc men can't be lesbians, otherwise they'd just be straight or bisexual
even though i have no experience with a man who identifies as a lesbian, i wouldnt try to argue someone over their own experience and their identity. identities are not something you get to have an opinnion on. identities just exist and if you get offended by some, you should probably reflect on your own insacurities or image that needs some work.
a man identifying as a lesbian completely defeats the point of being a lesbian, I'm not offended by how someone identifies, it's none of my business and doesn't involve at all. I understand some trans men resonate with the label due to their history, however they aren't lesbians and shouldn't call themselves lesbians when they arent
are you the one who defines what lesbian means to everyone? didnt know that, remember to remind me to update the wiki