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bee wrote:
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a relationship that triggers a psychotic break is not worth staying in im so sorry 
yeah no definitely not. so good thing we are not actually in a serious relationship lol

also the thing that triggered it was NOT a thing that should trigger anything like that. it made me realize how poor my mental health actually is and that i need to seek professional help. the bad thing was actually really just the way he handled the situation and made me feel like everything was my fault

I KNOW i just cooked for him and that he is currently sleeping in my bed, but i promise i really am being cautious now about my feelings and how much i give of myself
i know im just a stranger on the internet so ofc i dont know everything about your relationship, but id recommend breaking it off completely, and then work on your mental health/seek professional help like you said. i fear that being in this relationship would potentially set you back or make it harder if that makes sense? 
he doesnt sound like the supporting type either if he made you feel that way, so would he even be there for you while you take care of yourself..? 
well thank you for your words and opinion <3 
its always easier to suggest the best thing to do when you are watching from the outside. when you are caught in the middle of all the feelings its much harder to go against your heart. 
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Trad wife or dickmatized lol
the dick is good and all but really thats not why im here at all 
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toraix wrote:
take this with a grain of salt but uhh
both of you sound like emotionally unhealthy people in a toxic + traumatic relationship, in which the trauma you went through still bonds you together which makes it harder to separate

maybe you should both go to a therapist together and talk about this, or talk to someone you both trust in some sense bc the deeper the hole, less likely youll stay together or alive/ok/sane
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bee wrote:
but do you guys not understand that this guy dude man saw a swan on his way and sent me three pictures and two videos of said swan to me and he gathered some of its feathers for me so i can make ink pens???? its 7:48 in the morning like do you not understand how weak this makes me
no one has ever shared my excitement for birds or brought me feathers to explore my favorite hobby (writing) in a new way!!! how can i not 
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toraix wrote:
im opposing some comments in a sense that complete separation could be a trigger for either of you to spiral so i wouldnt do anything harsh before you get a chance to actually talk about things with time even if its unconfortable or hard

and we dont know your whole relationship (or atleast i dont) and you wouldnt be with him if he was 100% all evil, rarely people are

but even decent people can make toxic partners, that doesnt attack his character, just describes the situation
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bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
take this with a grain of salt but uhh
both of you sound like emotionally unhealthy people in a toxic + traumatic relationship, in which the trauma you went through still bonds you together which makes it harder to separate

maybe you should both go to a therapist together and talk about this, or talk to someone you both trust in some sense bc the deeper the hole, less likely youll stay together or alive/ok/sane
theres definitely some toxicity here. our lows are so low, but our highs, higher than what should be humanly possible. for me at least, its very much those those good times that makes me stay. its undeniable that we have something special and rare together, its not easy to let go of 
i think we need to talk and communicate more together first and foremost. he is an emotional person but his ex was very "cold" and distant from delicate feelings. so he learned not to open up anymore. one time after he opened up to me about a bunch of stuff he actually ended up apologizing for saying all that. completely broke my heart. im also very emotional and in contact with my own feelings, but i grew up in a family with lots of taboos and where you dont talk about the difficult stuff. im still learning to be the one to bring up hard topics. we both just need to be better at TALKING and find a middle ground yk
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bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
im opposing some comments in a sense that complete separation could be a trigger for either of you to spiral so i wouldnt do anything harsh before you get a chance to actually talk about things with time even if its unconfortable or hard

and we dont know your whole relationship (or atleast i dont) and you wouldnt be with him if he was 100% all evil, rarely people are

but even decent people can make toxic partners, that doesnt attack his character, just describes the situation
thank you for giving a more neutral view of the situation <3 
this is also the first really challenging thing happening between us. like is one bump on the road supposed to end it all? that feels wrong and sad. i would like to give us a chance to learn and grow from this experience. that being said, im not just putting back on my rose colored glasses and pretending nothing happened. i acknowledge the trauma i went through and stay cautious 
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toraix wrote:
bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
im opposing some comments in a sense that complete separation could be a trigger for either of you to spiral so i wouldnt do anything harsh before you get a chance to actually talk about things with time even if its unconfortable or hard

and we dont know your whole relationship (or atleast i dont) and you wouldnt be with him if he was 100% all evil, rarely people are

but even decent people can make toxic partners, that doesnt attack his character, just describes the situation
thank you for giving a more neutral view of the situation <3 
this is also the first really challenging thing happening between us. like is one bump on the road supposed to end it all? that feels wrong and sad. i would like to give us a chance to learn and grow from this experience. that being said, im not just putting back on my rose colored glasses and pretending nothing happened. i acknowledge the trauma i went through and stay cautious 
im assuming you both are under 30 so there is still hope for sure, but just remember that you need time and space for yourself too, which is harder to come buy in a situation like yours
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toraix wrote:
i genuinely dislike the modern idea that once your partner becomes toxic bc xyz you could act like they are replaceable or disposable

even the most evil people in my eyes deserve to be loved and have people who care for them, because that helps to put a stop to being evil, or spiral or lose purpose in life

if you have faith in your future together, i dont see any reason to stop trying. even if you come back even more heartbroken next time, we are still here for you.
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bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
im opposing some comments in a sense that complete separation could be a trigger for either of you to spiral so i wouldnt do anything harsh before you get a chance to actually talk about things with time even if its unconfortable or hard

and we dont know your whole relationship (or atleast i dont) and you wouldnt be with him if he was 100% all evil, rarely people are

but even decent people can make toxic partners, that doesnt attack his character, just describes the situation
thank you for giving a more neutral view of the situation <3 
this is also the first really challenging thing happening between us. like is one bump on the road supposed to end it all? that feels wrong and sad. i would like to give us a chance to learn and grow from this experience. that being said, im not just putting back on my rose colored glasses and pretending nothing happened. i acknowledge the trauma i went through and stay cautious 
im assuming you both are under 30 so there is still hope for sure, but just remember that you need time and space for yourself too, which is harder to come buy in a situation like yours
absolutely time and space for myself is important. firm boundaries are being set so i dont forget myself again 
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bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
i genuinely dislike the modern idea that once your partner becomes toxic bc xyz you could act like they are replaceable or disposable

even the most evil people in my eyes deserve to be loved and have people who care for them, because that helps to put a stop to being evil, or spiral or lose purpose in life

if you have faith in your future together, i dont see any reason to stop trying. even if you come back even more heartbroken next time, we are still here for you.
you are so sweet 
those who dare to love always win and thats the flag im raising today
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idk what he did but i get you bee. i'm also a lover girl 4live 💔
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toraix wrote:
bee wrote:
toraix wrote:
i genuinely dislike the modern idea that once your partner becomes toxic bc xyz you could act like they are replaceable or disposable

even the most evil people in my eyes deserve to be loved and have people who care for them, because that helps to put a stop to being evil, or spiral or lose purpose in life

if you have faith in your future together, i dont see any reason to stop trying. even if you come back even more heartbroken next time, we are still here for you.
you are so sweet 
those who dare to love always win and thats the flag im raising today
aww <3 thank you
and i hope your cooking turned out well
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